Journey in Life After Retirement-7/21/23

Journey in Life After Retirement-7/21/23 Forty (40) years ago I engaged myself into my profession as a State Auditor of the Phil. government.

16/03/2025

Mensahe ito para sa mga Kababayan kong mga kapwa Pilipino:

Sa bawa't isa sa atin, lalo na yaong nasasaktan, patuloy na nararamdaman ang paghihirap ng kauban at nababagabag sa kasalukuyang sitwasyon ngayon na hinaharap ng ating mahal na bansang Pilipinas, nararapat lamang siguro na pagnilay-nilayan natin kung ano ba ang naging dahilan at ugat nitong lahat ng kaguluhan na nararanasan natin ngayon at ito lamang ang masasabi ko...nawa'y magising tayo sa isang katotohanan na dapat maging aral para sa atin ito mapangpersonal man o para sa pangkalahatang aspeto ng ating buhay at pamumuhay, dahil pilit mang ipikit at balewalain natin kung ano ang ugat at saan nagsimula itong gulo na hinaharap ng bawa't isang mamayang Pilipino na may malasakit sa ating bansang Pilipinas, ito ang totong dahilan nitong lahat...isang ARAL NA DAPAT ITANIM NATIN SA ATING MGA ISIPAN:

"ANG ISANG BAGAY NA ISINUSUKA AT INILABAS MO NA SA BUNGANGA MO, HINDE MO NA DAPAT ITONG PULUTIN PA, AT ISUBONG MULI DAHIL TIYAK ITO'Y MAGIGING LASON NA MAGDUDULOT LAMANG NG KAHINAAN SA IYONG KATAWAN AT MAKAKASAMA SA IYONG KALAGAYAN."

YAN ANG ISANG KATOTOHANAN NG SIMULAIN SA MAGULONG PILIPINAS NGAYON.

IPAGDASAL NATIN ANG KAPATAWARAN NG ATING MGA PAGKAKAMALING NAGAWA...MULING MAGKAISA TAYO NA IPAGDASAL NATIN NA ILIGTAS SA MATINDING KAGULUHAN ANG BAYAN NATING MINAHAMAHAL, ANG BANSANG PILIPINAS!!!

NARANASAN AT NAIRAOS NA NATIN SANA ANG MASAMANG YUGTO NG ATING BUHAY...AT HETO MULI TAYO NGAYON...BAKIT NGA BA???

Worth reading...for we learn lessons we really need to learn...📖💯🕊️
03/10/2024

Worth reading...for we learn lessons we really need to learn...📖💯🕊️

Isabel Fernández had reached 85 years of age with the peace of mind of having lived a full life. Widowed for more than two decades, she had raised her four children, but over time, family ties began to fray.

Her children, now adults, had started families of their own, absorbed in their busy lives, and visits to their mother had become increasingly sporadic.

As the years passed, Isabel took refuge in memories and in her spacious house, a beautiful property on the outskirts of Madrid. There she spent her days among books, plants, and the occasional call from her children, who were almost always too busy to visit her.

Her 85th birthday was approaching, an occasion that Isabel was especially looking forward to. She thought that maybe this time her children would come to celebrate with her, just like they did when they were little.

She had organized a small party at her house, bought a cake, and prepared several traditional dishes that she knew her children loved. She didn't need a big celebration, she just wanted the company of her family. She had sent invitations to each of her children, hoping they would understand how important that day was to her.

On Birthday.
The day arrived, and with it, silence. The table was set, the candles lit, but the chairs remained empty. Isabel waited patiently, looking at the clock every now and then, convinced that one of her children would appear.

However, the afternoon passed, and night fell without anyone passing through the door. Not a call, not a message. Isabel sat alone at the table, contemplating the untouched cake and the dishes she had prepared with so much love.

With a sadness that she could not hide, she blew out the candles on her own and, without saying a word, put away everything she had prepared. That night, as she tried to fall asleep, the pain in her heart was palpable.

It wasn't just the loneliness, but the fact that those to whom she had dedicated her entire life couldn't find a moment for her.

The next morning, she woke up with a different feeling. She decided that she wouldn't wait any longer. She had something to do, and she knew that, although her children did not value her in life, she would leave them a lesson that they would never forget.

