Ate FrayLee

31/10/2025

My TYANAK sa CEMENTERYO 😱😱

28/10/2025

Claim it!
Pray for it!
Work for it!

26/10/2025

Just sharing this, ganda pramis! Nood ka nlng online on how-To-Do Facial at home😁😍 check mo comsec👇💕

25/10/2025

Sama ulit ako ah😁😂
Check mo Comsec Kung San😁

19/10/2025

They tell you two is terrible… but they don’t tell you how beautiful it is too.

Two is giggles that echo through the house.
It’s sticky fingers offering you a bite of their snack.
It’s tiny arms wrapping around your neck for no reason at all.
It’s learning new words every day
sometimes the ones you wish they didn’t.
It’s tantrums that melt just as fast as they come,
and a heart that forgives instantly.

Two is curiosity and chaos.
It’s wanting to do everything “by myself.”
It’s little feet running full speed toward you after every brave moment.
It’s wild, exhausting, magical growth
the kind that turns baby into little kid before your eyes.

Everyone warns you about the hard parts of two…
but nobody tells you how much you’ll miss it when it’s gone.

Ccto
Malapit na mag 2 ang baby kO🥹😍bilis ng panahon❤️

18/10/2025

13/10/2025

Alam MO bang pag sinabi mong
"hindi mo Kaya"
talo ka na agad??

12/10/2025

Sunday ❣️famday

12/10/2025

300+ sa comsec🥰 huhu so excited sa mini kitchen for my studio
Para sa Cooking content promoting different kitchenware brands🥰

06/10/2025

Wait Lang Bakit ba nakita ko to?

28/09/2025

Research shows that tantrums peak around ages 2–3, not because kids are “bad,” but because their brains are still developing the ability to self-regulate.

They’re not giving you a hard time.
They’re having a hard time.

Because here’s the truth:
A toddler can light up with joy one minute.
They can cling to you next.
They can scream over the wrong color cup, collapse on the floor, and cry like the world is ending. And then laugh again five minutes later.

Why?
Because their brains are still under construction.

🧠 Neuroscience shows that the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for self-control and emotional regulation, is immature at this age. Tantrums are not manipulation. They are a release of feelings bigger than their ability to manage (Potegal & Davidson, 2003).

Why does this matter?

Because when we don’t understand it, we believe the lie: They’re spoiled. They’re defiant. They’re out to control us.

But science is whispering: This is development.

Here’s what supporting that can look like:
→ Meeting meltdowns with calm presence, not shame.
→ Naming their emotions so they learn language for what they feel.
→ Holding boundaries firmly but gently so they know they’re safe.

The truth is, tantrums are not a sign of failure.
They’re a sign of growth.

So maybe the question isn’t,
“How do I stop the tantrums?”
Maybe it’s,
“How can I help my child feel safe while their brain learns to regulate?”

Because the world doesn’t need kids who never cry or rage, it requires kids who learn that big feelings can be held, felt, and healed. 🤍



Credit: Mercy Lupo