NO More Bullying

19/08/2025

We hear about people taking their own lives because they felt it was their last option and couldn't handle what they were going through. They felt that nobody could understand them and what they were going through.
So many people take their own life for many different reasons that we may not understand. Some can from relationship breakups, job loses, family situations, bullying and many more reasons.
I can pin point with bullying that it can continuously happen time and time again until it gets where you can't handle, can't cope no longer. Some end up with constant voices in their heads of hearing it over and over again. They aren't thinking straight. Don't have a clear mind.
They are either bullied face to face, in schools, home, streets, workplace or social media. It can also be through texting.
Feels like they want to escape the world, feeling nobody understands, feeling alone and feeling like they don't belong here on this earth anymore.

I will say this
Can you honestly really understand if you have never been through it or ever felt that way.

Every person is different in their situation. So many different ways that they consider to end their life and yes, it needs to be talked about because we need to be there for these people who may be considering it or having these thoughts in their heads.
The only problem is though, some people hide it so well that you don't know what they are going through or if they are thinking or contemplating it.
We get so caught up so much in our busy lives tjat we don't see what's happening before its too late.
You stop checking in on people to see how they are doing by text message or ringing them.
Some will say they are fine but you really need to listen to their words and how they speak. The way they speak can really tell you how they are actually feeling.

* Let them know they are never alone.
* Let them know they are loved.
* Let them know you are there for them.

Step back from your busy life and check in on people, see how they are doing, or better yet have a cuppa with them if you can.

If you can do this, you could be saving someone from wanting to take their own life. You could be their one life line.

Be there for each other and lift each other up. Encourage each other and support each other

*Be their life line*.

Here are two songs

"Your Life Matters"

"Su***de"

30/06/2025

Here is another song I have written and this is the actual lyrics to the poem, they were never changed. I wrote this one about 1 - 2 months ago.

Song Title
Your Life Matters

Here is what the song is about (it is the same meaning as the song before)
Too many people from young to old, male and female take their own lives in su***de due to bullying, Lets raise the awareness to no more bullying and not be just a number or statistics and let them know you care. Not another life taken too soon.

30/06/2025

I write poems about my experiences, what other people can relate to, and about bullying and su***de.
Some of the poems about bullying have been my experiences through it, but some has been much about how other people relate. These poems have touched my heart in many different ways
Some poems I have turned into songs with the help of this app called Donna Pro and some of the songs have actually been the same lyrics to the poem or have changed the lyrics to the song.
This one changed the lyrics to the poem.
But at some points it makes want to cry listening to this song down below.
Please have a listen to the lyrics of the song.

Song Title
Together We Rise

Here is what the song is about
Too many people from young to old, male and female take their own lives in su***de due to bullying, Lets raise the awareness to no more bullying and not be just a number or statistics and let them know you care. Not another life taken too soon.

11/03/2025

Pink Shirt Day is coming up on 16 May 2025

So my question is this

If you support Pink Shirt Day and wear the t-shirt and celebrate that day to raise awareness but your a bully yourself,

Why do you wear the t-shirt and support Pink Shirt Day what does that achieve and what is that teaching the children?

Have a think about it, don't comment on this post, I just want you to think about it.

Why are you supporting Pink Shirt Day if you are a bully?

22/01/2025

This is something I just csme up with writing just now because I heard of another person taking their own life due to bullying.

We need to do better, we need to take action now to raise more awareness around bullying.

It is very sad that another person took their own life. It is very sad for the family and friends whom have lost someone so dear to them.

Yes this was a young girl, a child and it hurts my heart when I hear another has taken their life.

We need to be getting into the schools and workplaces to raise more awareness that it's not ok to bully another person.
This child had her whole life ahead of her and now it's all taken away from her all because of bullying.

Let's do better.....let's come together and take action now......who will stand with me......
Let's not have another one only to be known as a statistic.
They are someone's family, someone's relative and someone's friend.
Let's do better New Zealand, let's do better in our country and our Nation.

