26/10/2019
_A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband but she that make ashamed is as rottenness in his bones* ._
```Article:✖✖ll published October```
A virtuous woman is a noble, gracious, diligent, and loving woman. She upten faithfully honors and pleases her husband, He is thankful and rejoices in God’s goodness to him through her. But an odious woman shames her husband and slowly kills him on the inside by selfishness, stubbornness, foolishness, or unfaithfulness.
The word crown here is simply means honors a person. Kings wear crowns for the honor of their office, and athletes were crowned to honor sporting achievements. A great wife honors her husband by the pleasure and esteem she brings to him, and she also crowns his authority by her own submission and believes that which she requires of her children. Also, a crown is a grand piece of jewelry, and a virtuous woman is a crown to her husband.
Rottenness in his bones is a simply means, a comparison that gives itself away by using the word “as.” Bones are the support of your anatomy, and rottenness in your bones is fatal trouble for your body. An odious wife causes horrible grief to a man’s mind and distress to his soul. In public he is ashamed he is married to her, and in private he is deeply wounded in his heart. It is a painful affliction. A woman can hardly understand it, for she was made for him, not he made for her.
Wife, humble yourself before this saying and its a warning. Forget what you think about yourself. Forget how you think or feel. Forget what your mother tells you because it's might be wrong. Even forget what your husband tells you. His praise is not the measure. That is not nearly good enough. A man who feels maritally trapped without a crown of gold may think or say a crown of thorns is good, especially in a weak moment, or when he needs something, or when his approval is expected.
Your husband has likely not told you the truth. If you ask him, he still may not. Consider well. It is hard for a husband to deeply criticize a wife, especially in matters as intimate and personal as marriage and your womanhood. Men also fear the consequences of interrupted domestic tranquility they resent having to explain the obvious, again, and or they may not believe it will do any good anyway. He is likely not as pleased as you think.
Stop kidding yourself that you are virtuous. Others know better. Virtue is very objective and visible. Your self-righteous and conceited opinions are deceitful. If you think the criticism too harsh, think about three things. An odious wife is one of the great curses of life
(Pr 30:21-23).
Internal bone disease is worth a little effort to get your attention. And saving a man’s life takes desperate measures, especially stopping such torturous murder. A bad wife is more bitter than death, according to the experienced
(Eccl 7:26).
The character and conduct that make a woman virtuous are as visible to others as her appearance. A truly gracious woman is highly respected by all others at all times (Pr 11:16).
But the stench of the odious woman cannot be hid, no matter what she thinks of herself
(Pr 27:15-16).
Most people only see the hairy and smelly pig, when told that it has a nose ring of 24k gold
(Pr 11:22).
Humble yourself!
Your children also know. They had you psychoanalyzed when they were young from seeing you interact with your husband. They knew if their father was happy and content with a wonderful wife, or if he was slowly rotting from neglect, frustration, or resistance. You will cost yourself both sons and daughters, for they will resent you for hurting their father and being so much less than what they want to be, or to have, in a marriage.
What exactly shames a man most and rots him from the inside & out;
1. A disrespectful and haughty spirit.
2. lack of frequent s*x.
3. a dirty or cluttered house.
4. too much talking & endless complains.
5. lack of creative s*x.
6. running home to mommy and daddy too much.
7. children negligence physically or emotionally.
8. laziness, a negative and complaining attitude.
9. lack of aggressive s*x, nagging.
10. lack of loyalty, poor manners in public, and a critical spirit.
11. lack of reverence, an out of shape body for attractions.
12. insubordination.
13. prudish approach to s*x.
14. self-righteousness
15. lack of smiling and praises upon his tirelessly efforts.
16. cheerfulness.
17. excessive doting on children, remembering his faults, excitement at getting away by herself. 18. bristling at correction, that she is disliked by others.
and a “I’m just fine as I am” attitude.
All these things are clearly condemned and corrected. A virtuous woman fears God above all. She seeks to exceed everything the Quran and bible teaches as the standard for great women. She esteems them, and she obeys them. Nothing else matters to her but that she pleases God and pleases her husband every day.
A virtuous wife knows God inspired. She does not care about any other opinion or pursuit, no matter what the source. She wants to be her husband’s cheerful and loving companion, his most faithful supporter, his most loyal confidant, his most ardent friend, his most tireless helper, the world’s greatest lover, a domestic goddess in household duties, a queen of hospitality and social graces, and the perfect mother of his children, as these two comprehensive passages detail.
Wife, there is only one way to be such a woman. Confess your sins to God and your husband; eliminate all bitterness and self-righteousness; repudiate your own ideas and habits; trust the Word of God without question; and cheerfully do everything written in the holy book as it is for women, without any compromise. You and your husband will be far happier for it; your children will be happier; and God will surely reward you and grand you paradise as a final home.
there is hope. The word of God can cure the rottenness in your bones, if you can help your wife believe and obey it. God created the woman for you, and He has written the perfect marriage manual for you to have a crown of pure gold. She needs to be in a place that preaches and reaches the words of God the whole counsel of God practically and powerfully. And you need to do what you can to lead, encourage, and direct her toward obeying the commandments of God.
If you are married to a virtuous woman, as measured by the word of God, then you are greatly blessed, for such a woman is a divine blessing from God to Give thanks to God alone for saving you from a slow and painful death. Take a moment to pray for your friends that married conceited, selfish, stubborn women. What can you do today to let your wife know how much you appreciate and love her?
Great blessed people think about rotting bones. It is what you will suffer, if you marry hastily or foolishly.
See the comments on Pr 31:30.
"Being single is heavenly compared to marriage to the average woman in this haughty and rebellious generation"
Virtuous women are rare, very rare. You will need to trust and believes in God because nothing is beyond his power, hunt far and wide, examine and test her character, and trust wise men to help find and prove her.
A virtuous woman is also a crown to her parent's. She is a good and well religious, first and a good wife, second She has a personal relationship with God like no other. She keeps the adversaries of the gospel from reproaching or blaspheming the word of God But her love is empty hypocrisy, if she does not love her husband the way is commanded to her God will surely taught lessons in this world.
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