23/07/2025
Growing Up in the Village: My Childhood in Kawaliap, Highway 32
By Roy Yohang
Nestled along Highway 32 in the Manus hinterland, Kawaliap Village was more than just home — it was my world. It was a place where time moved slowly, where life was lived barefoot and full-hearted, and where every path, hill, and creek held a memory.
Back then, our days weren’t controlled by alarms or mobile phones. The rooster’s crow and the first crack of sunlight told us it was time to get up. Life was simple — and honestly, it was beautiful.
Bush Food, Firewood & Fresh Air
We didn’t grow up with fast food or takeaway — we had something far better: real food from the land. Our breakfast came straight from the earth and fire — roasted kaukau, smoked fish, green bananas boiled in coconut cream, or hot taro dipped in crushed ginger sauce. 🍠🌿🥥
I remember helping my mother gather firewood from the bush, sometimes dragging sticks twice my height down muddy tracks. We used bamboo to fetch water from the creek and stacked the fire with just the right mix of dry leaves and coconut husks. 🔥
In Kawaliap, the garden was our supermarket. We ate what we planted. And when the mangoes and laulau trees were in season, we didn’t ask — we climbed!
Games Without Gadgets
Entertainment didn’t come from screens — it came from each other.
We built our own toys from bush materials — pop guns from bamboo, cars from wire, and spinning tops from coconut shells. We played hide and seek behind sago trees, chased each other through kunai grass, and got into wild games of “Mr Wolf,” “Touch Peggy,” “Dismisso,” “Tintin,” and “patpat” with twisted rubber bands. 🎯🧒🏽🌳
Our playground was the village street, the soccer field, and the bush trails. And when it rained, even better — we slid down muddy slopes, wrestled in puddles, and splashed in swollen creeks. The laughter was louder than the thunder.
The Walk to School
School was not just a place — it was a mission.
We walked long distances through steep bush tracks, our books wrapped in plastic or tucked in bilums. Some days, our feet were wet before the first lesson even began. But we didn’t complain. 📚👣
We sat on worn benches and listened intently to our teachers. Lunch was simple — kaukau in foil, rice in banana leaves, or a piece of smoked fish from yesterday’s dinner. If we had coins, maybe a 20t twistie or biscuit from the tiny roadside canteen.
And no matter how tired we were, education was a big deal. We knew it was our way out — or our way forward.
Discipline, Respect & Community
Growing up in Kawaliap taught me respect the hard way. If you mouthed off to an elder or didn’t do your chores, you’d feel the discipline — whether it came from a slipper, broom, or fresh-cut cane. But it came from a place of love. 👵🏽👴🏽🪣
Everyone in the village had a role in raising you. Aunties scolded you like your mum. Uncles gave you tough advice. The entire community watched over you, and in return, you showed respect, humility, and care.
We went to Sunday school faithfully, sang hymns with cracked voices, acted in church dramas, and knew our Tokples songs by heart. God, family, and community shaped who we were.
Highway 32 — The Road That Raised Me
Today, Highway 32 stretches long and silent through Kawaliap, but every corner still echoes with voices from the past. The laughter of children playing marbles. The calls of mothers summoning kids from the bush. The beat of stringband guitars on a lazy evening.
Kawaliap didn’t just raise me — it grounded me. It taught me resilience, gratitude, simplicity, and love. I carry those values with me every day, wherever I go.
If you grew up in a place like this — where mangoes were free, chores were shared, and life was wild and honest — you’ll know what I mean.
Never forget where you came from. Kawaliap, you’ll always be home. 💛🏡