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Here's a question every Christian needs to ask themselves:When you share your faith, who are people walking away thinkin...
13/01/2026

Here's a question every Christian needs to ask themselves:
When you share your faith, who are people walking away thinking about? Jesus, or you?

It's a subtle shift. So subtle you might not even notice it happening.

You start sharing your testimony. People are encouraged. They respond. They thank you. They follow you.

And slowly, without realizing it, your story starts becoming the main story.

Your breakthrough becomes the highlight, not God's faithfulness.

Your journey becomes the lesson, not Scripture.

Your experience becomes the authority, not the Word of God.

And before you know it, you've crossed a line.

You're no longer pointing people to Jesus. You're pointing people to yourself.

Paul saw this happening in the Corinthian church. People were dividing over personalities.
"I follow Paul."
"I follow Apollos."
"I follow Peter."

And Paul's response was sharp:
"๐˜ž๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜—๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ญ ๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ? ๐˜ž๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ป๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜—๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ญ?" (1 Corinthians 1:13)

Then he made it even clearer in 2 Corinthians 4:5:
"๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด, ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™…๐™š๐™จ๐™ช๐™จ ๐˜พ๐™๐™ง๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™จ ๐™‡๐™ค๐™ง๐™™."

Paul refused to let people make him the center. He constantly redirected their attention back to Christ.

Because Paul understood something we're forgetting today: ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž. ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ.

But we've flipped that.

Today, the messenger has become the brand. The personality. The influencer.

We market ourselves more than we magnify Christ.
We build our following more than we build His Church.
We care more about being seen than making sure Jesus is seen.

And people notice.

They start quoting us instead of quoting Scripture.

They depend on our posts for daily encouragement instead of opening their Bibles.

They follow our journey instead of following Jesus.

John the Baptist knew how to handle this. When people started flocking to him, when his ministry was booming, when he had every opportunity to build something around himself, he said:

"๐˜๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ; ๐™„ ๐™ข๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™ก๐™š๐™จ๐™จ." (John 3:30)

John understood his assignment. He was the voice, not the Word. He was the signpost, not the destination.

His job was to point people to Jesus and then get out of the way.

That's what every believer is called to do.

Decrease so Jesus can increase.

Step aside so Jesus can step forward.

Fade so Jesus can shine.

But instead, we fight to stay relevant. To stay visible. To stay in the spotlight.

And here's the sobering truth: if your absence would cause people's faith to shake, you've become their foundation. And that's dangerous.

Because when you fall, they fall.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐š๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐‰๐ž๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.

So let me ask you again:
When you share your faith, who gets the glory?

When people hear your story, who do they walk away remembering?

When you teach, do you point people to Scripture or to your own revelation?

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—š๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜. ๐—œ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ.

It doesn't need your personality to make it attractive. It needs your obedience to make it credible.

๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜‚๐˜€.
๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ.
๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—š๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—น.

There's something happening in the Church right now, and it's creating a generation of confused Christians.Everywhere yo...
08/01/2026

There's something happening in the Church right now, and it's creating a generation of confused Christians.

Everywhere you turn, the message is the same:

"God has a promise for you."
"God has plans for you"
"Your season is coming."

And listen, I'm not against God's promises as the Scripture is full of them. And God does bless His people.

But somewhere along the way, we shifted.

We stopped preaching about knowing God and started preaching about using God.

We stopped teaching people to seek His face and started teaching them to seek His hand.

And now we have Christians who are more excited about the blessing than they are about the Blesser.

๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž.

They pray, but only when they need something. They worship, but only when life is going well. They follow God, but only as long as He's giving them what they asked for.

And the moment things don't go their way?
They question everything. Their faith shakes. Some even walk away.

Why? Because they were never really chasing God. They were chasing what God could do for them.

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š ๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ-๐Ÿ๐จ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ข๐ญ๐ก.

Jesus said it plainly in Matthew 6:33: "๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™™๐™ค๐™ข ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ง๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ."

Notice the order. God first. His Kingdom first. Then everything else follows.

But we've flipped it. We seek the "all these things" first and treat God like a means to an end.

