07/08/2025
SO SICK OF “SOFT LIFE” 💅🏽content that comes from delusion
So sick of all this “hypergamy”/ dating up/ find a provider man content.
It’s often laziness, or a distrust in one’s own abilities. Or both. Makes me sad for so many impressionable young women!
What’s worse, it’s the same brand of materialism, that, when brought to its max extent, attracts girls to these “aspirational” posts of OF bophouse ch!cks bragging about making $10M/ year selling their dignity.
Three things for the ladies:
1. The best way to meet a man with money is to have money yourself. This way you naturally move and belong in their world. Get that bag💰
2. Work on yourself, treat yourself to growth and self care, and teach men how to love you.
Trust me, even if he is making $20/ hr, you will light a fire up his so fast. (I’ve seen this happen to men I dated in the past.)
3. Stop making your whole personality about “being chosen.”
You are not auditioning for a man’s life. You are building your own. When you lead with substance, purpose, and peace, you become undeniably magnetic.
The right man won’t just “pick” you…he’ll pursue, protect, and partner with you.
Not because you begged, posted thirst traps, or mastered femininity TikTok… but because your energy commands respect, not just attention.
Let’s raise the standard for what being a “high value woman” actually means.
The soft life isn’t found in his wallet.
It’s found when you decide you deserve more, from yourself first.
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