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24/04/2025

THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVER

👩‍❤️‍👨Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

👩‍❤️‍👨Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.

👩‍❤️‍👨Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage.

👩‍❤️‍👨Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.

👩‍❤️‍👨Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.

👩‍❤️‍👨In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.

👩‍❤️‍👨Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than s*x to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!

👩‍❤️‍👨Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!

👩‍❤️‍👨Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

👩‍❤️‍👨Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!

👩‍❤️‍👨Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re raising your kids or else you’ll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

👩‍❤️‍👨Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

👩‍❤️‍👨Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.

👩‍❤️‍👨When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

👩‍❤️‍👨When your husband/wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

👩‍❤️‍👨Be patient with each other. Your spouse is always more important that your schedule.

👩‍❤️‍👨Model the kind of marriage that will make your sons want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.

👩‍❤️‍👨Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.

👩‍❤️‍👨Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!

👩‍❤️‍👨Connect into a community of faith. A good church can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

👩‍❤️‍👨Pray together. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.

👩‍❤️‍👨When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!

👩‍❤️‍👨Never consider annulment as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

📝𝗗*𝗜𝗦𝗖𝗟𝗔𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗥:
C*redits to the r*ightful o*wners.
📣𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗘𝗗𝗨𝗖𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗟 𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗘𝗦 𝗢𝗡𝗟𝗬!
💞 Let's keep sharing and spreading LOVE & POSITIVITY for more blessings to be unlocked.❤️

11/04/2025

HAVING A FAMILY ISN'T A JOKE!!

It requires love and the commitment to stand by it. You can't just walk away when things get tough or when providing for them becomes hard. You can't just leave when you feel suffocated because you can no longer do certain things.

When you see someone more attractive or someone better, you can't just replace your family. Remember, you leave everything behind – your vices, your friends, and even your own interests.

When you have a family, they become your priority. Anything else is just extra for you.
This isn’t something you can quit when you get tired or fed up.

There are lives and feelings involved, and it’s your responsibility, even when the storms or temptations come.

Don't give up; fight for them. Never trade them for anyone or anything. You created this, don’t destroy it.

So, a salute to all the responsible fathers. It’s challenging, but they don’t back down.

BE MATURE, BE A REAL MAN.🫵💪

11/04/2025

Being a father isn’t just about writing checks or paying bills; it’s about showing up, being present, and living with integrity. Providing financially is important, but it doesn’t erase the damage caused by lies, infidelity, and broken trust.

Your children need more than a provider; they need a role model. They watch how you treat their mother, how you handle responsibility, and how you uphold your promises. If you’re unfaithful, you’re teaching them that loyalty and respect are optional. Is that the legacy you want to leave?

A man who cheats on his family doesn’t just betray his partner... he betrays the stability and security his children deserve. No amount of money can heal the emotional scars left behind. Financial support without moral integrity is empty. It keeps the lights on but dims the light in your family’s hearts.

Being a good father means more than providing material things. It means setting an example of honesty, loyalty, and love. It’s about building a foundation your children can stand on.... one that won’t crumble under the weight of betrayal.

Don’t just provide for your family. Protect it. Honor it. Be the man your children deserve to look up to. Because at the end of the day, your character is worth more than your paycheck.

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11/04/2025

11/04/2025

Read this !

"LYING HUSBAND"

✅They constantly change what they say to you.
What they say is different from their actions.

✅They always avoid you, especially when you ask questions, and quickly change the subject.

✅They become more secretive and do everything they can to keep things from you.

✅They try hard to make you believe everything they say.

✅They get angry and lash out when they feel you're doubting what they say or do.

✅They make you feel guilty for doubting them and make you look like the bad person for not believing them.

✅They try to keep you away from people who know the truth about their actions because they're afraid of being exposed as a liar.

✅They will speak badly about these people to prevent you from getting close to them.
What they say is the opposite of what they do, or what others say.

✅They will say or do anything to make you believe they’re not lying or cheating. This is the behavior of someone who is skilled in deception.

✅They pretend to love you or claim they truly do, but they're also in love with someone else while still being with you.

✅They deceive you but don’t want you to leave them. They make sure they won’t be cheated on by the person they are replacing you with. A true manipulator.

Once someone becomes skilled in lying, they can convince you with just their words, so always stay alert. They’ll twist your mind with lies and may even destroy your life.

Ctto.✍️

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