The Psalmist understood this better. In Psalm 73:25, he says: "๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ? ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐™—๐™š๐™จ๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช."*

Not "besides what You can give me."
Just ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ. God alone.

That's the heart God is looking for.

Job understood this. After losing everything, he said: "๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉ ๐˜๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฎ." (Job 13:15)

That's not confusion. That's conviction.

So if you find yourself more excited about what God will do than who God is, ask yourself:

Would I still follow God if He never gave me another blessing?
Would I still worship Him if my situation never changed?
Would I still love Him if the promise never came?

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ. ๐™”๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ƒ๐™š ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™™๐™ค ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช.

And that's not Christianity. That's transaction.

๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฎ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ.
๐—›๐—ฒ'๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—™๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜, ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ต ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜.

There's a version of Christianity that's becoming dangerously popular.It goes like this: ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜‘๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต'๐˜ด ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜บ, ๐˜ช...
10/12/2025

There's a version of Christianity that's becoming dangerously popular.

It goes like this: ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜‘๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ด ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต'๐˜ด ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜บ, ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต'๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ.

Love God? Yes.
But live pure? "That's too restrictive."

Worship on Sundays? Yes.
Forgive completely? "You don't know what they did."

We've learned to customize our faith. Take what feels good. Leave what costs too much. But God doesn't work that way.

In 1 Samuel 15, King Saul was given one clear instruction: destroy everything. No exceptions. But Saul decided he knew better. He kept the best livestock and called it "worship."

When confronted, he defended himself. He had reasons. Good ones, even.

But God's response through the prophet Samuel was final:

"๐˜›๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ด. ๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ, ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ค๐™œ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™š๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ž๐™™๐™ค๐™ก๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ฎ." (1 Samuel 15:22-23)

God didn't accept Saul's excuses. He called it what it was: rebellion.

Partial obedience isn't obedience. It's rebellion wrapped in religious language.

James 2:10 makes it even clearer: "๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ธ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜จ๐˜ถ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฃ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ช๐˜ต."

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง'๐ญ ๐จ๐›๐ž๐ฒ ๐†๐จ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ง๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ญ. ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง'๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐‡๐ข๐ฆ ๐ก๐š๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐œ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ.

God isn't looking for perfect people. He's looking for surrendered hearts.

Because selective obedience reveals something dangerous: you're still on the throne of your life, not Jesus.

When you get to decide which commands to follow, you're not serving God. You're serving yourself.

God isn't asking for your edited version of Christianity. He's asking for full surrender.

๐—˜๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ฒ'๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น.

There's a subtle but dangerous temptation that comes with leadership.And before you know it, leadership becomes about co...
08/12/2025

There's a subtle but dangerous temptation that comes with leadership.

And before you know it, leadership becomes about control instead of service. About position instead of influence. About being followed instead of being an example.

But Peter, who walked with Jesus and learned leadership from the Master Himself, gives us a radically different picture:

1 Peter 5:3 says, "Not lording it over those entrusted to you, ๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™š๐™ญ๐™–๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™›๐™ก๐™ค๐™˜๐™ ."

๐๐จ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ซ๐๐ข๐ง๐ . ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ . ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ .

But being examples.

This is the heart of biblical leadership. And it's the complete opposite of how the world leads.

The world says, "๐˜“๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ. ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ."

Jesus says, "๐˜“๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต. ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ."

There's a huge difference.

One uses authority to enforce compliance. The other uses character to inspire transformation. One demands respect. The other earns it.

True leadership doesn't pull rank. It sets the standard.

You can't tell people to pray if you don't pray.

You can't tell people to forgive if you hold grudges.

People don't just follow your words. They follow your life.

And when your life matches your message, you don't have to force people to follow. They'll want to.

This is why Jesus washed feet.

He didn't stand over His disciples and bark orders. He knelt down and served them. He modeled the leadership He was calling them to.

And then He said in John 13:15, "๐˜ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ."

Leadership by example is leadership that lasts.

It's leadership that transforms, not just commands.

It's leadership that builds people up, not just pushes them around.

Because at the end of the day, people will forget what you said. But they'll never forget how you led.

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—น๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚.
๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚'๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—น๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.

๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐œ๐ž. ๐€๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ.Have you ever noticed how money talks?Not literally, but it has a voice. And ...
02/12/2025

๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐œ๐ž. ๐€๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ.

Have you ever noticed how money talks?

Not literally, but it has a voice. And the moment you decide to give, something inside whispers:

"๐˜ˆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ? ๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต? ๐˜’๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ช๐˜ต. ๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ต. ๐˜—๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ง๐˜ฆ."

I realized something: the only reason something talks is because it wants influence.

๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ. ๐—œ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜.

But here's the good news: God gave us a way to shut that voice down.

Jesus said in Matthew 6:21, "For where your treasure is, ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™—๐™š ๐™–๐™ก๐™จ๐™ค."

Notice what Jesus didn't say. He didn't say, "๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ด."

He said the opposite: ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—น๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„๐˜€.

Money pulls the heart. It can influence your priorities, your decisions, and even your relationship with God.

And that's why giving is so powerful.

Because every time we give, we're not just performing a church routine. We are doing spiritual warfare.

Giving breaks the power of greed.

And every time we open our hand to give, God is able to open heaven to bless. Because God can only fill open hands, not closed fists.

The enemy loves greed, but God loves generosity.

Why? Because generosity looks like Him.

"๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜Ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆโ€ฆ" (John 3:16)

So when we give, we're not just giving money. We're practicing the heart of God. We're choosing trust over fear. Worship over worry. Faith over self-preservation.

Every time you give, your heart grows.

Every time you give, you break the power of greed.

Every time you give, you strengthen your trust in God.

So today, ask yourself: "Lord, what is my treasure saying about my heart?"

๐—š๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜€. ๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ.
๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜†: ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ. ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€.

If you've ever felt the pressure to perform in ministry, this is for you.There's a quiet but dangerous shift that happen...
01/12/2025

If you've ever felt the pressure to perform in ministry, this is for you.

There's a quiet but dangerous shift that happens in the heart of every servant of God. It starts small. You begin serving with joy, but slowly, without realizing it, your identity begins to attach itself to your ministry results.

You start measuring your worth by:
- How many people show up
- How consistent you are
- How much people affirm you
- How "successful" your ministry looks

And when things go well, you feel valuable. But when things slow down, you feel like a failure.

This is exactly what Jesus saw happening in Luke 10.

The seventy-two disciples came back from their first ministry trip absolutely thrilled. Miracles had happened. Demons had submitted. People were healed.

They ran to Jesus and said, "Lord, even the demons submit to us in Your name!"

But Jesus, knowing their hearts, responded with a truth that would protect them from burnout:

"Do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ข๐™š๐™จ ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ."

Jesus wasn't diminishing their ministry. He was protecting their identity.

Because here's the truth: ministry results will always fluctuate, but your salvation never will.

Your joy cannot rise and fall with attendance numbers, impact, or people's opinions. It has to be anchored in something eternal.

Before Jesus ever healed the sick or taught the crowds, the Father declared over Him: "This is My Son, whom I love; with Him I am well pleased." (Matthew 3:17)

Identity came first. Ministry came second.

Jesus didn't serve to prove His worth. He served because His worth was already established.

And the same is true for you.

Ephesians 1 reminds us that you were chosen, adopted, redeemed, and sealed by the Spirit before you ever lifted a finger in service.

Your identity was secure before your ministry even began.

So if you've been feeling burned out, insecure, or pressured in your service, ask yourself:

- Am I serving to be loved, or because I am loved?
- Am I ministering for approval, or from approval?
- Am I trying to prove my worth, or resting in my worth?

Ministry is meant to be the overflow of your identity, not the source of it.

When you finally understand that you are already accepted, already valued, already secure in Christ, serving becomes freedom.

You stop comparing. You stop competing. You stop performing.

And you start worshiping.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป.
๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€.

If I'm being honest, this is one of the hardest truths Christians need to hear right now.Because somewhere along the way...
30/11/2025

If I'm being honest, this is one of the hardest truths Christians need to hear right now.

Because somewhere along the way, we started believing that love was enough. That chemistry was enough. That "God will work it out" was enough.

But it's not.

You cannot build a Godly marriage on a worldly foundation.

And yet, so many believers are doing exactly that.

