16/06/2026
To all the players dreaming of playing in Manila, whether in the UAAP or NCAA:
Most of what you see on social media are the highlights: the packed arenas, the recognition, the scholarships, the opportunities, and the excitement of competing at the highest level.
Manila is the place where many athletes dream of going, and it's easy to fall for the beauty of that picture.
But what you don't often see are the sacrifices that come with it.
People rarely talk about the pressure of proving oneself every day in training. They don't talk about being far from home when you are sick, tired, or in pain, especially if you are from the province. They don't talk about missing family gatherings, birthdays, and important moments because you are hundreds of kilometers away from them.
They don't talk about the desire to go home but can't because travel expenses are high and your team responsibilities come first.
We spent our birthday alone in the training room, working out. No party, no family dinner, no celebration, just me in the training room and the promise to pursue the dream I chose, only my fellow student-athletes whom I consider family, the ones who fight with you every day.
Those are the moments that people don't post on TikTok or Facebook.
Playing in Manila requires more than just talent. It requires sacrifice, independence, mental toughness, and a strong heart. There will be days when not a single person will help you, and you will need to find the strength within you to keep going.
That's why this decision should not be rushed. Going to Manila is not just about chess, volleyball, basketball, or any sport you have, and it's certainly not just about scholarships or fame. It is about being ready for a completely different life and accepting the challenges that are given to us and how you can build yourself up on your own.If you still have doubts, there's nothing wrong with being patient.
Continue developing your skills, self-confidence, and character. Growth is not a race.You will know you are ready when the dream becomes bigger than the fear, when the sacrifices become worth it, and when you no longer have to doubt yourself.
Chasing opportunities in Manila is a privilege, but staying there and succeeding requires a strong mind, a strong heart, and the courage to embrace every challenge that comes with it.
"DO NOT KEEP UP WITH LIFE IN MANILA."
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