09/05/2025
𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗦𝗛𝗢𝗨𝗟𝗗 𝗡𝗢𝗧 𝗦𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛 𝗢𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗦:
𝙔𝙊𝙐𝙍 𝘽𝙄𝙂 𝙋𝙇𝘼𝙉
- This is the first thing because sometimes we talk too much and share everything. The issue with telling people your plans is that they might expect them to happen. If they don't see that part materialize, they may view it as a failure and use that as a measure of your success. It’s hard to explain everything to everyone.
𝙔𝙊𝙐𝙍 𝙇𝙊𝙑𝙀 𝙇𝙄𝙁𝙀
- Your relationship is personal and private. It’s meant for you and your partner alone. Avoid sharing too much, especially when the details are very private. Even with your best friend, it’s better to have some boundaries.
𝙔𝙊𝙐𝙍 𝙎𝘼𝙇𝘼𝙍𝙔
- In our culture, it’s rare for people to openly talk about their monthly salary or the benefits they receive from their job or business. It’s best to avoid discussing this, especially since everyone’s life situation is different.
𝙔𝙊𝙐𝙍 𝙉𝙀𝙓𝙏 𝙈𝙊𝙑𝙀
- It’s often better to keep your next steps or plans to yourself, especially when dealing with challenges. Some things are better left private or personal.
𝙁𝘼𝙈𝙄𝙇𝙔 𝙄𝙎𝙎𝙐𝙀𝙎
- Family matters should stay within the family. Also, you can’t share every detail of what happened. The problem is, when you share these things, others may eventually make your family the topic of their conversations.
𝙒𝙊𝙍𝙆 𝙋𝙍𝙊𝘽𝙇𝙀𝙈𝙎
- Experts suggest that it’s better to keep work problems to yourself, especially when it comes to your boss. People might think you’re unhappy with your job or life. Additionally, you can’t update everyone on the details of what happened.
𝙎𝙏𝙊𝙍𝙄𝙀𝙎 𝙔𝙊𝙐 𝙃𝙀𝘼𝙍𝘿 𝙁𝙍𝙊𝙈 𝙊𝙏𝙃𝙀𝙍𝙎
- If you don’t know the full story or all the facts, it’s not your place to repeat what you've heard from someone else or pass along second-hand information.
Words by:Anonymous
