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Paradigm.ILO, Iloilo City (2025)

22/03/2025

The eagle tests before it trusts.

Eagles mate for life, so when a female eagle meets a male and they want to mate, she flies down to earth with the male pursuing her and she picks a twig. She flies back into the air with the male still pursuing her. Once she has reached a height high enough for her, she lets the twig fall to the ground and watches it as it falls. The male chases after the twig. The faster it falls, the faster he chases until he reaches it and has to catch it before it falls to the ground, then bring it back to the female eagle. The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a much higher altitude pursued by the male until she perceives it high enough, and then she drops the twig for the male to chase. This may go on for hours with the height increasing until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of picking the twig, which shows commitment. Then and only then, will she allow him to mate with her!

Whether in private life or in business, one should test the commitment of people intended for partnership.

20/02/2025

1. If you want to own a house, you start by buying a land
2. If you want to own an empire, you start by growing your business
3. If you want to be fit, you start by eating healthy
4. If you want to be wise, you start by reading books
5. If you want to travel the world, you start by saving money
6. If you want to be happy, you start by being grateful
7. If you want to be wealthy, you start by managing your finances
8. If you want to be a good leader, you start by leading yourself first
9. If you want to be a good parent, you start by being a good role model
10. If you want to be successful, you start by taking small steps
11. If you want to be confident, you start by believing in yourself
12. If you want to learn a new skill, you start by practicing daily
13. If you want to be creative, you start by trying new things
14. If you want to be respected, you start by respecting others
15. If you want to build strong relationships, you start by being trustworthy
16. If you want to achieve your goals, you start by setting them clearly
17. If you want to be organized, you start by decluttering your space
18. If you want to be free, you start by letting go of your fears
19. If you want to make a change, you start by changing yourself first

20. If you want to run a marathon, you start by walking daily
21. If you want to start a business, you start by identifying a need
22. If you want to help others, you start by helping yourself first
23. If you want to learn a language, you start by practicing every day
24. If you want to be productive, you start by managing your time wisely
25. If you want to gain knowledge, you start by asking questions
26. If you want to be healthy, you start by exercising regularly
27. If you want to be at peace, you start by letting go of grudges
28. If you want to be strong, you start by enduring challenges with faith
29. If you want to be kind, you start by being kind to yourself first
30. If you want to make an impact, you start by being authentic

Success doesn't happen overnight, and achieving anything significant requires consistent effort. Whether it's owning a home, starting a business, or gaining respect, the journey begins with a single step. Don't get discouraged by the enormity of the goal ahead. Focus on taking that first step, then the next, and before you know it, you'll be well on your way to realizing your dreams. The key is to start, no matter how small, and stay persistent. Keep believing, and you'll see progress.

19/02/2025

When a wolf realizes it is losing a fight against another and understands there is no chance of victory, it makes an unexpected decision: it peacefully offers its jugular to the opponent, as if saying, "I have lost, let's end this." But at that very moment, something astonishing happens.

The victorious wolf, instead of delivering the final blow, freezes. An ancient force holds it back—a silent, instinctive law. Something embedded in its DNA, or perhaps beyond it, whispers that the survival of the species is more important than the satisfaction of eliminating its rival.

What a magnificent natural mechanism: no cowardice in the one who surrenders, no mercy in the one who stops. Just a perfect balance. There is no winner or loser. Both wolves walk away, and the cycle of life continues.

This is what we call: HUMILITY.

Credits: Nena Catalán

19/02/2025

Both mangoes are growing on the same branch of the same tree. One is already ripe, while the other still needs more time to mature.

Through these mangoes, nature teaches us an important lesson: just because others seem to succeed before us doesn’t mean we are failures. It simply means our time has not come yet.

Therefore, we must be patient, stay resilient, and not give in to frustration.

We might be just a short time away from reaching our own moment of success.

Remember, our time will come—it just takes patience, persistence, and faith.

18/02/2025

NEVER, NEVER, EVER CUT A CHILD'S WINGS...

1. "My hands are small, and that's why I spill the milk even when I don’t want to."

2. "My legs are short. Please wait for me and walk slower so I can keep up with you."

