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WHAT IS LIFE? I'M LIKE A GLASS. DROP ME & I'L BREAK. STEP ON ME, & I'L CUT U. MY ATTITUDE DEPENDS ON HOW U TREAT ME

16/07/2025

None of us are easy to deal with.

None of us are easy to please all the time, deal with, or even date in this generation.

We all have our flaws, insecurities, and our way of doing things that make us who we are as a person.

Unfortunately we are not going to like everything about somebody, it’s nearly impossible in this day and age.

But it's not about finding the perfect person, it isn’t about living in some fairy tale.

It’s about finding someone you’re willing to work with and pursue life together for the rest of your life.

~ Cody Bret

If you desire a feminine woman—soft, surrendered, and deeply in tune with you—then be the man who leads with love and pr...
15/07/2025

If you desire a feminine woman—soft, surrendered, and deeply in tune with you—then be the man who leads with love and provides with stability.

But remember this truth...
If she has to hustle like you, carry the same burdens, and fight the same battles outside the home, she will naturally step into her masculine too.

She will challenge your leadership. Not because she doesn't respect you but because she's in survival mode, not surrender.

A feminine woman blossoms when she feels safe. She listens when she feels seen.
She follows when she feels your direction is rooted in care, not control.

So ask yourself...
Are you building a home where she can rest in her softness, or are you unconsciously turning her into a warrior who must protect herself?

Lead, not to dominate, but to create space for her feminine essence to rise.

Provide, not just money—but presence, safety, and emotional grounding.

Because the more secure she feels in your leadership, the more she’ll flow with grace, devotion, and deep trust.

- Abhikesh

Filipino Psychology Concept: 𝘿𝙀𝙇𝙄𝘾𝘼𝘿𝙀𝙕𝘼Delicadeza isn’t just about good manners.It’s about knowing when to speak up, whe...
13/07/2025

Filipino Psychology Concept: 𝘿𝙀𝙇𝙄𝘾𝘼𝘿𝙀𝙕𝘼

Delicadeza isn’t just about good manners.
It’s about knowing when to speak up, when to step back, and when to say no, even when no one is watching.

In Filipino culture, delicadeza is a quiet form of strength. It is an 𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙨 that tells us, “Hindi ito tama, hindi ito makatao.”
It means refusing privilege when it comes at the expense of others. It means choosing decency over convenience.

In Filipino psychology, delicadeza reminds us that 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙚𝙨.
It marks the invisible line between integrity and entitlement.

It is grace guided by conscience.

Today, in a world that celebrates boldness and hustle, 𝙙𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙯𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙨 𝙖 𝙨𝙞𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙞𝙜𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮.

"FAKE IT 'TIL YOU MAKE IT" ...means acting with confidence or pretending you already are successful, skilled, or capable...
13/07/2025

"FAKE IT 'TIL YOU MAKE IT" ...means acting with confidence or pretending you already are successful, skilled, or capable — even if you're not yet — in order to eventually become that way.

It’s about believing in yourself and behaving as if you've already reached your goal, which can help build real confidence, skills, and momentum over time.

Example meanings:
In a job: Even if you're nervous, act confidently. Eventually, you'll gain the actual skills and confidence.

In life: Carry yourself with self-belief and positivity, even during tough times, until those qualities become real.

⚠️ But it doesn't mean lying or being dishonest — it's more about mindset and self-belief than pretending to be someone you're not in a harmful way.

AN EYE-OPENING CONVERSATION(MY WIFE DOESN'T WORK!!!)A conversation between a husband and a psychologist:Psychologist: "W...
13/07/2025

AN EYE-OPENING CONVERSATION

(MY WIFE DOESN'T WORK!!!)

A conversation between a husband and a psychologist:

Psychologist: "What do you do, sir?"

Husband: "I work as an accountant in a bank."

Psychologist: "And your wife?"

Husband: "She doesn't work, she's just a housewife."

Psychologist: "Who prepares breakfast for your family in the morning?"

Husband: "My wife, because she doesn't work."

Psychologist: "What time does your wife wake up to prepare breakfast?"

Husband: "She wakes up around 5 in the morning, because first she cleans the house and then she makes breakfast."

Psychologist: "How do your children go to school?"

Husband: "My wife takes them to school because she doesn't work."

Psychologist: "What does she do after she takes the kids to school?"

Husband: "She goes to the market, then comes home to cook and do laundry. You already know, she doesn't work."

Psychologist: "In the evening, when you come home from work, what do you do then?"

Husband: "I'm resting because I'm tired from working all day."

Psychologist: "Then what does your wife do?"

Husband: "Makes dinner, serves the kids, makes a meal for me, washes the dishes, cleans the house and gets the kids ready for bed."

Who do you think actually works harder in this story?

The daily routine of many women starts from early in the morning and lasts until late at night, and we call it "not working"?

Being a housewife does not require a degree or a high position, but their role is invaluable!

Appreciate your wives because their sacrifices are numerous and often invisible.

