04/08/2025
"I Fulfilled the Dream I Promised Them"
I may not have been the most expressive growing up, but deep down, I’ve always been grateful — in quiet ways that mattered.
Back when I was still a student, I made a promise. I didn’t know yet what kind of future I wanted for myself. I had no plans for marriage or anything else. But one thing I was sure of:
“Ma, Pa… Patindugan tgid kamo balay makasulod na ko sa ubra.”
That dream came before everything else.
Eventually, that promise came true. I worked hard and finally built them a home.
It wasn’t just a house — it was a symbol of every single sacrifice they made. A quiet “thank you” for the years they put their needs aside just to make sure we, their children, could finish school and have better lives.
I thought that would be enough.
But then, one day, Papa mentioned he wanted a "car". I paused for a moment and asked myself, “Wasn’t the house already enough?”
Still, I said yes.
Not to show off. Not because I had to.
But because I wanted to give them the comfort they’ve always denied themselves.
I remember how Papa and Mama worked anywhere they could — sa kampo, sa talamnan, under the sun, under the rain.
They did whatever it took, wherever they had to go, just to support us.
And I also remember the painful words I once heard:
"Ina nga bata nd na katapos eskwela kay mamana lang na dayun"
Those words hurt. But they didn’t break me.
Instead, I held tighter to that promise I made while I was still wearing a uniform and carrying books — because I knew who I was doing it all for.
And now, even if no material thing can ever repay the years they gave us, I try.
Not because I want to prove anything.
But because I carry a quiet, unshakable gratitude in my heart.
Then came that moment I’ll never forget:
We gave Papa the car… and I saw it.
That kind of smile that speaks louder than any thank-you.
That pure joy on his face — like a child whose long-time wish finally came true.
You could see it clearly:
He was happy. His dream had come true.
And in that moment, I knew —
Every sacrifice, every hardship, every promise I held onto… it was all worth it.
This isn’t about being a perfect daughter.
This is about a promise.
A dream fulfilled not just for them,
but also for the girl I used to be —
the one who swore to give back, no matter what.