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What are the first things your kids say in the morning? MinePreston : "Where's my phone" Bentley : "I'm so hungry" Bentl...
14/07/2026

What are the first things your kids say in the morning?

Mine
Preston : "Where's my phone"
Bentley : "I'm so hungry"

Bentley repeats this 20x a day at the moment even after he's just eaten.. πŸ™ƒπŸ™„

Good morning to you boys as well πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

When i look back over the first week of these holidays compared to the last ones & especially the xmas holidays last yea...
14/07/2026

When i look back over the first week of these holidays compared to the last ones & especially the xmas holidays last year there is SO much difference!

Because of lots of changes, some I don't talk about, some I do (less screen time, more outings, me on ADHD medication etc) these holidays have just been so much easier!!

Not every moment is perfect, not every day is easy, but it's easier.
I'm not in a constant state of fight or flight anymore.
Preston is way more settled & regulated & we've been able to enjoy each other's company so much more.

I'm so proud of fighting for what my family needed & for all our changes.
My boys are my whole world & all I want to be is the best Mother for them.

I'll keep learning, growing, taking courses when I can to learn more about how to parent a child with additional needs & keep breathing in those difficult moments knowing they dont last forever xx

Holy Moly we're celebrating the first time in MONTHS no kids were in my bed last night!!! Thanks for being kind on my bi...
13/07/2026

Holy Moly we're celebrating the first time in MONTHS no kids were in my bed last night!!!

Thanks for being kind on my birthday week boys πŸ€­πŸ˜…πŸ’•

12/07/2026

Homemade Chicken Enchiladas 😍

Preston adored them, Bentley, not so much...

I fu**ed up Box Brownies πŸ™„πŸ˜«πŸ₯΄I mean, it's me, so it happens πŸ˜…Tried to make the most of it for some dessert for the boys t...
09/07/2026

I fu**ed up Box Brownies πŸ™„πŸ˜«πŸ₯΄
I mean, it's me, so it happens πŸ˜…

Tried to make the most of it for some dessert for the boys though πŸ’•πŸ’•

08/07/2026

Morning 😴πŸ₯±

Think he'll be doing some laps around the park later this morning to tire him out when we pick up Bentley 🫠πŸ€ͺπŸ’•

08/07/2026

Getting every last bit of the sauce πŸ™ƒπŸ₯΄πŸ˜‚πŸ’™

July 18! My birthday, I'm going to break my don't go live on tiktok for 2026 for ONE NIGHT ONLY πŸ₯΄πŸ˜‚πŸ’—Spending my 47th birt...
07/07/2026

July 18! My birthday, I'm going to break my don't go live on tiktok for 2026 for ONE NIGHT ONLY πŸ₯΄πŸ˜‚πŸ’—

Spending my 47th birthday (so grateful to have made it this far!) sleeping over at my Mums with the kids 😌

So I'll try convince her to have a drink (or 10) with me & when the kids asleep we'll go live there.

xostaces_lifexo on tiktok is where we'll be πŸ’™

Things I'm grateful for in July, so far πŸ’™This filter is πŸ”₯We've got our $100 Sensory Sam voucher for re signing tenancy!!...
06/07/2026

Things I'm grateful for in July, so far πŸ’™

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We've got our $100 Sensory Sam voucher for re signing tenancy!! Any ideas on toys would be greatly appreciated. Preston loves math's, counting & building especially.

It's birthday month!! & while I'm just getting older & older I'm still here, I'm alive & for that I'm eternally grateful.

I've finally finished paying my Mum off after she helped me out a lot.

Less screen time has really been so good for our family & we've bonded so much more.

Bentley is at Mums until Thursday morning leaving me lots of time to rest while Preston & I are a little sick.

Got my first appointment confirmed with EXPLORE after the holidays.

Here's to July! πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

06/07/2026

Social media is weird...

You can share your story, share your hurt, trauma, & betrayal & be painted as a liar, a drama queen & an attention seeker.

While others share theirs & are believed, supported & loved.

I left certain toxic social media places for a while at the end of 2025, stopped posting, haven't gone live all of 2026, didn't share my story of why cause i knew I wouldn't be believed over them.

I refused to let the comments that came through & the ridiculous lies made up about me to affect mine and my childrens life anymore. Not again.

Sometimes I hate i gave in and walked away & let others win, especially having spent 5 + years building my community up. But it also gave me peace..

I eventually came back to slowly posting, all positive things with no drama & lost views, followers & engagement which reiterated I was more of a laughing stock the whole time than an actual person to most people.

This is why i hold the deepest love for my OG's & see the same names constantly engaging with me here. I SEE YOU!!
It might not be a big community but it ones that have never made me feel i was too much, & they always believed me.

DON'T believe everything you see on social media, there's more sides to the story.

And anyone who doesnt think their story matters, it does.

Don't let no mother fu**er force you off an app you enjoy.F**k them. You'll find your people. No matter what you've done.

We forget we're all human. NO body is perfect.

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