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"Ang buhay di napapagod magturo ,minsan ikaw nalang napapagod mag aral"
09/08/2025

"Ang buhay di napapagod magturo ,minsan ikaw nalang napapagod mag aral"

09/08/2025

3-ANYOS NA BATA MULA SA BUKIDNON, SINGBIGAT NA NG HALOS ISANG SAKONG BIGAS!

ā€œNu’ng pinanganak ko si Ashley, normal naman siya.

Tapos after three months, napansin ko na lumalaki na siya.

ā€˜Yung braso, paa, at saka tiyan niya.

Mga balanghoy at saka kamote ang kinakain niya.

Tatlong beses sa isang araw siya kumain.

Naaawa ako kay Ashley kasi hindi siya katulad ng ibang bata.

Nahihirapan na rin kaming magbuhat sa kanya.

Hindi na rin kasya sa kanya ā€˜yung mga luma niyang damit.

Napupunit.

Kaya damit ko na lang ā€˜yung pinapasuot ko sa kanya.

ā€˜Yung duyan, naputol dahil sa bigat niya.

Mabilis siyang hingalin tapos mabilis din siyang magalit.

Gusto ko sana na ipa-check-up si Ashley.

Gusto kong malaman ā€˜yung sitwasyon niya kaso wala akong pera.ā€

-Mina, ina ni Ashley
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As children get older, the expectations at schools rise, and children are expected to keep up. At first it’s putting on ...
09/08/2025

As children get older, the expectations at schools rise, and children are expected to keep up. At first it’s putting on your own coat and asking to use the toilet, but soon it’s remembering your pencil and bringing your reading book back. It’s sitting still in your seat and listening quietly, Each time the expectations increase, some children can’t manage. They aren’t ready. They might be ready next year or the year after, but by then it will be too late. Expectations will have gone up again, and they’ll be ā€˜behind’.

But the biggest leap is when it’s time for secondary school. Over the course of that six week holiday between primary and secondary, suddenly children are expected to be able to do so many more things. Getting the bus by themselves, getting themselves from classroom to classroom. Organising their bags and remembering their pens. Wearing their blazers and an uncomfortable tie. Spending their whole day with a stream of adults who can hardly remember their name.

Each lesson a different adult in another room, new expectations and a different subject. It’s enough to make your head spin. And now, when it goes wrong the consequences are harsher. Detentions after school, or isolation for repeat offenders.

For some children, it’s too much too soon. They need more time to grow, but they can’t get it. They’re told they just need to try harder, just put more effort in – but you can’t force your brain to develop faster. What we expect of our children is, for some of them, impossible.

It’s the expectations, not the children, who need to change.

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Words: Dr Naomi Fisher
Image: Missing The Mark

PARENTS PWEDE BANG PAKISAGOT TO?TATAY:  Anak, may bago nang asawa si Papa.  May bago na ring asawa si Mama.  Doon ka na ...
09/08/2025

PARENTS PWEDE BANG PAKISAGOT TO?

TATAY:
Anak, may bago nang asawa si Papa.
May bago na ring asawa si Mama.
Doon ka na titira kay Lola.

ANAK:
Bakit niyo pa po ako ginawa
kung iiwan at ipapasa niyo rin po ako?
Ano po ba ang kasalanan ko sa inyong dalawa?
Kayo pong dalawa, masaya na… ako, iniwan na..

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Sometimes, people think moms are always angry – but the truth is, they don’t see the silent battles she’s fighting behin...
09/08/2025

Sometimes, people think moms are always angry – but the truth is, they don’t see the silent battles she’s fighting behind closed doors. No one asks, and few truly understand what she’s going through. And the saddest part? Nobody really knows what moms truly need. 😌

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Original content | Maretism

Child Safety Guidelines for Parents šŸ‘‡ šŸ”“ 1.Personal Boundaries : Warn your daughter or son not to sit on anyone's lap, no...
09/08/2025

Child Safety Guidelines for Parents šŸ‘‡

šŸ”“ 1.Personal Boundaries : Warn your daughter or son not to sit on anyone's lap, no matter the situation, including uncles.

šŸ”“ 2. Privacy Awareness: Avoid dressing in front of your children from the age of 2.

šŸ”“ 3. Language Matters : Never allow an adult to refer to your child as "my wife" or "my husband"

šŸ”“ 4. Monitor Playtime: Whenever your child goes out to play with his friends, be sure to find a way to find out what type of game he plays, because young people abuse themselves sexually. And this is not new ...

šŸ”“ 5. Comfort with Adults : Never have your child visit an adult with whom he is not comfortable, and also consider whether your child becomes a big fan of a particular adult.

šŸ”“ 6. Behavioral Changes : Once, a very cheerful child suddenly becomes shy. You may need to be patient and cautious, as well as clear up a few questions about why you are behaving.