They're dating people who don't share their faith, convincing themselves, "๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ'๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ. ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ'๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ."

They're marrying believers who look the part on Sunday but live completely different lives Monday through Saturday.

They're compromising their convictions because they're afraid of being alone, or because everyone else is doing it, or because they think this is their "last chance."

But God's Word is crystal clear on this:

2 Corinthians 6:14 says, *"๐˜‹๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด. ๐™๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™™๐™ค ๐™ง๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™˜๐™ ๐™š๐™™๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ข๐™ค๐™ฃ? ๐™Š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™š๐™ก๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™จ๐™๐™ž๐™ฅ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ก๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™™๐™–๐™ง๐™ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™จ๐™จ?"*

This isn't God being harsh. This is God being protective.

Because when you marry someone who doesn't share your faith, you're not just choosing a partner. You're choosing a spiritual direction for your home, your future, and your children.

**How can two walk together unless they agree?** (Amos 3:3)

You can't pray together if they don't pray.

You can't raise godly children if they don't value God's Word.

You can't fight spiritual battles together if they don't even believe there's a war.

And here's the trap: many Christians think, "๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ. ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ."

But believing in God and following God are two completely different things.

Even the demons believe, and they shudder (James 2:19).

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€. ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—น๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜.

Someone who prioritizes God's Word over their feelings.

Someone who pursues holiness, not just happiness.

Someone who seeks God first, not just when life gets hard.

Because marriage doesn't make people godly. It reveals who they really are.

And if you marry someone hoping they'll change, you're not building on a foundation. You're building on sand.

Jesus said it plainly in Matthew 7:26-27: *"๐˜‰๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ. ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ข๐™š ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฃ, ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ข๐™จ ๐™ง๐™ค๐™จ๐™š, ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™จ ๐™—๐™ก๐™š๐™ฌ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™—๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™œ๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ๐™š, ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™š๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™– ๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™ง๐™–๐™จ๐™."*

So if you're single and believing God for a spouse, don't lower your standards to match the world. Raise your expectations to match God's Word.

And if you're already in a relationship that's built on compromise, it's not too late. Seek God. Get counsel. Do whatever it takes to rebuild on the right foundation.

Because a Kingdom marriage isn't just about finding someone you love.

๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚.

Let me say that again, because this is where so many Christians are getting it wrong:๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ'๐ซ...
28/11/2025

Let me say that again, because this is where so many Christians are getting it wrong:

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ'๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž.

We live in a culture that has made feelings the ultimate authority. "Follow your heart."

But Scripture says in Jeremiah 17:9, "๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ..."

Your heart can lie to you. Your emotions can mislead you. Your feelings can convince you that wrong is right and right is wrong.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€.

They abandon their calling because "I don't feel passionate about it."

They walk away from church because "It just doesn't feel right."

They compromise their convictions because "It feels like love."

But feelings change. Feelings fade. Feelings lie.
God's Word does not.

Proverbs 3:5-6 commands us: "๐˜›๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜“๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐™ก๐™š๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฃ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ; ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ด ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฉ๐˜ต."

Notice what it says? Don't lean on your own understanding. Not your feelings. Not your perception. Not what "feels true."

Submit to Him. Trust His Word above your emotions.

I'm not saying your feelings don't matter. They do. God created you with emotions, and He cares about what you're going through.

But your feelings were never meant to be your guide. They were meant to be submitted to the One who sees what you cannot.

So the next time you're about to make a major decision based on how you feel, stop and ask yourself:
- Does this align with God's Word?
- Does this honor God?
- Am I being led by the Spirit, or by my emotions?

Because feelings will take you where convenience is. But God's Word will take you where character is.

๐——๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ฑ.
๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฟ, ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜.

When my wife was pregnant, people would say:โ€œ๐˜Œ๐˜ฏ๐˜ซ๐˜ฐ๐˜บ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ.โ€ โ€œ๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช...
04/08/2025

When my wife was pregnant, people would say:
โ€œ๐˜Œ๐˜ฏ๐˜ซ๐˜ฐ๐˜บ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ.โ€
โ€œ๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ.โ€
โ€œ๐˜“๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ.โ€

And honestly, they werenโ€™t wrong.
Life did change.
We sleep less.
The days are louder, messier, more unpredictable than ever before.

