03/07/2025
5 Sneaky Ways Girls TEST A Manâs Confidence
1. The âSexual Resistanceâ Test đ
Youâre escalating, things are getting hot, and suddenlyâŚ
She pulls back.
⢠âI donât know if we shouldâŚâ
⢠âMaybe we should slow down.â
⢠Moves your hand away
Why?
Sheâs testing if youâll get frustrated, insecure, or act desperate.
How to Pass:
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Stay cool. Donât beg, donât pout.
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Pull back and re-engage later.
Example:
Her: âMaybe we shouldnâtâŚâ
You: âHaha, youâre trouble, arenât you?â Then casually change the subject.
When you donât react emotionally, she trusts you more.
2. The "Delay Response" Test
She suddenly takes hours to text back.
She was replying fast before, now sheâs âbusy.â
Why?
Sheâs testing if youâll freak out or stay unbothered.
â Fail: Double texting, overthinking, or acting needy.
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Pass: Keep living your life. Be cool. Match her energy.
Example:
- She takes 6 hours? You take 8.
- She doesnât text for a day? You donât text either.
She needs to FEEL that youâre the prize.
3. The "I Bet You Say That To Every Girl" Test
You compliment her, and she hits you with:
"Aww, do you say that to all girls?"
Sheâs testing if youâre just another try-hard or a guy with options.
â Fail: Getting defensive or over-explaining.
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Pass: Stay playful, stay in control.
Example Responses:
âNah, only to the cute ones⌠oh wait, I did say it to your friend too đâ
Make her laugh.
Make her curious.
Sheâll respect the confidence.
4. The "Make You Jealous" Test
She casually mentions another guy:
"Ugh, my coworker is so funny!"
or
"This guy was flirting with me today."
Why?
She wants to see if youâre insecure or if you stay unfazed.
â Fail: Getting jealous, defensive, or asking questions about the other guy.
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Pass: Shrug it off, tease her, or change the subject.
Example:
Her: "This guy bought me a drink."
You: "Nice! I hope you thanked him for sponsoring our night out."
Unbothered men are sexy.
Insecure men get ghosted.
5. The "Tease Your Weakness" Test
She playfully insults you:
"Youâre kinda short."
Why?
She wants to see if youâre weak or if you can handle pressure.
â Fail: Getting upset or seeking validation.
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Pass: Play along & flip the frame.
Example:
Her: "Youâre kinda short."
You: "Yeah, but at least I can still reach the top shelf in your heart."
She wants a guy who can hold his ground,
not one who crumbles.
6. The "Pull Away" Test
Everything is going great⌠then she suddenly acts cold or distant.
Why?
She wants to see if youâll chase or stay composed.
â Fail: Panicking, blowing up her phone, asking âDid I do something wrong?â
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Pass: Stay calm, mirror her energy, and let her come back.
Example:
She pulls away? You pull away harder.
Sheâll start wondering, âWait, why isnât he chasing? Did I mess up?â
and come back stronger.