09/09/2024

Today is World Su***de Awareness Day

We remember people who have left this earth in taking their own life when they felt at their lowest and felt they had no way out but to go down this path.
There is also people who have contemplated it but did not take that final step to take their own life.

If you ever feel like going towards that path or thinking about or even feel at your lowest, I urge you to please reach out to someone you can talk to, someone you can trust, reach out to this page by sending a message or even our group page. You can also reach out to the helpline

Here are a few New Zealand helplines you can ring

Need to Talk ph: 1737
free service you can call or txt

Lifeline Helpline
Helpline ph: 0800 543 354
Text Us ph: 4357

Tautoko Su***de Crisis Helpline
Helpline ph: 0508 828 865

Youth line
Free txt ph: 234
Free 24/7 call ph: 0800 37 66 33

Please do not be afraid to reach out to any of these numbers or to this page, we want to help you and we do not want to see you or anyone else heading down that path.
If you see or hear anyone who is at their lowest, please reach out to them and help them get to reach out, they may just someone to be their for them, just a hug or a listening ear. It is at these times when someone just may need you. Even a smile could be just what they need.

07/09/2024

07/09/2024

I brought this the other day and I am going to make su***de awareness chocolate ribbons for World Su***de Awreness on 10th September which is this Tuesaday coming but I need to get some Whittakers White Chocolate and Some chocolate colouring to make the chocolates yellow for Su***de awareness colour.

World Su***de Awareness 10th September 2024

Su***de Awareness means alot to me for many reasons.
Here are my reasons

I knew someone who ended their life in su***de who I used to talk to on messenger who yes lived in Taupo and a lot of people knew her, and now I am friends with her sister and kids.

My second reason is, I was that someone who wanted to end my life many times for various reasons which I won't go on about but I will say I overcame wanting to end my life and never want to be in that situation again. It is not a nice feeling when your at your lowest odds low points in your life or it's because someone is making you feel you want to end your life.
You just can't go on living your life like that thinking there is nothing left for you here on this earth because there is. You matter, your life matters, you are worthy of everything in your life. You need to keep going and never give up.
Even though you may go through challenging times in your life, you will get through it no matter how it gets. No life is an easy road and no life is perfect. We just got to deal with what happens in life and find those solutions to deal with it to work through it.
When you feel like your getting to a low point or falling into depression, and you can't cope or you can't do it on your own, don't even think for a minute that you are alone because you are never alone. There are people around that are willing to help you and who love you. Reach out for help. For some it may be hard to reach out or you are scared to reach and sometimes can be terrifying but don't be because we only want to help you to overcome whatever it is your going through or help you to not get to thar point in life.

There are some people who are still dealing with a loved one who ended their life in su***de but just know you are not alone also. Always reach out if you need to.

21/07/2024

Being You Is Your Power

26/06/2024

Do you ever feel like there's no way out, no hope left for you, it's like your drowning, you're trapped in your own body and just can't get out.

Well that's what it's like for some people who have been bullied. Some people even have voices in their heads or feel they have nobody to turn to when they are feeling this way.
Some people don't or won't reach out for help because they can already feel and hear the gossip going on about them.
Some people get anxieties not knowing which way to turn, if it's left or right thinking who else is next in line.
What people don't realize is that, what these people go through that I have mentioned is not even close to everything that they go through. There are people who have taken it to the extreme of su***de. Some have ended their lives in su***de due to all the bullying they have received. Some try to end their life but failed. Some contemplate ending their life or someone stops them from doing it.
You may think you know a person who has been bullied, but you don't. I am not saying that you have or haven't been bullied, but if you haven't, you couldn't possibly understand what a bullied person goes through.
Some of them won't even leave the house and stay home in their comfort zone at home., they are not being bullied face to face.
That's what you also think right.....well you're wrong on so many levels.
Bullying may not be happening to them just face to face but could also be happening on social media or via text messages. Those messages or comments can be really nasty ones. Could you imagine some of those comments being said to you.

