01/06/2025
📌 Don’t Settle for Less—Pray for the Right Man! 💍✨
Ladies, let’s talk about a major relationship red flag.🚩
Before getting married: Think, prepare, and pray. Marriage is a lifelong commitment. ❤️
🚩 Red Flag Alert🚩
💡 Watch for red flags before choosing a life partner:
🚩 Lazy and unambitious – A man without goals will only hold you back.
📖 “The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.” – Proverbs 13:4
🚩 Stingy and doesn’t provide – If he refuses to give you money or a monthly allowance, that’s a big problem! A real man provides for his wife.
📖 “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” – 1 Timothy 5:8
🚩 Disrespectful and controlling – Love should never come with control or emotional abuse.
📖 “Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.” – Colossians 3:19
🚩 No vision for the future – If he has no plans for a stable life, marriage will only be stressful.
📖 “Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.” – Proverbs 29:18
🚩Mama’s Boy Edition
When your man is a mama’s boy… and not the sweet kind! 👀
It’s great when a guy loves and respects his mom, but if he:
❌ Runs to her for every decision
❌ Puts her opinions above yours
❌ Can’t set boundaries with her
❌ Expects you to be a second mother to him
❌ Lets her interfere in your relationship
…then sister, you’re not dating a man, you’re raising a boy. 🚨
A real partner should be independent, mature, and able to balance love for his mom without making you feel like you’re competing for his attention.
The Bible says:
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24 ✨
Know the difference between a man who loves his mom and one who can’t function without her. Your peace matters! 💯
So don’t settle for less. Remove toxic relationships from your life. You deserve a man who values and supports you! 💖
✨ “Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.” – Proverbs 19:14 ✨