This story should be a reminder to all of us to learn to appreciate and understand each other's roles.

A touching message from a woman:

Someone asked her:

"Are you a working woman or a housewife?"

She replied:

"Yes, I am a full-time housewife. I work 24 hours a day.

I am:

Mother.
Wife.
A daughter.
Daughter-in-law.
Alarm clock.
Cookbook.
Maid.
Teacher.
Waitress.
Nanny.
Nurse.
A jack of all trades.
Security guard.
Counselor.
Comforter.

I don't have annual leave.
I don't have sick leave.
I don't have a day off.
I work day and night.
I'm always available - and I'm paid with one question:

'What do you even do all day?'"

Dedicated to all women.

A woman has the most special character - like salt. Her presence is often not noticed, but without her everything becomes tasteless.

Forward this to all you lovely women:
To his mother.
To his wife.
To his daughter.
To his sister.
To my friend.

And to every man - to understand how much a woman is worth.

09/07/2025

"Salain Mo ang Salita Mo—Hindi Lahat ng Totoo, Kailangang Sabihin!"

Sa mundong puno ng opinyon at mabilisang paglalabas ng saloobin, mahalagang pag-isipan nating mabuti ang bawat salitang lumalabas sa ating bibig. Totoo nga na ang katotohanan ay mahalaga, ngunit hindi lahat ng totoo ay kailangang sabihin, lalo na kung ito'y makakasakit, makakasira, o makagugulo lamang sa kapayapaan ng iba. Kaya’t may saysay ang kasabihang, “Salain mo ang salita mo—hindi lahat ng totoo, kailangang sabihin!”

Ang pagsasabi ng totoo ay isang birtud, isang tungkulin ng isang taong may dangal. Ngunit sa likod ng birtud na ito ay isang responsibilidad: ang paggamit ng karunungan sa tamang pagkakataon at tamang paraan. Hindi ba’t kahit ang mga doktor ay hindi agad binubulaga ang pasyente ng buong detalye ng sakit, kundi dahan-dahang ipinapaliwanag ayon sa kayang tanggapin ng damdamin at isipan ng tao?

Kung minsan, ginagamit ang katotohanan bilang sandata. Sa halip na makapagpagaling, ito’y nagiging bala na tumatama sa puso ng kapwa. Ang paninira sa kapwa sa ngalan ng pagiging “totoo lang” ay hindi katapangan—ito’y kawalan ng malasakit. Oo, totoo nga marahil na may kapintasan ang isang tao, pero ang paglalantad nito sa madla kung wala namang saysay kundi ang manghiya o manira, ay hindi karunungan kundi kawalang-galang.

Sa Bibliya, itinuturo sa atin ang kahalagahan ng "truth in love." Ang pagiging matapat ay hindi kailangang hiwalay sa pagiging mahabagin. Sabi sa Efeso 4:15, “Sahalip, sa pagsasalita ng katotohanan sa diwa ng pag-ibig, tayo ay lalago sa lahat ng bagay kay Cristo...” Ibig sabihin, may paraan ng pagsasabi ng totoo na hindi makakasakit kundi makakapagpapalubag ng loob.

Bilang mga Kristiyano, tinatawag tayong maging ilaw at asin sa mundo—hindi matalas na espada na walang habas kung sumibat. Ang ating mga salita ay dapat may taglay na pagninilay, pagpapakumbaba, at panalangin. Tanungin natin ang sarili: “Makakatulong ba ang sasabihin ko? May saysay ba ito sa ikabubuti ng nakararami? Kung ako kaya ang sabihan nito, paano ko ito tatanggapin?”

Kaya’t sa huli, bago tayo magsalita, salain natin ito:
T – Totoo ba ito?
U – Uukol ba sa tamang oras at tao?
L – Likas ba sa pag-ibig at kabutihan?
A – Aangat ba ang pagkatao ng kausap ko?
D – Dapat ko ba talaga itong sabihin ngayon?

Ang pananalita ay may kapangyarihan. Gamitin natin ito upang magpagaling, magbigay-linaw, at maghatid ng pag-asa. Dahil sa mundong puno ng ingay, ang taong marunong manahimik at magsalita ng may karunungan ay tila isang ilaw sa dilim.

Kaya salain mo ang salita mo para maiwasang makasakit ng damdamin ng tao.

09/07/2025

"When someone lends you money, remember it's from their savings, emergency funds, and hard-earned income. Big or small, if they trust you enough to lend it, repay it without being asked. It speaks volumes about who you are."

I'VE SURVIVED TOO MANY STORMS TO BE BOTHERED BY RAINDROPS
09/07/2025

I'VE SURVIVED TOO MANY STORMS TO BE BOTHERED BY RAINDROPS

"Gusto Mo ng MABAIT na Babae? Eh MATINO ka ba?" YES! TOTOO YON!Lahat ng lalaki gusto ng mabait na babae.Pero bakit paran...
09/07/2025

"Gusto Mo ng MABAIT na Babae?
Eh MATINO ka ba?"

