29/12/2025
This is my first Christmas without my sister.
It hasn’t been easy dealing with the emotions that come with it.
If you know me well, you do know this season is my favorite time of the year. Every 25th of December, I would call home and make video calls with my siblings. My Adanne would always want to know what I was preparing. Happily, I will tell her all my plans and the delicacies I intended to make. There was always so much laughter.
We would talk for hours, until they have to beg me to end the call because I had exhausted all their data.
Oh, how I miss my sister so much. It’s still so hard to accept that she’s gone. There is so much I want to tell her. I have been in and out of the hospital since her demise, and I can’t even share it with her and it hurts.
Despite being in so much pain herself, she would still text or call to remind me of my hospital appointments. She always reassured me that as long as she was alive, I would never carry my cross alone.
Ada, what happens now that you are gone?
Chai… it is well. If I could share my years on earth, I would gladly have given you half of mine. Loosing you is loosing my mother for the second time.
Mummy’m , Adanne’m , I miss you so much❤️❤️❤️
