𝚖𝚢 𝚖𝚘𝚘𝚍

28/06/2025

26/06/2025

minumulto na ko ng damdamin ko... 😅

22/06/2025

Sorry, I’m in the middle of my own storm.
I can’t be your umbrella right now.

It’s not that I don’t care.
It’s not that I don’t want to help.
But my hands are already full—holding myself together, managing my own battles, trying to heal wounds no one else sees.

I’m tired.
I’m hurting.
I’m barely standing.

Right now, I just need time—to breathe, to rest, to find my footing again. Maybe one day, when the rain slows and the clouds lift, I’ll have the strength to shelter someone else.

But today?
Today I just need to survive.

19/06/2025

geniuses only knows.... ☺☺

19/06/2025

The WORST feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a conversation with a man about his BEHAVIOR that hurts her every day, but instead of listening, he gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on her.
It’s a feeling that cuts deep—a mix of frustration, sadness, and emotional abandonment. She gathers the courage to speak up, not to argue, not to attack, but because she loves him and wants to make things better. She speaks from a place of pain and hope, hoping that maybe this time, he will really hear her, that he will understand the weight she’s been silently carrying.
But instead of leaning in, he raises his defenses. Instead of acknowledging her feelings, he deflects. He gets loud, or cold, or sarcastic. He shifts the blame onto her, twisting her concerns into accusations against her character, her tone, her timing. Suddenly, the conversation becomes about how she brought it up instead of what she brought up. And just like that, her pain gets buried under his anger.
And it’s not just the argument that hurts—it’s the message underneath it all: Your feelings don’t matter. Your pain is inconvenient. Your voice is too much. That moment becomes a silent wound, another scar added to the emotional pile she’s been trying so hard to suppress for the sake of peace. But peace without understanding isn’t peace—it’s silence. It’s pretending. It’s walking on eggshells while slowly losing pieces of herself just to keep things from falling apart.
What’s worse is that after enough of these moments, she starts to question herself. “Maybe I am too sensitive.” “Maybe I should just let it go.” “Maybe it’s not a big deal.” But deep down, she knows it is. She knows what respect, empathy, and love should feel like—and this isn’t it.
When a woman reaches out to address something that hurts her, it’s a gift. It’s her saying, I still care enough to fix this. It’s a chance for connection, healing, and growth. But when that moment is met with anger or blame, it pushes her further away. Not just emotionally—but spiritually. Because nothing is more damaging to a woman’s spirit than constantly being made to feel wrong for wanting to be treated right.

19/06/2025

“Updating your partner is really important in a relationship. Being busy is not a reason not to update your partner who has spent hours waiting for your response or updates.

Entering a relationship is a big responsibility, and if you can't handle the bare minimum that he or she asks for, then don't enter a relationship.

A real man or woman, no matter how busy he or she is, will grab the opportunity to update you because that's how relationships work.

A simple —"Hey, just checking in. I've been busy, but I am thinking of you" isn't hard to do.”

16/06/2025

Never beg someone to be in your life.

If your love and emotions get ignored .... do yourself a favor and walk away.

You're worth so much more than what people have unfortunately made you believe.

Wait to be with someone who cherishes you and is proud to have you with every day that passes.

Someone who actually knows your worth.

Someone who is there for you and genuinely wants to know your heart's needs and desires.

This is what your life needs.

~ Cody Bret

15/06/2025

"Kapag Asawa Mong Babae ang Tumahimik" 🥀📍

Kapag asawa mong babae ang tumahimik…
Huwag mo agad isipin na ayos lang siya.
Dahil sa totoo lang, baka doon mo na siya pinaka-nasaktan.

Tahimik na lang siya, kasi baka kapag nagsalita pa siya,
mas masaktan ka.
Tahimik na lang siya, kasi baka wala rin namang magbago.
Tahimik na lang siya, kasi baka sawang-sawa na siyang
ipaliwanag pa kung bakit siya nasasaktan.

Hindi yan dahil wala na siyang pakialam—
kundi dahil paulit-ulit mo siyang hindi pinakinggan noong
sumisigaw pa siya sa sakit.

Naalala mo pa ba nung madaldal pa siya?
Nung kahit simpleng tampo, sinasabi niya?
Nung konting mali lang, kinokontra ka niya agad kasi ayaw
niyang tumagal ang tampuhan niyo?

Hindi mo ba namalayan kung paano unti-unti siyang natahimik?
Kung paano siya unti-unting nanahimik, hanggang sa dumating yung araw na hindi mo na alam kung may nararamdaman pa ba siya o wala na?

Ang katahimikan ng isang asawa, 'yan ang pinakamalalim na pakiusap.
Hindi sa salita, kundi sa damdamin.
Hindi sa iyak, kundi sa pagtitimpi.

Kapag tahimik na siya, baka hindi na pagmamahal ang
dahilan kung bakit nananatili siya—
kundi dahil sa mga anak niyo.
O dahil takot siyang masira ang pamilyang pinilit niyang buuin.

Tahimik na lang siya dahil baka yun na lang ang natitirang
paraan para protektahan ang sarili niyang damdamin.

Kaya kung asawa mong babae ang biglang naging tahimik,
lumapit ka.
Huwag mo siyang husgahan, huwag mo siyang pagsabihan,
huwag mo siyang pabayaan.
Pakinggan mo kahit hindi siya nagsasalita.
Ramdam mo kahit wala siyang sinasabi.

Dahil minsan, ang pinakamasakit na sigaw…
ay 'yung hindi mo na naririnig.
Tahimik na lang.
Pero wasak na wasak na pala. 🫂💔

15/06/2025

You don't know how many nights
l've cry in silence,
telling myself,
Maybe it's my fault.

Maybe I wasn't enough,
maybe I was too much,
maybe I was the reason things went wrong.

I convinced myself to carry the blame because
I didn't want to put it on you.
I didn't want to believe that you could hurt me like this.

But the truth is, you always acted like the victim, like I was the one breaking us,
while I was breaking myself just to hold us together.

And yet,
you never saw it,
you never cared to see it.🖤🌻

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03/06/2023

Part 3

03/06/2023

Part 2

03/06/2023

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