06/07/2025
We must learn to pause, breathe, reflect, and act with wisdom - Basilio, class valedictorian
“So, we must learn to pause, breathe, reflect, and act with wisdom. We must take care of our well-being–body, mind, and spirit–because as they say, we cannot pour from an empty cup. After all, we can only truly build a better world if we first learn how to care for the world within us.”
Magna Cum Laude and Education graduate, Valmin Joy B. Basilio emphasized in her speech during the 98th Commencement Exercises of Saint Mary's University held at the Fr. Cornelius Tonus Gymnasium, July 4.
Basilio recounted her student-teaching experiences in both national and international settings. She stressed the challenges of fieldwork, the demands of the classroom, and the diversity of learners she encountered.
"Teaching and looking after these learners was exhausting to say the least. There were moments when I questioned myself–”Is teaching really for me? Is it really my calling?” However, upon seeing the students eventually learn and grow, and even witnessing them graduate, I realized that although my journey as their teacher was tiring, their success made it all worth it," she shared.
More so, she dismantled the notion that pursuing one’s calling is always fulfilling or easy. Instead, she stated that true purpose comes with discomfort, yet it is in these challenging moments when one chooses to persevere despite exhaustion.
"That’s the reality of life and that’s the reality of having a mission–it’s not all rainbows and unicorns. That’s why we must have the courage to show up even when it’s difficult because when we witness our efforts create change, growth, healing, and hope in others, that’s when we’ll know it was all worth it," she stated.
She further emphasized the critical virtues of compassion, patience, and perseverance, especially in careers anchored on service. More than just seeking success, she encouraged her fellow graduates to live lives of significance, defined not by titles, but by the impact they make.
“Still, every person and situation that we meet and encounter, whether easy or difficult, is part of the mission,” she added.
She then challenged her peers to see their professions, be it in education, health, law, or engineering, as platforms for nation-building. According to her, it is not enough to be excellent; one must also be empathetic, responsive, and willing to lead with integrity.
“All of us are part of that mission. Our skills, values, and dreams are what this world deeply needs. The better world we dream of? It can only be built if we all offer our capable hands and willing hearts," she said.
As she neared the end of her address, she urged her fellow graduates to recognize that service, no matter how noble, should not come at the expense of oneself, for purpose begins with presence, and one cannot pour into others from an empty cup.
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Report by Arjanelle Agustin
Pubmat by Arrheya Venish