22/08/2025
Nakita namin ng husband ko yung ex niya on her birthday after 12 years
Konting background: Me and hubby have been together for 15 years. 3 years into our relationship, nag break kami and after a few months, he started dating yung grad ball date niya. niligawan niya noon si girl but it didn’t push through.
I met girl nung kami na ng husband ko kasi sister siya nung isang high friend ni husband. Girl and I became medyo? Friends but not super close. I even asked her to be part of one of my projects for school. Mag fb friends, etc.
So anyway, nung nag break kami noon ni husband, super devastated ako kasi alam ko ung pagkukulang noon. Kahit nag break kami noon ni hubby, we were still communicating and seeing each other once in awhile. I wanted him back and I was doing everything to win him back. Di niya sinasabi sa akin na may gf na siya. Eventually, thru the posts of girl sa ig, I was able to connect na they were seeing each other. She never posted his face at di rin nagpopost si hubby ng pics Nila, pero it was so obvious.
On girlie’s birthday, I sent her a happy birthday message. She replied thank you, and I immediately confronted her asking if they are dating . She said yes, but it wasn’t serious daw (to her) because she’s Chinese and hubby isn’t. Not sure if it was the right thing to do then, but I told her that me and hubby were still seeing another and talking. Of course deep inside I wanted him back and also, i don’t want to lie. I sent her some screenshots, we talked on the phone, and I told her everything. The next day, she asks hubby to see her, and nag break na sila.
After a month or so, me and hubby got back together and guess what? Nabuntis ako. Pinanindigan naman niya and we got married 4 years ago. We now have 3 children.
We talked about the phase of our lives, and he honestly feels daw I saved him. He felt daw kasi na si girl di siya kaya ipaglaban sa mga magulan g and nakikipagbreak daw sa kanya every time mahuhuli sila nung parents na nagkikita. Siguro then he just wanted to explore his what ifs kaya he decided to try to date girl again.
So anyway, fast forward to the weekend. We were having dinner tapos si hubby was called by the guard to move our car so he had to go down ( we were seated sa 2nd floor). Pagkaakyat niya, first thing he said was, “Nakita ko si ___ sa baba (brother ni girl)”. Immediately, first thing I blurted out was, “Baka birthday dinner ng sister. Nakita mo rin siya?” Earlier that day, FB reminded me that it was her birthday. Funny how after all these years, she never unfriended me (but she did unfriend my husband). My husband said “Hindi. Nung nakita ko siya, tumakbo ako agad paakyat”.
Being the maritess that I am, i immediately checked by the stairs, and my suspicion was right: she was there and their family!
Nung tapos na kami kumain, dire direcho akong bumaba. Di ako lumingon basta direcho lang papunta sa door. Sabay kami ni husband bumaba with our kids. I’m sure nakita niya kami.
I just wonder: How does she feel kaya? She’s married na btw, but no kids yet.
Ako ba okay na or after all this years, di pa rin ba ako nakakamoveon?
