𝓜𝓸𝓶𝓶𝔂 𝓒𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓮 and Buboy

03/08/2025

Sunday Realizations…

Many people believe that a new life means erasing.

wiping away pain,
forgetting those who hurt them,
pretending the past didn’t happen.

But true healing isn’t about erasure. It’s about integration.

I've learned that while we may never forget the painful memories or those who hurt us,

we always have the power to create new, beautiful moments with our safe persons and welcome meaningful people into our lives.

The goal isn't to forget.
The goal is to remember without pain—and more power.

02/08/2025

if my son ever chooses me over his wife, I failed.

I’m not raising a little boy to stay mine forever.
I’m raising a man who will one day lead, protect,
and pour love into his own family.

I want his wife to feel safe.
chosen. prioritized.
even if that means he tells me “no.”
even if that means I take a step back.

and yes, I hope I’m part of their holidays
and everyday memories.
but I never want to be the reason
there’s tension in their home.

my success as a mom?
knowing I raised a man
who leads with love, not guilt.

that’s how I’ll know I did it right.

🩵✨

Ctto Princess Brown

01/08/2025

That’s okay mama. I am here for you.
You can always start again mama.
Because there is always better,
Better love.
Better friends.
Better life.
Better everything.

love ❤️,
Buboy

29/07/2025

Be careful. 🔎

Narcissists ignore their parenting duties on purpose and then wrongly say that you are keeping the children away from them. It’s one of the most manipulative tactics they use—abandoning their responsibilities, missing out on milestones, failing to show up emotionally or physically for their children—and then flipping the script to make it look like you're the one standing in the way of their relationship. They want to play the victim while dodging accountability. They refuse to co-parent, but they’re quick to claim you’re “alienating” them when in reality, they were never present in the first place.

They will pretend to care only when it’s convenient for them—usually when someone’s watching, or when they need a weapon to use against you. Their goal isn't to be a parent. It's to maintain control over you, to manipulate public perception, and to make you look like the problem so they don't have to confront the fact that they’ve failed as a parent. They thrive on confusion and chaos, and they’ll do anything to avoid responsibility while still reaping the benefits of looking like a “good parent” to others.

But what they don’t understand is this: consistency, presence, and love cannot be faked forever. Children grow older. They remember who dried their tears, who helped them with homework, who showed up for school events, doctor appointments, and sleepless nights. They may be fooled for a while, but in time, they’ll see through the lies. And when that day comes, the narcissist will be left with nothing but the consequences of their own choices—because parenting is not about performance. It's about presence, and love, and sacrifice. And no amount of manipulation can cover up the absence they left behind.

27/07/2025

Good morning and happy Monday! 😇

Today's by Fr. Jerry M. Orbos, SVD (July 27, 2025).

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26/07/2025

26/07/2025

“And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace…will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.”.: 1 Peter 5:10 :..

25/07/2025

Mga importanteng tao sa buhay namin ni buboy ngayon 😂
Credits to the owner of this photo.

27/12/2024

Thank you so much Graceland for the gift cheques, loyal customer here since highschool.🎂🎄

Favorite na namin ang cakes and pastries niyo tuwing may occasion. Bukod sa affordable at masarap, super accessible din kasi kahit saan may malapit na branch.

Sa mga naghahanap pa ng masarap na centerpiece sa bagong taon, or kung may mga magbi birthday diyan, try niyo na sa magsaysay branch nila. 😇🥳

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Everyone!

19/08/2023

Watami Philippines
📍Makati

From the wide range of authentic Japanese menu some of the favorites include Tonkatsu ChasuRamen, Spicy Salmon Bowl, Pork Katsudon, Salmon Teriyaki Teishoku Set and Shrimp Tempura.

02/07/2023

✔️MAGANDANG CAFÉ SA BATO CAMARINES SUR

For sure, pasok sa taste ng café person friend mo ang bagong place na ‘to sa Bato, Camarines sur

📍Embers Café and Restaurant
Link: https://www.facebook.com/emberscoffeeph?mibextid=LQQJ4d

☕️ Masarap ang drinks and maraming pagpipilian
🥗 Madaming options din for food at talagang sulit ang pera mo.
💶 Fair ang price ng food since madami naman ang serving size at masarap talaga.
🤩 Super Aesthetic at relaxing ng place
❄️ Legit na airconditioned, malamig
👌 Elegant ang lights at hindi maingay, perfect for online meetings, study or bonding with friends.
🌃 Parang wala ka sa province at nasa city ka due to SB like ambience

21/06/2023

John 14:18 No, I will not abandon you or leave you as orphans in the storm—I will come to you. Others will let us down and abandon us. Even your closest and best friend and even your family will drop you but God will not.