Selami

12/04/2025

No darling, you were the cheapest of all options.

11/30/2025

People who’ve forgiven cheating will never really tell you how broken they feel inside.✅💯

They’ll never talk about how their peace turned into paranoia, how they now flinch every time their partner’s phone lights up, or how “being online” suddenly feels like betrayal. They won’t admit that every laugh, every delay in response, every friendly hello from the opposite gender now feels suspicious.

They’ll tell you they’ve forgiven but deep down, they’re fighting battles no one sees. They’re constantly checking phones, overthinking, replaying old messages in their heads, and questioning if they’re enough. They’ve become anxious, hyper-aware, emotionally exhausted and it’s not because they want to be. It’s because once trust is broken, everything changes.

Forgiving cheating doesn’t restore peace. It teaches you how to survive in discomfort. It forces you to carry love and pain in the same heart...and that’s a heavy burden to bear. I wish more people chose themselves instead of trying to rebuild something shattered.

📌 Because no matter how many times they say “it won’t happen again,” the truth is, once they’ve crossed that line, it’s never the same.

11/27/2025

💗

11/26/2025

11/26/2025

It’s devastating to hear about the loss of two innocent children — just 6 and 2 years old — whose lives ended because of their parents’ wrong decisions. These little ones had no idea what was happening; they thought everything was okay. And then, in an instant, their world turned into a nightmare. Their mother, broken and overwhelmed, lost control. Their home became a prison of pain and fire.

They were helpless — victims of a tragedy born from their father's betrayal, their mother's mental instability, and despair. Their suffering was unimaginable, and the cruelty of it all is beyond words.

To all mothers who are hurting from betrayal and infidelity: please, seek help. Talk to your family, a trusted friend, or a counselor. Be strong for your children. They need you more than anyone else ever could. Their father may have failed them — please don’t do the same. The pain you feel right now is temporary, but your children’s love and future are priceless.

And to the husband and his mistress who caused this chain of destruction — nothing can ever erase the blood on your hands. You will live with the weight of this tragedy forever.

This is a painful reminder that marriages must be guarded and nurtured. When a marriage falls apart, it’s not only the couple who suffers — it’s the children who bear the deepest wounds.

゚

11/25/2025

Learning to forgive what I didn’t deserve.

11/22/2025

11/16/2025

NORMALIZE PUBLIC SHAMING CHEATERS, SIDECHIC, UG MGA KONSINTIDOR NGA FRIENDS.

11/14/2025

Me and my sexyback 😆

11/13/2025

Imagine the pain of a wife; betrayed,
then realizing her husband chose another woman,
over her and their own children.

You look at your kids and question your worth.
Ano bang kulang sayo?
Ganun na lang ba kadali na ipagpalit ka,
pati mga anak mo, sa ibang anak?

Every night becomes heavier than the last.
You smile for your kids, but your eyes say otherwise.
You forgive, not because you forgot,
but because you refuse to let anger raise your children.

You stay strong for them,
even when your heart wants to give up.
You stay quiet, but your silence screams pain.
Because a mother’s strength is born from heartbreak.

___________

Now we understand Kylie Padilla’s pain,
kung gaano kasakit na mapalitan ng asawa mo
sa babaeng may anak din.

To the other woman; wag mabulag sa thought
na magkakaroon na ng “papa” ang anak mo.
Kahit anong itawag mo d’yan, kabit ka pa rin.
At hindi ka dapat ganyan lang.
May taong magmamahal sa’yo at sa anak mo nang buo,
nang walang sabit, walang kasalanan.

Walang batang dapat masaktan sa maling desisyon ng magulang.

Credits - almighty bro

11/12/2025

Dear married men, the woman you think is better than your wife only seems that way because she isn't living with you.

She doesn’t see the real you — the version that your wife sees every single day. She doesn’t see your flaws, your temper, your laziness, or the moments when you choose to withdraw instead of communicate. She only sees the version of you that’s on display — the one that’s charming, funny, and attentive for a short period of time.

Your wife, on the other hand, has stood by you through your worst days. She has seen you at your lowest, loved you when you weren’t easy to love, and carried burdens beside you that no one else even knows about. The woman you admire from afar hasn’t lived your reality; she’s only seen your highlight reel.

So before you start believing the illusion that someone else would treat you better or make you happier, remember — the woman you think is “better” seems that way only because she hasn’t had to live your truth, clean up your mess, or love you unconditionally despite your flaws.

Don’t trade loyalty and depth for fantasy and novelty. The grass isn’t greener on the other side — it’s greener where you water it.
“Andy Burg”

11/09/2025

Rheinhesse. 2024 Riesling Qualitatswein 10/10