šŸ”“ 7. S*x Education : Educate carefully about the correct values ​​of sexuality. If you don't, society will teach you the wrong values.

šŸ”“ 8: Screen Content : It is always advisable to review any new material, such as cartoons you just bought from them, before you start watching them.

šŸ”“ 9. Parental Controls : Make sure to enable parental controls on your cable networks and advise your friends, especially your children's. Visit frequently.

šŸ”“ 10. Body Safety Rules : Teach your children from 3 years to wash their private parts well and warn them never to allow anyone to touch them (remember, caring begins at home and with you).

šŸ”“ 11: Remove Harmful Influences : Keep away any associated materials that you think could endanger your child's mental health (this includes music, movies, and even friends and family).

šŸ”“ 12: Listen to Complaints : Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet.

Remember, we are the parents who raise future parents.
And remember: "Pain lasts a lifetime."

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Love it
09/08/2025

Love it

FINANCIAL WISDOM TO LIVE BYFrom WARREN BUFFETT
09/08/2025

FINANCIAL WISDOM TO LIVE BY

From WARREN BUFFETT

A boy and his mama . . .Are connected at heart.He’ll search the room to find her.She’s carried him from the start.Mama t...
09/08/2025

A boy and his mama . . .

Are connected at heart.

He’ll search the room to find her.

She’s carried him from the start.

Mama tells him ā€œI love youā€ more times than he can count.

She whispers it in each lullaby . . .

Each happy ending . . .

Each prayer at night.

He knows she tries her best.

She cheers the loudest.

She’ll be so proud of the man he becomes.

But she’ll still see her baby bear . . .

And remember each cuddle and hug . . .

And all the giants they’ve overcome.

There’s just something so sweet . . .

So special about that great big love . . .

Between a boy and his mama.

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Dear kids heading into the new school year,Don’t be one of the girls whispering and giggling in the corner, spreading ru...
09/08/2025

Dear kids heading into the new school year,

Don’t be one of the girls whispering and giggling in the corner, spreading rumors and tearing others down.

Don’t be one of the boys huddled in a pack, shoving someone into a locker just to get a laugh.

Be the one who walks over, takes the hand of the girl they’re mocking, and walks away with her.

Be the one who checks on the kid who got pushed and says, ā€œAre you okay? Want to sit with me?ā€

Because kindness is brave.

And this year, let’s raise kids who stand up—not stand by.

Kids who include and choose compassion, even when it’s hard.

Because making others feel seen, safe, and worthy is what real courage looks like. šŸ‘

Living FULL, by Danielle Sherman-Lazar
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Is it okay to apologize to your child?Yes. A thousand times yes.Apologizing shows leadership, not weakness.But here’s wh...
09/08/2025

Is it okay to apologize to your child?

Yes. A thousand times yes.
Apologizing shows leadership, not weakness.

But here’s what we often miss.

When you say ā€œI’m sorry,ā€ and then follow it with ā€œbut,ā€
you’re not really taking ownership.

Not

ā€œI’m sorry I yelled, but you weren’t listening.ā€
Not
ā€œI’m sorry I lost it, but you pushed me too far.ā€

Because that ā€œbutā€ turns your apology into blame.
And that teaches your child that responsibility is optional.
That someone else can be at fault for our reactions.

Instead, try this:

ā€œI’m sorry I yelled. I was feeling overwhelmed, and I didn’t handle it well. That was my mistake.ā€

Or

ā€œI’m learning how to pause and take a breath before I respond. I didn’t do that just now, and I’m sorry.ā€

Or even

ā€œMy emotions are mine to manage. I’m still working on that.ā€

This kind of apology helps your child feel safe.
It shows them how to own mistakes with love.
And it builds trust that lasts.

You don’t have to be perfect.
Just willing to go first.

That’s peaceful leadership.
And that’s what changes everything.
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August is here…and with it comes the countdown to school.And if I’m being honest—I’m not ready for many reasons.Yes I’ll...
09/08/2025

August is here…
and with it comes the countdown to school.

And if I’m being honest—
I’m not ready for many reasons.

Yes I’ll miss them.

But the main reason I’m not ready is the world feels heavy.
I hear every day about different things that devastate me.
The news is always bad.
And letting them go—even just into the classroom—
feels like letting a piece of my heart walk into the unknown.

There’s so much I can’t control.
So much that feels scary.
So many things I wish I could shield them from but I won’t be there…

But I’ll do what I can:
I’ll remind them to be kind.
I’ll remind them they’re brave.
I’ll remind them they are so deeply loved.

And I’ll whisper to the universe:
Please take care of my babies.
Because this mama heart never stops holding on.

Living FULL, by Danielle Sherman-Lazar

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