Selami

11/06/2025

😆

11/05/2025

11/05/2025

Her love is a gift, not guaranteed

11/05/2025

I wonder how people sleep peacefully at night knowing they destroyed someone who only had pure intentions for them.
How can they close their eyes and rest while the person they hurt is still wide awake, replaying everything in their head, trying to understand what went wrong.
I wonder if they ever think about the kindness that was given to them, the trust that was offered without hesitation, and the love that was real and genuine.

Do they ever feel guilty, or do they just move on as if nothing happened?
Maybe they convince themselves it wasn’t their fault, maybe they justify their actions to feel better.
But deep down, I believe they know they took something good and ruined it.

And what I’ll never understand is how they can live so easily with that weight, while the one they hurt is still trying to heal from the damage they caused.

11/03/2025

Me & my matcha ❤️

10/29/2025

No revenge. Because one day, life will make him understand. He’ll have to wipe his daughter’s tears, broken by a boy just like him.

That’s how karma teaches — not through punishment, but reflection. The same pain he once caused will return through someone he loves more than anything. Only then will he realize how deeply his actions once hurt another soul.

He’ll see the fear in her eyes, the heartbreak in her silence, and the confusion in her tears. And in that moment, every lie he told, every heart he broke, and every emotion he played with will come rushing back like a storm he can’t escape.

That’s the beauty and cruelty of life — it gives you a taste of your own medicine, but through the people you’d die for. The boy who once laughed while breaking hearts will become the man praying his daughter never meets someone like him.

So no, don’t seek revenge. Don’t lower yourself trying to make him feel what you felt. Life will do that for you, and it will do it perfectly. The guilt of seeing his daughter cry for someone who treats her the way he treated you will be the kind of pain no apology can fix.

Let karma handle what your heart can’t. Stay calm, stay graceful, and move on. Because peace is the best revenge — and life always finds a way to deliver justice in the most poetic way.

10/29/2025

Never again will I be the “low maintenance girlfriend/wife”

That is not an image I want to keep up, just so a person feels like they can do the bare minimum and still have me around 🙌🏻

I like flowers I don’t have to ask for
I like dates that I don’t have to plan
I like reassurance
I like letters, notes, long texts
I like people cooking for me
I like acts of service and small surprises❤️❤️

And I’m tired of pretending I don’t, just because this generation doesn’t want to learn how to put in more effort 👏🏻🙌🏻💯

10/29/2025

You are worthy of healthy love 🫶🏻

10/26/2025

No guilt creeping on me.

10/26/2025

He refuses to post about your family, won’t tag you in posts, and won’t even greet you on special occasions because he’s protecting someone else’s feelings. He makes excuses, claiming that you’re already separated and that he’s just supporting the kids. Worst of all, he denies your existence...Then, you suddenly find out that while he’s ignoring you, he’s happily chatting with someone else on another account, video calling her with a smile. Even if you’re in a life-and-death situation, he remains indifferent. Maybe he would even be happier if you were gone, so there would be no more obstacles in his way.

If you’re in that situation, I’ll be honest with you.

It’s very hard. No matter how much you try to understand, adjust, or hold on, the pain just keeps getting worse. You wake up every day questioning your worth, wondering what you did wrong to deserve this kind of treatment. You try to convince yourself that things will get better, that maybe one day he’ll realize your value, but deep down, you know the truth, he has already chosen someone else, and you were never really a priority.

You cry yourself to sleep, hoping that tomorrow will hurt a little less, but the reality is, the wounds just get deeper. You try to reach out, to make him see your pain, but he remains cold, distant, and unmoved. Every ignored message, every unanswered call, every lie you uncover shatters you into pieces until there’s barely anything left of you.

And what’s worse? He makes you feel like you’re the problem, like you’re the one overreacting, like your pain is invalid. He acts as if your suffering doesn’t matter, as if your existence is just an inconvenience to him.

But listen...this is not love. This is not what you deserve. You were never meant to beg for attention, for respect, for basic decency. You are worth so much more than this pain, and no matter how broken you feel right now, one day, you will heal. One day, you will look back and realize that walking away was the best thing you ever did for yourself.

So if you’re in this situation, please, choose yourself. Even if it hurts, even if it feels like you’re losing everything; choose yourself. Because one day, you’ll find someone who will never make you feel like you’re hard to love.

•Diary of a Soldier's Wife

10/26/2025

Thank goodness, I’m not her.

10/23/2025

Heal quietly- Forgive even when it aches