3. "Don't hit my hands when I touch something colorful—I just want to learn."

4. "Please look at me when I'm talking to you so I know you're listening."

5. "My feelings are still tender. Please don’t scold me all day. Let me make mistakes without making me feel stupid."

6. "Don't expect the bed I make or the drawing I paint to be perfect. Love me for trying my best."

7. "Remember, I’m a child, not a small adult. Sometimes I don’t understand what you’re saying."

8. "I love you so much. Please love me for who I am, not just for what I do."

9. "Don't reject me when you're upset with me. If I come to give you a kiss, it’s because I feel alone, abandoned, and afraid."

10. "When you yell at me, I get scared. Please explain what I’ve done wrong."

11. "Don’t be angry when the night falls, and the dark feels scary. When I wake up and call you, your hug is the only thing that gives me peace."

12. "When we go to the store, don't let go of my hand. I feel like I’ll get lost and you’ll never find me."

13. "I feel really sad when you argue. Sometimes I think it’s my fault, and my stomach tightens because I don’t know what to do."

14. "I often see you hugging and caressing my brother. Do you love him more than me? Maybe because he’s cuter or smarter? But what about me... am I not your child too?"

15. "You scolded me harshly when I broke my favorite toy, and even more when I cried about it. I was already sad—I didn’t do it on purpose. Now I’ve lost it forever."

16. "You got upset because I got dirty while playing. But the feeling of mud on my feet was so wonderful, and the afternoon was so lovely. I wish I knew how to wash my clothes by myself."

17. "Today, you weren’t feeling well, and I got really worried. I tried to cheer you up with my games and stories. What would I do if something happened to you?"

18. "I’m scared of hell, and I don’t even know what it is... but I think it must be as terrible as being without you."

19. "Even though I had fun staying with my uncles, I missed you so much the whole week. I wish parents never had vacations away from their children."

20. "I’m so lucky! Out of all the children in the world, you chose me."

As adults, we often forget what it was like to be a child—what hurt us, what scared us, what made us feel loved. Sometimes, children say these things out loud; other times, they only think them silently.

16/02/2025

Exodus 14:14

16/02/2025

The snake bit the hen, and with the poison burning in her body, she sought refuge in her henhouse.

But the other hens preferred to expel her so that the poison would not spread.

The hen limped away, crying in pain. Not because of the bite, but because of the abandonment and disdain of her own family at the time when she needed them most.

And so she left... burning with fever, dragging one of her legs, vulnerable to the cold nights.

With each step, a tear fell.

The hens in the henhouse watched her go away, watching her disappear on the horizon. Some said to each other:

— Let her go... She will die far from us.

And when the hen finally vanished into the immensity of the horizon, they were all sure that she had died.

Some even looked at the sky, hoping to see vultures flying.
Time passed.

Much later, a hummingbird came to the henhouse and announced:

— Your sister is alive! She lives in a cave far away from here.

She recovered, but lost a leg from the snake bite.
She has trouble finding food and needs your help.

There was silence. Then the excuses began:

— I can't go, I'm laying eggs...

— I can't go, I'm looking for corn...

— I can't go, I have to take care of my chicks...

So, one by one, they all rejected the request. The hummingbird returned to the cave without help.

Time passed again.

Much later, the hummingbird returned, but this time with painful news:

— Your sister has passed away... She died alone in the cave... There is no one to bury her or mourn her.

At that moment, a weight fell on everyone. A deep lament filled the henhouse.

Those who were laying eggs stopped.

Those who were looking for corn left the seeds behind.

Those who were caring for chicks forgot about them for a moment.

Regret hurt more than any poison. Why didn't we go before?, they asked themselves.

And without measuring the distance or the effort, they all set off for the cave, crying and lamenting. Now they had a reason to see her, but it was too late.

When they got to the cave, they didn't find the hen... They only found a letter that said:

"In life, many times people don't cross the street to help you when you're alive, but they cross the world to bury you when you die.

And most of the tears at funerals are not from pain, but from remorse and regret."

16/02/2025

Walk a mile in someone's shoes before you judge them.

