18/10/2024
If you're with the right person, you won't feel emptiness or like you're not enough. As a girl, we tend to sulk, especially when our feelings are ignored, as if for him, we're just being overly dramatic because it happens all the time, and we suddenly get mad. A woman won’t sulk if you make her feel how important and cherished she is. As the relationship goes on, things change, and I truly believe in the saying that everything is great only at the beginning. Sometimes, his work becomes more important than you, and he barely has time for you. When he does, you have to share that time with his phone or online games. He's content with what you are now, with no plans for your future together. And yes, that’s why women feel emptiness, because even if you try to make up for it, you’re not consistent, and you keep repeating the same behavior, making her feel like she's never enough.
As a partner, you want to have goals and plans for the future because it can’t just stay where it is forever. You, boys, should be consistent from the beginning until you're together, not just being great at the start. Spend quality time, put in effort, surprise her, and show her off. If you really love your partner, you'll be able to do these things unless you only love her because you need her, love her only because you need someone to take care of you, to do the laundry, or cook. Always remember, she’s your partner, not a maid!
You, as a man, will feel if your love is enough because a woman won’t keep asking if you love her, if she feels secure with you. She won’t keep comparing herself to others or feel insecure if she knows she’s the best in your eyes. If she keeps asking those questions, it means your love isn’t enough she’s just a choice for you. So, try to ask yourselves what you're lacking if you really value your relationship.
