Awakened Life

25/02/2026

09/02/2026

Worth sharing.

May all scapegoats and children of narcissitic parents find clarity and peace and be able to self reflect, to realize, to see what they have to see so that healing will take place not to take all the blame on the world or other people but to be able to be of help to the world and the people around them. Namaste.
-AwakenedLife

06/02/2026

The most isolated person in the family is the real victim. Not because they are bad but because they don't conform to the family's dysfunction and choose to stand by their truth.

Other members of the family knows and can see the truth yet they choose to stay in the dysfunction, hence, the term flying monkeys and enablers.
-AwakenedLife

05/02/2026

Triangulation is the basic tool narcissistic parents use to create chaos within the family. It is so subtle no one can easily figure out what the parent is doing behind her children's back. How to know?

If you always wonder why people around you, especially those who are close like siblings seems to hate you or stay away from you, know for sure that there is a parent behind it. If you are the scapegoat in the family, its no wonder a narcissistic parent have to destroy how others see you.
--AwakenedLife

21/01/2026

Indeed!
I am the game changer.
I am scared that I can traumatize my child because of my own wounds that I haven't healed.
I am breaking the generational curse by healing myself and not pass on to my child the same experiences I had as a scapegoat.
Healing is the most precious gift I can give to my child.
I cannot change my roots but I have the power to choose a life totally different from what I had, for me, for my child and my own family.
The generational trauma ends with me...
--AwakenedLife

21/01/2026

Indeed!

Criticism in a home is not normal, especially when its the parents who suppose to give their children the motivation, support and understanding but are the one killing their children's self esteem.

As a child we do not see that as toxic for we innately believe and trust our parents are good---because they are parents.
But it's not always the case. And it is painful to realize as an adult that after all, those who suppose to lift you up are the ones who damaged you.

24/12/2025

The weakest person is not the one who can show vulnerability, but that one who cannot admit he can be vulnerable.

25/11/2025

This is how a narcissistic mother fails to protect her children:

1️⃣ She stayed silent when someone hurt you and made you feel like the problem for speaking up.
2️⃣ She told you to “be nice” to people who made you feel unsafe, because her peace mattered more than your pain.
3️⃣ She dismissed your fear as “too sensitive” — so you started ignoring your own feelings.
4️⃣ She made excuses for the one who crossed your boundaries, and made you apologize instead.
5️⃣ She protected her image, and not your heart.
6️⃣ She left you to deal with things no child should face alone, then blamed you for not handling it better.
7️⃣ She told you to “just deal with it” — instead of helping you feel safe, heard, or held.

Sometimes the deepest hurt isn’t screaming it’s the silence. The feeling of not being heard, not being protected, and not being taken seriously..

When the person who was supposed to protect you chooses to look away, it leaves a space inside that’s hard to fill.

But here’s the truth: Her failure to protect you says nothing about your worth. And you were never too much. you were just a child looking for safety in someone who couldn’t give it.

is a repost. Credit goes to the original author.