Jolo's Creative Corner

23/06/2023

16/06/2023

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐂𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅📚

1. Shift your focus to those who appreciate and reciprocate your efforts.
2. Embrace self-reliance and avoid begging for validation or attention.
3. Practice brevity and avoid unnecessary verbosity in your communication.
4. Confront those who disrespect you promptly, asserting your boundaries.
5. Don't consume more from others than you contribute to them.
6. Limit your visits to individuals who fail to reciprocate your efforts.
7. Prioritize self-investment and pursue activities that bring you joy.
8. Refrain from engaging in gossip or spreading rumors about others.
9. Practice thoughtfulness in your speech, as people assess your value based on your words.
10. Present yourself in a manner that reflects how you wish to be treated.
11. Focus on your goals and strive for achievements.
12. Value your time and manage it wisely.
13. Leave relationships where you feel undervalued and disrespected.
14. Learn to indulge in self-care and spend money on yourself, teaching others to do the same.
15. Create an air of mystery by being selective about your availability.
16. Embrace a mindset of giving rather than constantly expecting to receive.
17. Respect invitations and avoid overstaying your welcome.
18. Treat people based on their actions and treat them with the respect they deserve.
19. Limit your attempts to reach out to others, except when it involves money owed. Genuine connections will reciprocate.
20. Strive for excellence in your pursuits and become the best version of yourself.

12/06/2023

BENEFITS OF DATING AN OVERTHINKER:

1. They are great listeners and will support you with your insecurities.

2. They are genuinely interested in learning about your preferences.

3. They are reliable and will always be there for you.

4. They pay attention to your routines and can anticipate your likes and dislikes.

5. They are mindful of their words and won't say hurtful things, even when upset.

6. They are empathetic and attentive listeners.

7. They prioritize your feelings and avoid causing harm.

8. They appreciate effort and consistency more than material gifts.

9. They are available to help you, even late at night.

10. They believe in addressing and resolving issues promptly.

05/06/2023

—— 8 Steps to Overcome Overthinking and Find Inner Peace ❤️

1. Seek Silence and Time:
Taking time for yourself and finding stillness in your mind can help solve many problems. Avoid overthinking.

2. Fact-Check Your Thoughts:
Mindfully examine your thoughts and don't accept negative ones without checking them against reality. Verify the accuracy of your thoughts.

3. The Power of the Present:
Focus on the present moment as it's the only moment you have control over. Don't overthink about the future or dwell on the past.

4. Acceptance Brings Peace:
Find peace by accepting imperfection, uncertainty, and uncomfortable situations. Anxiety and regret won't change the future or the past.

5. Mental Health Matters:
True health starts in the mind. Confront negativity in your thoughts to achieve peace and overall wellness. Quality thoughts and a peaceful mind define true health.

6. The Root Cause:
The way you perceive a problem in your mind is often the main issue, not the actual problem itself. Your thoughts cause most of the harm, not the situation.

7. Avoid Self-Doubt:
Don't let self-doubt hold you back from pursuing your goals. Take action even if you don't feel ready. Overcome thoughts that hinder progress.

8. Ask Yourself an Important Question:
When you find yourself criticizing or worrying, ask if there's anything you can do in the present to make a positive impact. Take action if possible; otherwise, let go.

04/06/2023

A FEW TRUTHS ABOUT TOUGH TIMES

1. Accepting that tough times are a natural part of life can help prevent sinking into depression.

2. Maintaining a healthy perspective is crucial during tough times, as they are often preparation for something great.

3. Tough times have a way of revealing who your true friends are and exposing the fake ones.

4. In difficult moments, you may encounter genuine friends who are drawn to your purpose.

5. Some of the best ideas are born during challenging times.

6. Sometimes, tough times serve as a wake-up call from God, especially when we have grown too complacent in our relationship with Him.

7. Reaching a dead end where only God can help you allows Him to receive the glory.

8. Great individuals have mastered the art of turning tough times into a pathway to success.

9. Tough times teach us lessons that good times simply cannot.

10. Difficult moments can open our eyes to opportunities and doors we may have missed when we were complacent.

11. Sometimes, we lack the courage or initiative to take the next step in our lives, and tough times can push us forward.

