Love Me

13/07/2025

Indeed!

Sometimes we forget to love ourselves first, to value our individuality, to stand up...for the sake of people who cannot even see or appreciate our value.

If you feel neglected, disrespected, used, believe it. No excuses for that person who made you feel that way. No healthy individual make you feel bad about yourself, they make you feel special.

So, its time to love you, value you, be there for you..stop looking for love, value and worth from other people. Giving that to yourself is the key to feel you matter after all. And no one can take that away from you.
--LoveMe

This page from The Book of Healing resurfaced recently and was shared by many. I hope it helps you ❤️ I wrote this sometime in 2016 ❤️

03/07/2025

Indeed!

The difference of weak people and strong people is always contradictory.

Strong character will always bring peace and harmony.

Weak character will always bring chaos and conflict.

--LoveMe

01/07/2025

If they don't include you it only means they do not want your presence.
Simple as that.

29/06/2025

If setting a boundary is used as a reason to hurt, disrespect, or push others away, it is not a boundary; it is a move of discard.

A true boundary does not hurt. It is a quiet distance from something that can destroy your peace yet it does not bring about hurt or confusion to others. Not because you choose to draw a line means you can mistreat people. True boundary is a healthy retreat, it is not a weapon to attack.

--LoveMe

29/06/2025

Indeed!

They are showing you already how they look at you -- that you are not important. So, get yourself together and quietly walk away.

No need to prove your worth. Just walk away with self-respect and dignity. And be grateful they gave you the closure you need.

--LoveMe

15/06/2025

Indeed!

29/05/2025

Gaslighting it is!

27/05/2025

Indeed!

"Some people want you to act out of character, and they'll go to great lengths to provoke you. Chances are, they’ve already created a narrative about you — a story where you’re the villain, the unstable one, or the problem — and now they’re just waiting for you to play your part. Please, don’t fall into this trap.

It’s not about who you really are; it’s about who they need you to be to justify their own behavior, insecurities, or need for control. If they can push you to explode, lash out, or lose your calm, then they win — not because they’re right, but because you’ve handed them the evidence they were looking for. And often, this isn’t just a momentary manipulation; it’s part of a deeper pattern. These people study your buttons, learn your triggers, and wait for the perfect opportunity to press them — not because they want resolution, but because they want validation for the distorted view they've built.

But you don’t owe anyone that kind of performance. You are not responsible for playing the role they’ve scripted for you. The greatest power you can hold is to stay rooted in who you are, even when others try to drag you out of character. Protect your energy. Hold your ground. There is strength in restraint, wisdom in silence, and peace in refusing to entertain chaos. Let their projections crumble in the absence of your reaction.

You don’t need to prove anything to people who are committed to misunderstanding you. Let them talk. Let them twist. Let them reveal themselves by the way they try to provoke you. Meanwhile, you keep showing up with grace, dignity, and self-control. That is your power. And it’s untouchable.”

✍️cttra
🎨credit to the artist via Pinterest

25/05/2025

Indeed!

I still cannot understand why we would rather be comforted with lies than to hear the truth. And more often than not, even if we know the truth we still convince ourselves its not real.

When someone speaks the truth, it seems as though a crime is committed because most people cannot accept it. Truth hurts. Because truth requires responsibility and accountability.

Toxic people especially narcissists hates responsibility and accountability for their actions. That is why they see you as an enemy for speaking the truth. You are a threat to their fantasies.

What other reasons can there be?
---LoveMe

24/05/2025

Red flag:
Always concern about your weight like it's the only thing she always notice.

26/09/2023