Eiya and Ella

27/06/2024

Sabi nila, kapag umeedad ka na, palungkot ka nang palungkot. Ngayong nandito na ako, parang totoo nga. May mga araw na ayaw kong bumangon, pero wala akong ibang pagpipilian kung hindi bumangon.

May mga araw na pakiramdam ko ay hindi ako gutom, pero kailangan kong kumain para makagalaw ako. May mga araw na ayaw ko ng kausap, ngunit gusto kong may makinig sa akin sa mga bagay na sarili ko lang ang nakaaalam.

Habang tumatanda ako, pakiramdam ko, hindi ito ang buhay na gusto ko, pero ito lang ang buhay na kaya ko sa ngayon– at nakakaputang ina kasi gaya ng laging nangyayari, wala naman akong pagpipilian. Sobrang nakaiinggit ang mga taong may kalayaang pumili, alin ang gusto nila sa hindi, alin ang pwede sa hindi maaari.

Ang dami kong pangarap, ngunit wala akong sapat na kahoy upang gumawa ng hagdan. Pakiramdam ko, kailangan ko ng sampung araw sa isang linggo para lang masabi kong kahit papaano ay nakatulog ako.

Nakapapagod na. Lahat. Ngunit gaya ng lagi, wala naman akong pagpipilian kung hindi ang manatili, umasa, mangarap, magpursigi, hanggang dumating ang oras na pwede ko nang piliin ang pumili ng labas sa walang pagpipilian.

Ctto

09/04/2024

For entertainment purpose only 🤣🤣

07/08/2023

Yung construction worker for 10 years, sobrang sipag pero hirap pa rin sa buhay hanggang ngayon.

Yung call center agent for 10 years, sobrang sipag pero hindi pa rin mayaman hanggang ngayon.

Yung OFW sa Dubai for 10 years, sobrang sipag pero kinakapos pa rin hanggang ngayon.

Ano yung point ko?

In this world that we're living in, it's not about how masipag you are, it's all about saan mo ina-apply yung kasipagan mo.

No matter how many years ka pang maging masipag sa isang trabaho, if yung landas na tinatahak mo ay mali, nothing will change sa buhay ng iyong pamilya.

If you want to change your life, first and foremost, you need to change your path.

You can't expect mountain summits habang lumalangoy ka sa ilog.

Same thing with your life, hindi mo pwedeng asahan ang magandang buhay if you are doing the same thing kung bakit kayo naghihirap.

"Xian, paano yung mga kagaya naming hindi privileged at mamamatay sa gutom kapag hindi nagtrabaho?"

The world is unfair sa mga ordinaryong tao. Hindi patas ang mundo sa mga dukha na ipinanganak sa isang third world country. Yan ang masakit na realidad.

Kailangan mong humanap ng sideline business habang ika'y nagwo-work. Yung negosyo na maaaring lumago hanggang sa makapag-resign ka na sa trabaho.

Kasi kung wala kang sisimulan ngayon, habambuhay kang magiging masipag na hampaslupa.

18/07/2023

^bakit di tayo open sa family natin?🥺

: kasi imbis na sila unang umintindi, sila pa yung nagbibitaw ng masakit na salita✅📌

18/06/2023

Ipagpasadyos lahat ng plano sa buhay, Dadating ang para sayo...

Maghintay ka lang 🙏 at yan ay ibibigay

31/05/2023

31/05/2023

PAGSUBOK O KARMA?

31/05/2023

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES

1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal.
development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business. Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip.

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.

10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss may finally dump you when he leaves.

11. Retire early. The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today. By 40 to 50 be out.

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project.

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too.

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily.

Hope this will help you look at life positively

30/05/2023

Makeover