12. Tough times strip away pretenses and force us to confront who we truly are.

13. Many couples experience their best season after hitting rock bottom, testing and strengthening their love.

14. Instead of complaining about tough times, ask yourself what you can learn and how you can grow from the experience.

15. Reading biographies of great individuals reveals that every story of greatness includes a season of tough times.

16. Even in tough times, God is with you as your constant companion.

17. Tough times may temporarily set you back, but they can also provide an opportunity to regroup and come back stronger.

18. Conquering tough times leads to personal growth and a wiser version of yourself.

19. Once you have overcome tough times, share your wisdom and mentor others. Greatness is not meant to be hoarded selfishly.

15/05/2023

love isn't supposed to make you feel like s**t btw

15/05/2023

I'll never forget who gave me a hard time when i was already having a hard time

15/05/2023

hearing “im proud of you” when you're having a hard time hits different.

03/05/2023

Life is a journey, a winding road,
With twists and turns that take their hold.
Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it's tough,
But with each step, we learn and grow enough.

Along the way, we meet many faces,
Some stay a while, some leave their traces.
But all teach us something, all leave a mark,
As we navigate our way through light and dark.

So embrace the journey, with all its highs and lows,
And trust that the universe knows where it goes.
For every challenge is an opportunity in disguise,
To discover our strength and truly rise -𝘫𝘰𝘭𝘰 ᰔ

29/04/2023

A lot was left unsaid,
The words that stayed inside my head,
The thoughts that never saw the light,
The feelings that I held so tight.

I wish I could have spoken up,
And let my heart pour out its love,
But fear and doubt held me back,
And now those words are lost in black.

Regret and sorrow fill my soul,
For all the things I never told,
The people who have come and gone,
And all the chances I've foregone.

But I still have time to make amends,
To say the words that need to be said,
To let my heart be open wide,
And let my love become my guide.

So I won't let silence rule my days,
I'll speak my mind in every way,
For a lot was left unsaid before,
But now I'll speak and so much more. - 𝘫𝘰𝘭𝘰 ᰔ

27/04/2023

Some are here to teach us love, while others teach us hate
They shape us into who we are, and who we'll always be
Their lessons linger long after they've gone and set us free
Sometimes they show us how to love, with kindness and with grace
Teach us how to live and give, and leave their gentle trace
But other times they hurt us, in ways that we can't see
And we learn from their mistakes, how not to let ourselves be
We learn to never settle, or shrink ourselves in fear
To never let another's words or actions disappear
For even when they leave us, their lessons still remain
Guiding us along the path, to love and growth and gain
So let them come and go, and let them leave their mark
For every lesson that we learn, is a light within the dark
And when we look back on our lives, we'll see with clarity
The people who taught us how to love, and how not to be. - 𝘫𝘰𝘭𝘰 ᰔ

27/04/2023

Once upon a time, I was alive and free
My spirit soared with endless energy
My heart was full, my mind was clear
My soul was vibrant, with nothing to fear

But now I feel a heavy weight
A weariness that won't abate
I long to feel that spark again
To dance with joy, to laugh with friends

Where did my lightness go, I wonder
Why does everything seem like a thunder?
I miss the person I used to be
So full of life, so wild and free

I'll search within and try to find
That fire that once burned bright in my mind
I know it's there, waiting to be found
I'll keep looking until I hear the sound

Of my own voice, strong and clear
A reminder of who I once held dear
I'll reclaim my energy, piece by piece
And once again, my heart will feel complete. - 𝘫𝘰𝘭𝘰 ᰔ

27/04/2023

Some people think it's easy to bear
The weight of emotions, the constant care
But they don't know the struggle inside
Of fighting each day to keep them tied

The ups and downs, the highs and lows
Can drain you out, and nobody knows
The courage it takes to face each day
And keep the emotions from running away

It's a battle that's fought deep within
A war that's hard to lose or win
But the strength and resilience you show
Is a testament to the will to grow

So don't let anyone tell you it's easy
To keep emotions under control, so breezy
For it takes all your might and more
To fight this fight and win the war. - 𝘫𝘰𝘭𝘰 ᰔ