Here are some examples that can and could be said:
1) You're not good enough
2) You're ugly
3) Go f... yourself
4) Go hang yourself
5) You don't belong here
6) You're trash
7) You have no talent
8) You're fat
9) You're a fat ugly b...h
10) Go starve yourself

The worst one of all is:

"Go Kill Yourself"

Now could you imagine any of that being said to you if you have never been bullied.
Some of these people get these comments on a daily or weekly but out of those people, you wouldn't know if they are being bullied because they don't reach out. They suffer in silence.
You would think it's just a normal day, they are just trying to draw attention to themselves, they are just drama queens.
What you don't understand is, you don't have those words being said to you. The constant words that play on their minds over and over again and how they feel once the words have been said. The constant sleepless nights they may have.
You think words are just words, but it's never a joke.
Do you know that it could be happening to someone in your family or one of your friends, or maybe someone you know.
The thing is, it's not only the one's getting bullied that we need to think about.
We also need to think about the one's that are the bullies.
Now I wouldn't really label them bullies per say as some would. Why I say this, is because there are two types of bullies.

The first bully, now they think it's funny, it's a joke to bully a person. They think it's funny continue to do so until someone is either crying, injured or committed su***de.
Some don't stop there, they take it too far, so continue to the next person.

Then you have the second bully. Now this person is out there bullying another person because it's there way of a coping mechanism. Don't know how to deal with their emotions, or they react by bullying another person because it happened to them. They too got bullied themselves and think it's ok to bully someone else. Until they learn to deal with their emotions and learn coping mechanisms, they will continue to bully.

The moral of this is, unless you have been bullied you wouldn't possibly be able to understand unless you have been through it.
And it's not just the ones who get bullied we need to look out for. We also need to look out for the ones who are bullies.

We need to look out for the signs.
Their moods could change from being someone who keeps busy or interactive down to staying quiet, becoming noninteractive and being by themselves all the time, sleeping all the time and many more.
These are some of the signs we need to look out for within the person. Also keep an eye or ear out for what the person is saying or talking about to get hints of, if they are being bullied and/or thinking about su***de if they may talk about death or dying alot.
These could be your first point of call to be there for them and get help for them.

26/06/2024

This is going to be raw and it's going to be real. Believe me when I say this.
Counsellors are not there for you. Counsellors can not help. Yes they may be qualified by paper, but they can't help you unless they have been through what you have been through.
Counsellors may say they care, but are they really there for you? In the long run.....no.....unless they have been through what you have been through. They can not give advice on something they have never experienced or been through.
So if you think sexual assault or bullying affect your life or the people around you, your wrong. There are survivors all around us, there are people you care about, who you never knew, were suffering in silence, or may have already ended their own life because they felt they couldn't reach out.
Let them know that you're there to listen. It's time for you to know the survivors in your life, to hear their stories and to know that their voice matters and to know that there is a platform for them to speak up and to say sexual assault and bullying needs to stop.
No matter, we need to stand together, unite as one, stand strong as one, support each other, speak up, raise our voice to no more sexual assault and no more bullying.
Let's stand as a united front. It's time to end it all.
My name is Dinelle Turdeich and I am a survivor of sexual assault and bullying.
I will not stop and rest from raising awareness to stand up for myself, stand up for other's stand up for people who can't speak, stand up for people who are too afraid or shy, and stand up for people whom have already taken their own life in su***de.

"Enough is Enough".

03/06/2024

An update for next year's event I am prepping and organizing for.
I am behind the scenes coming up with some new designs for t-shirts, maybe posters and canvases along with looking at more items to get for the gift bags.
There will only be a limit gift bags, not sure how many just yet as I have not decided on the many gift bags yet.
I am though looking for someone who could draw up a design for a colouring competition for the young kids around bullying. If you know anyone who could do this, I would be very appreciative of you. I would possibly like 2 designs of this.
I am still on the look out for people to come on board with this event for next year.
I will update when there is more.