Engineer’s Wife

30/10/2025

01/10/2025

‘Note to Self’
"No matter how many people or how many times you were cancelled by other people. What's important is, you never cancel yourself.

Everybody can be against you, but you don't have to be against yourself. Because that's the biggest betrayal. The biggest and the most painful betrayal you could ever experience is the betrayal you do to your self.

They can all betray you, you can move on from that. Pero when you betray yourself, that's hard to forgive.

It's not painful for me to be cancelled by society, because I don't cancel myself."

- Toni Gonzaga | Toni Talk

30/09/2025

Akala ko ba matatapang?
Pero bakit parang Manugang vs Angkan ‼️
-isa laban sa lahat.

Pero sige lang, kahit mag-isa ako, mas matibay pa rin kaysa sa buong angkan na walang mga manners gusto ng respeto hinde naman mga karespe-respeto. 💔

29/09/2025

Mas okay ha hindi ka paboritong manugang kasi at least may kalayaan ka. Yung paborito nila? Ayun, parang kasambahay: - laging nasa kusina, laging may kaldero, laging may plato!"

29/09/2025

REALTALK LANG‼️

Para sa mga babae at lalaki na may sariling pamilya na. Okay lang tumulong sa magulang at kapatid dahil pamilya mo din yan. Pero kapag ikaw ay may asawa at anak o may sariling pamilya na ay dapat sila ang uunahin mo sa lahat.

Kaya kung hindi kapa handa sa responsibilidad ay huwag ka muna bumuo ng pamilya para hindi sumakit ulo ng maging asawa mo sayo!

29/09/2025

WHY SO MANY LADIES ARE UNHAPPY IN THEIR MARRIAGE 💔👩‍🦱

It’s not always because they married the “wrong” person. Sometimes, it’s because over time, the love, attention, and care that once existed have been replaced with neglect, entitlement, and silence.

Many women feel UNAPPRECIATED — their efforts in holding the home together, caring for the children, supporting their husband, and keeping the family running often go unnoticed. They hear complaints more than thank yous.

They suffer from LACK OF REST— constantly juggling cooking, cleaning, childcare, work, and emotional labor, without a real break. For some, even sickness isn’t enough reason to rest, because “the house must run.”

They feel UNHEARD — their thoughts, feelings, and needs are brushed aside as “nagging” or “overreacting.” Communication becomes one-sided, where the man speaks and the woman is expected to listen, but her voice carries little weight.

They live with EMOTIONAL LONELINESS — being in the same house, sleeping on the same bed, yet feeling unseen and unloved. Physical presence without emotional connection is one of the heaviest burdens a woman can bear.

Many are also OVERWHELMED, carrying responsibilities alone, because “that’s a woman’s duty.” Marriage becomes a job, not a joy.

Truth is, women don’t just want material provision; they want love, attention, partnership, understanding, and true friendship in marriage. A woman’s heart blossoms when she feels safe, valued, and heard. But when she is reduced to a servant, silenced, or overlooked, her smile fades and her light dims.

Marriage should be a place of rest, not a battlefield where love dies in silence.

💬 Dear husbands, it’s not too late notice her, appreciate her, listen to her, protect her peace, and give her the love you promised.

27/09/2025

Alam mo ‘yung feeling na ubos ka na pero wala kang karapatang magreklamo?

Ginawa mong lahat, pero parang kulang pa rin.
Kahit anong ibigay mo, parang lagi ka pa ring kinukulang. Kahit ikaw na ‘yung gumagawa ng role ng dalawang tao, wala pa ring appreciation.

Pag napuno ka, wag mong hintaying sumabog ka pa. Learn to walk away from places where your pain is invisible. Hindi selfish ang bumitaw sa mga bagay na paulit-ulit ka lang sinasaktan. Hindi mo tungkulin ang lunurin ang sarili mo para lang iligtas ang taong hindi marunong lumangoy pabalik.

27/09/2025

"NEVER TRUST YOUR IN-LAWS ‼️"

Never trust your in- laws. It's that simple. It doesn't matter if they smile at you, if they cook for you, if they call you "daughter" or if they shower you with hugs every time you arrive.

At the first argument with your partner, at the first crisis, at the first misunderstanding… they will remind you that you are not family. And then everything falls apart. Because when they have to
take sides, they choose blood. Always. Even if your
partner was the one who failed. Even if you gave
everything. Even if you were the one who supported them, the one who cooked, the one who took care of the grandchildren, the one who remained silent out of respect.

Don't forget:
Your in-laws are not your parents.
Your partner is not your sibling.
And your place in that family will always be conditional.

Beware of those who embrace you, but sleep next to someone who betrays you. Never trust your in laws. Trust your instincts, your boundaries, and your dignity.

21/09/2025

CHEATING ISN'T COSTLY‼️

Cheating isn't cheap and most time it's described as a wasteful investment or should I say an unviable sowing that isn't going to produce anything 🤣🤗😊😅😂😄😝😛. It has caused a lot in relationships and marriage and even at some point lead to divorce and lost of family and lives💯. Cheating is bad, no two ways to attesting to that fact✌️🙌.

Cheating is really expensive💯; it has caused partner(mostly women) embarking on building projects and important decisions with letting the other knows and vice versa. You see a man with a cheating woman being secretive of his networth and properties because of cheating. The truth is, "NO CHEATING PARTNER CAN BE TRUSTED". Cheating makes you loose a lot; your respect, love, support, commitment, sacrifice, communication, and so many more to mention.

21/09/2025

“I don't understand how people cheat on their partner. I mean what's the point of saying “i love you” then turning around and betraying the trust that love is built on?

If you truly love someone, honesty and respect should come naturally. Cheating doesn't just hurt the other person it also says a lot about your own lack of integrity and commitment. “

21/09/2025

When Toni Gonzaga said;

“Alam mo, kung lolokohin ka ng partner mo, choice niya talaga yon. Hindi natin kayang bantayan ang tao 24/7, at hindi rin natin kontrolado ang gagawin nila. Kung gusto niyang gumawa ng mali, gagawin at gagawin niya 'yon, gising ka man o tulog. Ang pagiging kuntento, hindi 'yan itinuturo sa libro. Dapat dala mo na yan pag pumasok ka sa relasyon. Kasi kung hindi ka marunong makuntento, hahanap at hahanap ka ng kulang kahit meron ka na.

Kaya tigilan mo ang pagiging paranoid. Kung lolokohin ka niya, that's on him or her. Pero kung hindi ka naman niloloko, be grateful kasi pinipili ka niya araw-araw." 💚

17/09/2025

PAG NAG ASAWA TAYO LAGI NATIN TO TATANDAAN NA ANG PAG AASAWA AY:

1. KATUWANG SA BUHAY.
hindi PABIGAT sa Buhay.

2. KASAMA SA HIRAP
Hindi puro pasarap.

3. PARTNER SA PANGARAP
Hindi nangwawasak ng pangarap.

4. KASABAY mo sa PAG-UNLAD
hindi yung hinihila ka para sumadsad.

5. KINABUKASAN ANG INUUNA
Hindi yung puro barkada.

6. NAGPLAPLANO para sa pamilya
Hindi yung saka na kapag may anak na.

7. Yung PINAPASAYA ka
Hindi Pinapastress ka.

8. Yung marunong MAG MATH
Kung ang sahod ay sapat.

9. Yung Kaagapay mo sa HIRAP AT SAYA
Hindi yung naghahanap pa ng iba.

Kung may lumandi sayo,ikaw na ang lumayo,ikaw na ang umiwas wag mo ng kaibiganin para sa ikabubuti ng anak mo ng asawa mo at ng buong pamilya mo