The unexpected change.

A few months later, Isabel passed away peacefully in her bed. Her departure did not surprise anyone, since her advanced age already foreshadowed a near end. However, what did surprise everyone was the will she left behind.

Her children, who for years had been distant and busy with their own lives, gathered in the family lawyer's office, waiting to hear what many took for granted: that their mother's fortune would be divided equally between them.

At the front of the room, the lawyer, a middle-aged man named Julián García, with a serious face, began to read the will. Silence took over the place when, one by one, Isabel's children listened to their mother's words, but what they heard was not what they expected.

"My dear children," the lawyer began, reading Isabel's words, "I have spent my last years hoping to see in you the love and unity that we once shared.

I understand that life has taken you on different paths, but I cannot ignore the pain I have felt in the moments when I have needed you most and you were not there. On my last birthday, when I sat alone waiting for you, I understood that time is not something that can be recovered."

Her children's faces began to show signs of discomfort. Each of them remembered that day with some shame, but none of them had thought that their mother would take that incident so seriously.

The lawyer continued reading: "I always wanted the best for you, but I have also learned that the true value of a family is not in material goods, but in love and time shared. Therefore, I have decided that my house, the one in which you grew up and that I know you value so much, will not be divided among you. Instead, I have left instructions that it be donated to an organization that cares for lonely elderly people, so that there they can find the comfort and affection that I do not. received in my last years."

Isabel's children were speechless. The house was the most valuable asset their mother owned, and neither of them had imagined that their mother would use it for a charitable cause. They felt a mixture of disbelief and regret, but that was not all.

"As for my money," the lawyer continued, "I have decided that part of it will go towards the education of my grandchildren, so that they can have opportunities and learn what really matters in life. The rest will be donated to various causes charitable, those that take care of those most in need, something that has worried me deeply in my last years."

The final blow was forceful. Not only had they lost the house, but most of the money wasn't going to go to them either. His mother's will was loaded with a profound lesson: true legacy is not measured in assets, but in the acts of love and compassion that are passed on to others.

The weight of decisions.

After the reading of the will, the four brothers looked at each other in silence, unable to process what they had just heard. They had spent their entire lives assuming that their mother would always be there, not realizing what they had lost in the process. Their mother had not only left them a void in material terms, but a lesson that now resonated painfully with each of them.

The following months were marked by regret. One by one, the brothers began to realize the value of the small moments they had missed, the conversations they never had, and the hugs they didn't give. Isabel's legacy was not in her house or her money, but in the profound teaching that family love cannot be bought or postponed.

The home that was once theirs now housed other elderly people who, like Isabel, had spent their last days in solitude. Every time they passed by the house, Isabel's children remembered the day they did not attend her birthday and how that absence had cost them more than they could have ever imagined.

In that final act of generosity, Isabel had left an indelible mark on her children, a lesson that, although painful, taught them the value of time, love and the presence that they had forgotten to offer.

12/06/2024

END THE TOXIC FAMILY CYCLE

If you come from a family of drunkards, let that cycle end with you. Let drunkeness never pass through you to the next generation.

If you come from a family of drop outs, no one gets to finish school or go to University; end that cycle and reach the highest level in study, prove that even your family tree can produce an intellectual.

If your relative's marriages never last, your parent's marriage was a disappointment; end that cycle, when you get married have a marriage built to last.

If you are a man and your father used to beat up your mother; end that cycle, be the opposite of your dad and love your wife like a real man should.

If you come from a tribal family where decisions are made through tribal lenses; end the cycle, show your family that love knows no tribe.

If the family you come from has been living in poverty; end that cycle, make money, lift your family to wealth.

If members of your family are largely known for mediocrity or shameful acts; end that cycle, be excellent and successful, bring pride to your family name.

If people from your family are known to be mean,cold and tempered; end that cycle, work on being friendly, warm and approachable.

If your family has been involved in witchcraft, su***de, curses and ungodliness; end that cycle, introduce God in your family tree, declare that as for me and my house we will serve the Lord!

You don't have to carry forward the shortcomings in your family down the lineage to the next generation. Love your family but learn from their mistakes. You don't have a say in determining the family you are born in to, but you can determine who you become and the kind of future and family you will have. Your decisions affect generations to come

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