18/09/2025
Someone tried to get under my skin the other week, but his wisdom reminded me not to give them that power:
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Solution it is... But to tell you the truth, the solution I have in mind is something I'm aware that is going to be quite difficult for you to do, simply because it is not likely a "you" kind-of-thing. On the other hand, it is a suitable course of action in such situations for someone like me. We are still two different individuals, and I don't intend in forcing you to do something I would do (because it is beneficial for me) but will be difficult or against your personality.
Although, since you insist on knowing what my solution for it is, here you go...
-- You can simply ignore them. --
GGEZ. As they say...
People who act such with whatever motives they kept on defending or used as an excuse... They tend to be:
(1) all talk
(2) all judge
(3) all act omniscient
(4) all feeling empowered or privileged
~ Along with their crappy "Just because..." attitude
But they are so prone with lacking:
- basis/proof
- respect/understanding
- self-consciousness
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If I were on your shoes, I would simply ignore or disregard them. Give them no importance. Provide no effort, time, mental energy.
Here's why:
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The more attention you give to those kinds of people, they are getting more of what they want, for you to either get annoyed, pi**ed, angry, or even disrespect yourself. They will definitely enjoy attacking you more the more you give them importance. For them, they are successful because they see that you are hurting with their attacks.
Of course, it'll also be a waste of effort, time, and mental energy when you can use those precious resources to do something that is more meaningful and beneficial for you. You don't owe them any explanations, thoughts, or opinion. Preserve your inner peace.
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Personally, I always consider the person I'm about to address it and the situation at hand. If I don't have any reason to give my thoughts, then I'm in no obligation to lay out my side...
Again, this is just to inform you, not something I'll force you to do. Though, atleast you know my side. As your partner, I'm always here for you. I love you.
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grounded by his words indeed. 💚
