ziah and mommy janet vlog

23/05/2025

Tara kain po😁😁

14/05/2025

13/10/2024

Totoo ba?😂😂

10/10/2024

I'M DONE EXPLAINING MYSELF.

It took me too long to understand that no matter how much I explain my side, some people will twist it to fit their narrative. I used to pour my heart out, desperately hoping they'd see the truth, but l've learned the hard way-if someone truly wanted to understand, they wouldn't make me beg for it.

If you've already decided I'm the villain in your story, fine. I'm not going to keep bending over backwards trying to prove I'm good enough, worthy enough, or innocent enough. The truth is, the more I explain, the more power I give to someone who doesn't want to hear it.

Let them believe what they want.
Let them say it was all my fault.
Let them stay stuck in their version of events.

LET. THEM.

I won't defend myself anymore. Because l've realized something crucial-explaining myself over and over doesn't bring peace. It only exhausts me. It only reinforces their narrative, because if they really cared to understand, they would've listened the first time.

I'm reclaiming my energy.
I'm walking away from the endless loop of justification and debate.
I deserve connections where I don't have to fight for my truth to be seen.
If my silence makes you uncomfortable, then be uncomfortable.
If my choice not to explain feels like defeat to you, that's on you.
I'm no longer concerned with trying to win a battle I never agreed to fight.

I'm done begging to be understood.
I'm done begging for kindness, respect, and empathy that should've been given freely.
I'm done putting myself on trial in a court that was never fair to begin with.

I'M DONE.

The only explanation I owe is to myself: that I choose peace over their noise.
I choose to move on without the weight of constantly trying to be heard by people who are committed to misunderstanding me.
Let them think what they want.

LET THEM GO.

I will not explain myself again.
Because, honestly, I don't need to.

09/10/2024

Problems will pass. Everything will be solved at the right time. The important thing is that you don't give up on the Lord.

29/09/2024

True😂😂diba Franz Justiñe Clint Carigma Clarence Carigma

19/08/2024

Happy birthday my second baby🥰🥰 Clarence Carigma i love you always stay sweet,caring and masunurin aral ng mabuti
♥️♥️♥️

14/07/2024

Kung may asawa kana wag KANG MAKIKIPAGKAIBIGAN sa pwede kang MA-INLOVE

Saan ba naman nagsisimula ang lahat ng PANGANGALIWA?

Sa Pagpakikipag kaibigan…

Sa pagkikipag-usap…

Sa pakikipagbulahan…

Hanggang hindi mo na namalayan, nagiging close na kaya, nagiging CLOSE AN CLOSE na kayo, hindi na kayo friends, CLOSE FRIENDS na kayo, alam mo nman siguro kung ano ang meaning ng CLOSE FRIEND?

Noong una naiku-kwento mo pa sa asawa mo na nagkwe-kwentuhan pa kayo, pero yung mga sumunod , hindi na, itinago mo na, isinekreto mo na, wala ka ng follow up na kwento sa asawa mo...

Dahil may GUILT ng kasama ang ginagawa mo. And yes, alam mong mali, pero sige kapa rin since na nagja jive kayo, nagkakasundo kayo sa mga bagay-bagay, ang dating simpleng kwentuhan na ito ay unti- unting LUMALALIM.

FEEL NA FEEL mong nagging iba na ang mga nagiging usapan nyo, dati, by group kayo, dati may kasa-kasama pa kayo, ngayon iba na, KAYO NALANG.. kayong dalawa nalang..

Oo naman, feeling nya din yan, since na nuon paman may dating na sya sa,yo, hindi na mahirap na magiging close sa kanya, mas PERSONAL na ang usapan nyo, iba na ang tono, hindi na lang kayo magkaibigan. NAGLALANDI KA, LUMALANDI SYA, NAGLALANDIAN NA KAYO…

Huwag mong sabihin na nadadala ka lang ng sitwasyon, dahil sa una pa lang , alam mo nang MALI. Lalo na ang sumunod na pagkakataon, mga sumunod na pag-uusap at mga sumunod na lakad nyo…

Hanggang nararamdaman mo na lumulubog kana, na INLOVE ka na. Oo nman, you felt good, pero tinatago mo, tinatago mo, hanggang ang mga susunod mong gagawin. MAGSISINUNGALING KANA!

Ngayon, yung tinatago mo, Mag suffer na ang lahat, ang mga dapat mong gawin, di mo na magawa, kasi ITINATAKAS mo na lang ang mga pagkakataong magkasama kayo. Sabi mo hangga’t hindi alam ng asawa mo, hindi sya masasaktan, MALI KA! maling-mali ka , ngayong ginawa mo yan, SINASAKTAN mo na sya, kapag nalaman nya yan, sa tagal na itinago mo.. doble, TRIPLE ANG SAKIT, sabay-sabay papatong sa dibdib nya yan.

At kapag nabuko, BABAYARAN MO, ang mula sa pamilya nya, kahit sa pamilya mo, masasaktan mo, kahit ang mga batang walang kamalay- malay. Ang dating TAHIMIK NA PAMILYA mo, wasak na, kahit ubusin mo ang dahilan o rason, i-justify mo man ang ginawa mo, wala ng maniniwala sa ‘yo kahit sino pa ang takbuhan mo, HUHUSGAHAN KA! Lalo na ang mga taong nkakakilala sa’yo, nakakakilala sa inyo, alam na alam nilang sinungaling ka, naghahanap ka lang ng simpatya.

Pero kahit anong daldal mo, kahit anong gawin mo, iba pa rin ang tingin nila sa taong nagloko, iba pa rin ang tingin nila sa taong NANGALIWA, pumatol sa iba, ,mga taong unfaithful.

Ngayon , MAKIKIPAGKAIBIGAN ka pa ba sa taong pwede kang MAIN LOVE? Na imagine mo na ba ang gulong idudulot sa’yo at sa tahimik mong pamilya?

Ikaw na ang LUMAYO , ikaw na ang UMIWAS, ikaw na ang PUMIGIL sa sarili mo, oo kahit wala kayong ginawang masama

Huwag nalang, kalimutan mo na lang.. at kapag nagpigil ka alam ng DIYOS na nag control ka, nakikita nya, naiintindihan nya, lahat nmn ng magandang ginawa mo ay may katapat ding kabutihan, nakikita nya kung gaano kalinis ang puso mo.



Ccto

14/07/2024

You give and give and give, without appreciation. And when you stop giving, people blame you for how you changed. They turn the table and you become the bad one in their story. Life is bad, but you are good..