MamaMingle

19/05/2025

I came across the viral “Jollibee Paper Bag Story”, and it brought me to tears. It’s not just about childbirth, it’s about the pain of being unseen, unheard, and unsupported during one of life’s most difficult and sacred moments. That moment when her husband brought food only for himself, while she sat there recovering with nothing , It wasn’t about Jollibee. It was about empathy, or the heartbreaking lack of it.
It made me pause and reflect on my own experience and honestly, I am deeply grateful.
I gave birth twice in a public hospital. Of course, it wasn’t a five-star experience , there were discomforts here and there but as far as I can remember, I was treated okay. If there were moments of difficulty, I didn’t dwell on them. Because at the end of the day, I was safe, and my baby was safe and for me, that was what truly mattered.
But what I will never forget what truly carried me was the love and support from my family.
When the OR doors opened, my husband was the first to greet me. He touched my hair gently and kissed my forehead. That small gesture said everything: "I'm here. I’m proud of you. I love you." It gave me strength.
My Mama , she made sure I was fed, reminded me to eat, to bathe, and even took care of my newborn during those exhausting wee hours of the night just so I could get some sleep. Her presence was pure comfort — steady, strong, and full of love.
My siblings , they were with me 24/7 in the hospital. They stayed to make sure their Ate could rest, to make me laugh, to keep me company so I wouldn’t feel bored or alone. They were my team, my joy, and my lifeline.
Even my Papa, who’s afraid of hospitals, stayed beside me on the hospital bed while everyone else was with the baby. He didn’t have to say anything his presence was enough. He was there, proud and worried, quietly watching over me.
So while that viral story was heavy and heartbreaking, it reminded me how blessed I’ve been. Not all mothers receive the love and support they deserve during and after childbirth and that’s something we should never take for granted.
To anyone reading this: if someone you love just gave birth, be there. Not just physically, be emotionally present. Offer your time, your help, your love. Even a simple gesture can mean everything.
To all mothers: your strength is unmatched. And to those who support us — thank you for turning our hardest days into bearable, even beautiful ones.

17/07/2024

A Real Mother’s Day Off: Chaos and Love

Yesterday was supposed to be my day off, but it turned into an emotional whirlwind. My eldest daughter was feeling under the weather with a fever, which made her extra clingy. I found myself constantly catering to her needs—snuggling, making sure she was eating, and fending off her requests to borrow my phone.

Then there was Gav, my toddler. He woke up crying from his afternoon nap, and I ended up carrying him to the store for ice cream to cheer him up. Meanwhile, my youngest was with her yaya, which should have been a relief, but I felt that twinge of guilt for not being fully present.

By evening, I was utterly exhausted. I wanted to share my frustrations with my husband, but I knew he was tired from work too. Maybe it’s just my hormones talking, but yesterday felt particularly overwhelming. I adore my kids and cherish these moments, but some days, the fatigue is just too much.

This morning was a familiar routine, with both my first and second kids crying for attention. It’s hard, but this is motherhood. Here’s hoping for a quieter day tomorrow!

26/09/2023

Hello everyone! 👋

I wanted to share a little update on my journey as a mom of two toddlers and a precious newborn. These past few months have been a whirlwind of emotions - fulfilling, rewarding, and, yes, a touch of anxiety as my maternity leave is coming to an end. 😌❤️

The Fulfilling Moments 🌟

Watching my two toddlers grow and bond with their newborn sibling has been an absolute joy. Those little hands holding the baby's tiny fingers, the giggles and laughter that fill our home, and those precious bedtime stories that I wouldn't trade for the world - these moments have made my heart swell with happiness. Motherhood, in all its chaos, is incredibly fulfilling. 👶👧👧❤️

The Rewarding Side of It All 💪

Taking care of a newborn while keeping up with the energy of toddlers has been a rewarding challenge. It's shown me how strong and resilient I can be. Late nights, diaper changes, and feeding schedules can be tough, but seeing my little ones thriving and smiling makes it all worth it. 💖

The Looming Return to Work Anxiety 😰

As my maternity leave draws to a close, I can't help but feel a bit anxious about returning to work. Balancing my career with the demands of a growing family is a big task, and I know it won't be easy. The thought of leaving my little ones in someone else's care is bittersweet. But I remind myself that I am setting an example of dedication and hard work for them, and that's a valuable lesson too. 💼👩‍👧‍👧

Cherishing Every Moment 🌈

In these final days of my leave, I'm making an effort to cherish every single moment - the messy ones, the giggly ones, and even the sleepy ones. Time flies, and these little ones grow up so fast. So, I'll be cuddling them a little longer, reading one more story, and savoring those sweet baby snuggles. 🤗❤️

To all the moms out there, whether you're in the middle of your maternity leave or navigating the world of parenthood in other ways, know that your journey is unique and beautiful. Every phase brings its challenges and its blessings. Let's support and uplift each other on this amazing rollercoaster called motherhood! 💪🌸

Feel free to share your own experiences and tips in the comments. We're all in this together! 🥰✨

28/06/2022

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There's so much I'd like to tell that tired face...

One day, you'll wonder if he's ok because he's slept for longer than two hours in a row.

One day, you'll stop posting in sleep forums for advice. You'll stop scouring the internet for solutions. Because you've found the answer within yourself.

One day, he'll let his dad rock him to sleep without screaming. You'll feel redundant but in a good, freeing way. You'll dance around the kitchen in celebration at your newfound sense of freedom, not quite knowing what to do with yourself.

One day, 2.5 years in, he will sleep through the night for the first time, and you'll be really chuffed. But it won't be the all-singing, all-dancing fanfare you've imagined all this time. Because the acceptance came sooner.

One day, you'll catch sight of yourself in the mirror and see a well-rested person staring back at you. The colour having slowly returned to your face.

One day, you'll no longer run on empty but rather a full (ish) tank. You'll start the day with a spring in your step rather than a tired trudge.

One day, you'll think back to those damning conversations and wonder why you ever let them fill your head with doubt.

One day, you'll look back with nothing but pride at the way you responded to your child's needs, in a world that still seems so strangely intent on denying them.

Art: O Trocatintas

Words: Karen McMillan (Mother Truths)

Taken from: 'Lessons: Reflections on Early Motherhood'
Available to buy worldwide: http://linktr.ee/mother_truths

25/06/2022

💯 ‼️‼️‼️

24/06/2022

Kaway kaway sa mga nakarelate. 👋
Lesson learned:
12-24 months na ang dapat paliton na baby clothes 🤦🏻‍♀️

24/06/2022

Bakit nga ba hindi? 😜💤

To my fellow mommies with newborns, this is just a season. Eventually this will pass.
Kaya laban lang tayo mga zombiemoms. Let’s enjoy this phase. ❤️

-CookieMOMster 🍪👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👦‍👦

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11/04/2022

Hello there Mommahs!
Breathe. ☕️

29/03/2022

Hello there wondermommahs! 😊

I am currently on my 35th week of pregnancy with our second child. I realized na kahit pala
hindi ka first time mom may mga new set of experiences ka parin during your pregnancy journey. You thought na alam mo na how to handle things, pero hindi pala. My first born is now 3 years old, turning 4 this June. Pero I felt na this time around parang mas nahirapan ako with this second pregnancy. The stress, the fatigue, the emotions were on it’s peak. Siguro brought about by my age siguro? Contributing factor din? Hahaha
Regardless, the level of excitement that I felt before is the same today. Every pregnancy journey is the different and worth celebrating. It’s the greatest blessing!

Anyway, for moms out there share naman kayo kung what was the hardest thing about being pregnant for 9 months?
Answer in the comment section below. ❤️

29/03/2022