04/08/2025
When my wife was pregnant, people would say:
โ๐๐ฏ๐ซ๐ฐ๐บ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ด๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฑ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฆ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ.โ
โ๐๐ต ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ญ๐บ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต๐ด ๐ฉ๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ณ๐ต ๐ธ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ.โ
โ๐๐ช๐ง๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ข๐ฎ๐ฆ.โ
And honestly, they werenโt wrong.
Life did change.
We sleep less.
The days are louder, messier, more unpredictable than ever before.
But hereโs what no one really says:
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐ ๐ข๐๐ญ.
That being woken up every 2 to 3 hours means your child is ๐ข๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฆ, ๐จ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ฏ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ค๐ฆ.
That the noise, the crying, the fussing, the endless needs, are a blessingโฆ
We donโt approach parenting with frustration.
We approach it with gratitude.
Not because itโs always easy.
But because itโs always sacred.
Not every parent gets to hear their baby cry.
Not every child wakes up again.
We donโt practice gentle parenting as a trendโ
We practice grateful parenting as a posture.
Because we donโt see our child as a burden.
We see him as a miracle.
An answered prayer. A living, breathing reminder of Godโs goodness.
Every cry is a conversation.
Every sleepless night, a quiet offering.
Every diaper change, giggle, and meltdownโ
A holy moment of stewardship, not just survival.
So to the parent whoโs tiredโฆ
The days are louder, messier, and more unpredictable than ever before.
๐๐ผ๐ปโ๐ ๐น๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑโ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ท๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ.
๐๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ต๐ถ๐ฅ๐ฆ changes everything.
It wonโt make the work disappear,
But it will remind you why it matters.
Weโre not just raising a child.
๐ช๐ฒโ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฑ, ๐๐ผ๐ผ.