16/02/2025

A sinners prayer to Salvation !
(Pray this prayer with your mouth to God )

Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me as i now forgive those who has sinned against me. I believe that your son Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. I receive your Holy Spirit now by faith and help me obey You and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

Congratulation, if you prayed this prayer and meant it wholeheartedly, you have now become a child of God and God has forgiven you all your sins. Activate your faith by confess that you have become a christian to another person you trust. Open your Holy Bible or Bible app and ask The Holy Spirit to reveal His Word to you daily. Also get baptized fully under water and get fellowship with other christians so you can grow stronger as a child of God.

GOD LOVES YOU
John 3.16
For so God loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, whosoever believes in Him, shall not perish but have everlasting life.
Romans 6:23
For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

BE BAPTIZED
Acts 2:38-46
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
John 3.5 5
Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God."

CONFESSION BEFORE GOD :
Romans 10:9-12
9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.

CONFESSION BEFORE MEN :
Matthew 10:32-33
32 Whosoever therefore shall confess Me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven.
33 But whosoever shall deny Me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.

TAKE UP YOUR CROSS AND FOLLOW JESUS CHRIST :
Mark 16.15
And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.
16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
17 And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall they cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues;
18 They shall take up serpents; and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them; they shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover.
Luke 9:23
23 And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.
Mark 1:17
And Jesus said unto them, Come ye after me, and I will make you to become fishers of men.

INHERIT EVERLASTING LIFE IN JESUS CHRIST
John 1: 12
Yet to all who did receive Him, to those who believed in His Name, he gave the right to become children of God—
John 11.25
Jesus said unto her, “I am the resurrection and the Life. He that believeth in Me, though he were dead, yet shall he live;

THERE IS HEALING IN THE BLOOD COVENANT OF JESUS CHRIST
Isaiah 53Surely He took up our pain and bore our suffering,
yet we considered Him punished by God, stricken by Him, and afflicted. 5 But He was pierced for our transgressions, He was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on Him, and by His wounds we are healed.

JESUS CHRIST WILL BE YOUR LIGHT
John 8:12
Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.

16/02/2025

A man and his wife traveled to the zoo. They found a monkey that played passionately with his female. His wife told him: "what a romance."

Then they found a lion and his lioness separated from each other; the lion was silent and alone in his corner as if the lioness did not exist. His wife told him: "what a sad scene without love."

Her husband then told her: "throw that stone at the lioness and watch." When she threw it down, the lion leaped roaring to defend his lioness. They saw the monkeys again and she did the same by throwing a stone; the monkey then jumped and abandoned his female to save his hide.

Her husband tells her later: "do not be fooled by what you see as romanticism in some, many times it is a deceptive appearance that hides an empty heart; there are others on the contrary who do not show anything, but their hearts are full of sincere love ". Unfortunately today we have so many monkeys and so few lions."

15/02/2025

41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME

1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama.

2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own.

3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble.

4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing.

5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks.

6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital.

7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success.

8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it.

9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation.

10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.**

11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world.

12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down.

13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs.

14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along.

15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher.

16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward.

17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.**

18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going.

19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.**

20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.**

21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.**

22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing.

23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive.

24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.**

25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.**

26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.**

27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.**

28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make.

29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred.

30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.**

31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.**

32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.**

33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.**

34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.**

35. **Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.**

36. **If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.**

37. **People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.**

38. **If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.**

39. **Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled.** That’s their problem.

40. **Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.**

41. **Never, ever return to what once broke you.**

**Keep pushing forward!**

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15/02/2025

1. Never shake hand while sitting.

2. Never talk bad about the food when you are the guest.

3. Don't eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.

4. Protect who is behind you and respect who is beside you.

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation.

6. Don't take credit for the work you didn't do.

7. Dress well, no matter what the occasion.

8. Speak honestly: say what you think and mean what you say.

9. Ask more than you answer.

10. Leave the profane language for the less educated.

11. Avoid placing your phone on the table when eating with someone.

12. Listen, smile and most of all make eye contact.

13. If you're not invited, don't ask to go.

14. Never be ashamed of where you come from.

15. Don't beg for a relationship.

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