But hereโ€™s what no one really says:

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š ๐Ÿ ๐€๐Œ ๐œ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š ๐ ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ.
That being woken up every 2 to 3 hours means your child is ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ, ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ.
That the noise, the crying, the fussing, the endless needs, are a blessingโ€ฆ

We donโ€™t approach parenting with frustration.
We approach it with gratitude.

Not because itโ€™s always easy.
But because itโ€™s always sacred.

Not every parent gets to hear their baby cry.
Not every child wakes up again.

We donโ€™t practice gentle parenting as a trendโ€”
We practice grateful parenting as a posture.

Because we donโ€™t see our child as a burden.
We see him as a miracle.
An answered prayer. A living, breathing reminder of Godโ€™s goodness.

Every cry is a conversation.
Every sleepless night, a quiet offering.
Every diaper change, giggle, and meltdownโ€”
A holy moment of stewardship, not just survival.

So to the parent whoโ€™s tiredโ€ฆ
The days are louder, messier, and more unpredictable than ever before.

๐——๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑโ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ.

๐˜Ž๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ changes everything.

It wonโ€™t make the work disappear,
But it will remind you why it matters.

Weโ€™re not just raising a child.
๐—ช๐—ฒโ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ.

๐ƒ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ?Like the moment you slow down, a voice in your head whispers, โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถโ€™๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ง...
18/07/2025

๐ƒ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ?

Like the moment you slow down, a voice in your head whispers, โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถโ€™๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญโ€ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆโ€ฆ ๐˜Ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณโ€ฆโ€

If thatโ€™s you, this is for you.

Somewhere along the way, many of us started equating busyness with holiness, and burnout with loyalty.

But Scripture tells a different story.

God didnโ€™t wait for you to collapse before He commanded rest.
He gave the Sabbath not as a burden, but as a gift (Mark 2:27).

Even Jesus, God in the flesh, rested.

He withdrew to quiet places. He slept in storms. He paused to pray, to breathe, to be.

Rest is not rebellion.
Rest is not disobedience.
Rest is trust.

When you rest, youโ€™re not letting God down. Youโ€™re honoring Him by acknowledging that the world doesnโ€™t spin because of your effort, but because of His faithfulness.

Rest isnโ€™t a sign that youโ€™re falling behind.
Itโ€™s a sign that you know whoโ€™s really in charge.

So breathe.

Lay it down.

And remember: ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ซ๐™–๐™ก๐™ช๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™™๐™ช๐™˜๐™š. ๐™„๐™ฉโ€™๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ค ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™—๐™š๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™ค.

โ€œOkay ra man siguro nga dili sa ko mo tunga karon, no?โ€โ€œValid ra man siguro akong kakapoy, no?โ€Sometimes we forget that ...
01/05/2025

โ€œOkay ra man siguro nga dili sa ko mo tunga karon, no?โ€
โ€œValid ra man siguro akong kakapoy, no?โ€

Sometimes we forget that rest is also a form of showing up for ourselves.

When you're so used to always being there for others, giving your time and energy without question, the moment you choose to pause, you feel a twinge of guilt.

But hear this: your worth is not tied to your constant availability.
You are allowed to rest.

You are allowed to choose yourself today.
And that choice is not selfishโ€ฆ itโ€™s sacred.

Sheโ€™s clocking in and still checking on her family.Sheโ€™s serving in church, praying for others, and managing 10 things a...
26/04/2025

Sheโ€™s clocking in and still checking on her family.
Sheโ€™s serving in church, praying for others, and managing 10 things at once.

Women wear a thousand hatsโ€”and somehow, they still give their best.
๐˜Œ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บโ€™๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ต.

And hey, if thatโ€™s you reading this right now:
You donโ€™t have to do it all perfectly.
You just have to do it with heart.

God isnโ€™t looking for superhuman strength.
Heโ€™s looking for surrendered heartsโ€”and youโ€™ve got that.
Youโ€™re not behind. Youโ€™re not too much. Youโ€™re right where you need to be.

You are grace in motion. A walking miracle. A reflection of His endurance. ๐Ÿ’ผ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ
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