08/09/2025
LONG POST AHEAD
Not Music Related but we will just post this just for motivation..
"Best way to be a father"
1. ALWAYS BE THERE WITH YOUR FAMILY:
One of the biggest failure of a man is running away from its responsibility. When s*x results in to a pregnancy and running away for what matters ruins every child mentally and emotionally.
2. TELL THEM THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL:
The first man to compliment a girl should be her father, the first man to take note of her beauty should be her dad. A girl should grow up convinced she is beautiful and feeling like a king's princess that even when boys and men try to woo her saying she's beautiful she responds "I know, dad has been telling me that for years". Too many girls fall for preying men because they are desperately looking for affection, they have daddy issues and had no encounter with a male figure who genuinely loved them before the preying men noticed their b***s and hips; so they fall prey to men who use compliments and give attention as a carrot to lure to a trap that leads to hurt.
3. MODEL MANHOOD TO THE SONS:
A boy comes into the world as a naive student who will absorb what the male figures around him teach. He can be taught the right way to be a man or be misled. He learns how to treat females whether good or bad from the men around him. He should learn proper manhood from the father. The father should model how best to treat and respect females, how to love as a man, how to work, how to provide, how to be a man of integrity.
4. EAT WITH YOUR FAMILY:
Meals brings family closer everytime. Its the best time to share your thoughts, your ideas and even your emotions.
5. BE THE SPIRITUAL LEADER:
The father should be the High Priest. He should lead the child/ children towards living a Godly life, he should be seen praying, reading God's word, living out a Godly life, loving. The child should be given a Godly foundation that will shape a stable future and the father should be seen submitting to the God who gave the child life and who makes parenthood possible.
6. LISTEN:
Listening to your children gives them confidence. When children feels that they can share everything with their dad, it makes them feel important.
7. GIVE ADVICE:
Children always need a direction. As a father, try to involve in seeking solutions. Give an advice not like a dictator, but an advice to understand and guiding them to think through solutions in every problem.
8. BE PRESENT:
Many fathers leave the parenting to their wives. This is a total failure. Your child needs you as same as they need their mother. Best love is always by giving them time.
9. REFRAIN FROM THROWING MONEY AT THE PROBLEM:
Don't teach your child that money can solve everything. Material things only gives short happiness. Sooner or later they will look around and see nothing and no love from their father.
10. SHOW UP:
Make daddy appearances; show up at your child's sports day, birthday, parent's day, graduation or any other special day. Make random visits to what your child cares a lot about even if for a few minutes. Meet your child's friends briefly, let your child feel daddy's loving eyes are watching over me.
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