29/05/2018
Affection for many people is what makes a relationship a relationship.
If you are craving affection in your marriage right now and are longing to be hugged, kissed, or given affection through caring words or "I love you" message - you are not alone. Thousands if not millions of couples may find themselves longing to be desired and cherished.
If you are upset about a lack of affection in your marriage you may be feeling lonely, ignored, unimportant and unloved. You may have started to see you husband or wife as distant, cold, self-centered or only interested in the children.
This relationship advice presumes that your spouse did not know that you like affection or forgot all of a sudden!
Or that maybe they did not realize that they were not showing you affection and somehow didn't notice it.
But telling your husband or wife to be more affectionate never works, perhaps you already know that from trying it in your own relationship.
It doesn't matter whether you beg, demand, joke, it never, ever works long-term or feel good.
If you are upset about a lack of affection, then really you are longing to be desired.
By ordering affection you may notice in your spouse a reluctance to be affectionate with you.
AND when you notice that it HURTS.
REALLY HURTS!
Begging for affection feels terrible!
Even if your man or woman comply!
So my advice is DON'T DO IT!
