25/03/2025
"Si Gabbi, 8 years na rin with Khalil. Nasa healthy relationship na siya. Pero hindi ba kayo dumarating sa point na parang nagkakasawaan na kayo sa isa't isa? 8 years is so long, para na kayong mag-asawa " -Ashley
"Alam mo kapag tumatagal na kayo, hindi naman totoo 'yong sawa, e. Basta ineenjoy niyo" -Dustin
"Yes, like everyday pa rin kami magka video call bago matulog. Hindi ko nga alam paano niya ako pinatulan" -Gabbi
"Sometimes I ask him "am I too much to maintain?", and he tells me "no". He maintains me well" -Gabbi
"Tsaka from the get go parang in-aim talaga namin na pahabain 'yong relationship namin. Kasi alam namin na we're here for the long run, not just for dating." -Gabbi
"Kung i-hug ko man si River and Dustin, tatawanan lang ako non. Gano'n na kami ka-chill sa relationship namin. May assurance talaga sa isa't isa"
"And never kami nagkaroon ng problema dahil sa babae o lalaki. It's possible pala talaga to have a healthy relationship. Hindi nga rin kami nag-aaway" -Gabbi
—Being in a healthy relationship is such a great feeling because you don't have to overthink anything—you both have security and assurance.
Trust is one of the strongest foundations of any lasting relationship. When you fully trust each other, there's no need for unnecessary jealousy, doubts, or arguments over things that don't matter. And no matter how much time has passed, nothing changes in how you treat each other. The same effort, care, and affection you had in the beginning are still there.
Another thing that makes a relationship even more beautiful is when you both have the same mindset—you're not just in it for the moment, but for the long run. You're not just dating for fun or convenience, you're building something real, something that has a future. There's no fear of being left behind or abandoned because you both know that you're working toward the same goal, a lifetime together.
I hope you find a love that is calm, healthy, secure, genuine, and meant to last—just like Gabbi and Khalil. Not just for dating, but for a lifetime