YES! TOTOO YON!
Lahat ng lalaki gusto ng mabait na babae.

Pero bakit parang hirap kang makakita ng ganun ngayon?
Simple lang sagot d'yan:
Ang kabaitan ng babae, hindi automatic.
Depende yan sa kung paano mo siya tratuhin.

Kapag minahal mo siya ng totoo,
mamahalin ka niya ng buo.
Kapag nire-respeto mo siya,
mas doble pa ang igagalang niya sayo.
Kapag pinakita mong seryoso ka, mas siseryosohin ka niya.

Pero kapag puro pa-cute ka lang,
Puro paasa, puro kasinungalingan,
Puro bawal pero ikaw lang pala ang malaya,
Anong klase ng kabaitan ang gusto mong ibalik niya sayo?

Kaya kapag binabawalan ka niya,
hindi yun para kontrolin ka.
Ginagawa niya yun kasi alam niya ang tama,
At gusto ka niyang dalhin sa tamang direksyon.

Tandaan mo, ang lalaki ang driver ng relasyon.
Pero ang babae — siya ang nagbabasa ng mapa.

Kung ayaw mong sundin ang direksyon, wag mong asahan na mararating mo ang “happy ending.”

Kapag hindi mo siya iniintindi,
Kapag sinasaktan mo siya sa salita, kilos, o kataksilan,
Huwag mong asahan na magiging mabait pa rin siya habang binabasag mo na ang pagkatao niya.

Hindi niya ginaganti ang ginagawa mo.
Ang tawag doon: Reflection.
Yung ugali niya ngayon,
Salamin ng mga sugat mong iniwan.

So kung gusto mong bumalik yung dating mabait,
malambing, masunurin, at masayahing babae,
Tanungin mo muna sarili mo... naging matinong lalaki ka ba?

Don’t Raise Your Voice - Raise Your UnderstandingSpeak to heal, not to hurt. Tone matters. Talk to build bridges, not bu...
09/07/2025

Don’t Raise Your Voice - Raise Your Understanding

Speak to heal, not to hurt. Tone matters. Talk to build bridges, not burn them. Kindness during conflict is strength. Yelling doesn’t prove a point - it proves pain.

When tempers flare, pause. Breathe. Listen. Don’t shout over your partner’s heart. Volume won’t fix what silence broke. Understanding grows when voices soften and hearts stay open.

Raise your emotional intelligence, not your voice. Speak with care, even when angry. You can correct without crushing. A calm tone holds more power than words said in rage.

Arguments don’t need winners. They need resolution. Be quick to hear, slow to speak. Don’t weaponize your words - heal with them. Talk like someone who wants to stay.

Your partner isn’t your enemy. Fight the problem, not each other. In marriage, volume is never love’s language. Raise your understanding - because love listens before it speaks.

Dr. K. N. Jacob

Last night, I accidentally left a water bottle open, and by morning, I noticed several dozen ants had fallen in. They tr...
05/07/2025

Last night, I accidentally left a water bottle open, and by morning, I noticed several dozen ants had fallen in. They trembled on the surface, clinging to life.

At first glance, it looked like they were pushing each other down to survive. That image disturbed me, and I walked away.

But a couple of hours later, I checked again—and what I saw stunned me.

They were still alive.

The ants had built a living pyramid: the ones below held up the ones above. And after a while, they calmly rotated places. No panic. No chaos. No one trying to save themselves first.

Each ant chose to go where it was hardest—to lift others up.

I was deeply moved by this silent act of cooperation. I grabbed a spoon and carefully lowered it into the bottle. One by one, the ants climbed on and escaped.

Then, just as one was about to make it out, he slipped and fell back.

What happened next shook me more than any movie ever could:

The last ant—already safe—turned around, dove back into the water, and embraced the one who had fallen.

Together, with my help, they climbed out—alive. Together.

I stood there, humbled. Ashamed, even.

Because we, as people, so often forget to help. So rarely go back for those left behind.

Real strength isn’t in climbing alone. It’s in unity. In not leaving anyone behind.

And if we ever forget how to live with dignity—
maybe it’s time we learned from the ant.

I’m not raising my kids to be the smartest in the room.Not the fastest, the most popular, or the one collecting all the ...
03/07/2025

I’m not raising my kids to be the smartest in the room.
Not the fastest, the most popular, or the one collecting all the trophies 🏆.

I’m raising them to notice the kid sitting alone — and sit beside them. To speak up when something isn’t right.
To choose kindness, even when no one’s watching 💛.

It’s okay to be quiet.
It’s okay to be shy.
It’s okay not to have all the answers.

But being unkind? That’s never okay ❌.

I don’t care how gifted they are —
if they lack compassion, none of it really matters.

Let’s stop measuring success by grades or awards.
Let’s start looking at how they treat others 🤝.

Because in the end, character will always matter more than achievements.
And raising a kind, good human? That’s what I’ll always be most proud of ❤️.

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