03/09/2025
“You depend on your man too much.”
And what exactly is the problem with that?
I have a man I can depend on,
Emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually.
He’s my safe space, my support system, my partner.
I wasn’t built to do life alone, and I’m not ashamed that I lean on the person I chose to build a life with.
We live in a society that glorifies hyper independence
and burns women out for the sake of “proving a point.”
No thanks.
If I have a husband who WANTS to carry the heavy loads with me,
why on earth would I act like I don’t need him?
Y’all love shouting,
“Where are the real men at?”
But the moment a woman has one,
you call her “too dependent.”
Pick a struggle.
I’ll proudly depend on the man who depends on me too.
That’s called partnership.
That’s called marriage.
And I won’t apologize for it.
©️Caty Sanders