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13/06/2025

đź•Š"When Friendships Go Quiet..." đź•Š

Sometimes you look at your phone and realize…
you haven’t spoken to the people you once called “your people.”

Not because of a fight.
Not because anything “happened.”
Just… silence.

Is it a quiet season?
Or is there just nothing left to say?
You wonder.

Motherhood can feel like a world of its own —
Where the days blur, your mind is cluttered with a thousand tiny tasks, and your heart is full but so tired.

You still care.
You still think of them.
But maybe you don’t know how to start the conversation anymore.
Or maybe it feels like they’ve moved on while you’ve been buried in nap schedules and snack requests.

If you’re sitting in that space —
between missing someone and not knowing how to reconnect —
you’re not alone.

Friendship in this season can be quiet.
But quiet doesn’t always mean over.

Sometimes, it just means: we’re both doing our best to stay afloat. 💛

-herthoughtsathome

13/06/2025

ME: “It’s just a movie.”
ALSO ME: Sits in silence after the credits, heart in my throat, tears I didn’t expect.

I watched "Straw" last night, and I can’t stop thinking about it.
Not just the story—but the weight of what it means to be a mother carrying more than anyone sees.

That feeling of being stretched thin but still showing up.
Of holding it all together for your child when you feel like falling apart.
Of screaming silently because saying it out loud feels too much, or like no one’s really listening.

Taraji’s character wasn’t just a “woman in crisis”—
She was every mother who’s ever begged quietly, “Just give me one break.”

It wasn’t perfect. It was messy. But so is motherhood sometimes.
And watching it felt like someone finally put a spotlight on the kind of pain we usually keep in the dark.

So to every mom out there who's ever said,
“I’m fine,”
when you weren’t—
I see you. This one was for us. 💔❤️‍🩹

-herthoughtsathome

13/06/2025

I stood outside his classroom today, just for a moment.
No one saw me—not even him.

But my heart was loud.
Worried. Hopeful. Holding its breath.

I wasn’t checking on his grades or his seat or if he had his pencil.
I was checking if his spirit still felt safe.
If today was a good day—or just a day he was trying to get through.

It’s a quiet kind of ache, loving someone so deeply while the world spins too fast around them.

So I stayed for a second longer…
whispered a prayer only a mother knows…
and walked away slowly, carrying the weight of both our hearts.

-herthoughtsathome


10/06/2025

Mornings at our house? Let’s just say they deserve a medal.

It starts with the usual—breakfast negotiations, missing socks, and the classic “I don’t want to go to school” soundtrack on repeat. Some days, it’s extra tough to get one of my boys moving. His body is up, but his heart just isn't ready to face the day. And that’s okay.

But here’s the part that gets me: his older brother has become my quiet sidekick in the chaos.

He grabs his brother’s shoes. He cracks a joke. He offers a hand without being asked.

Sometimes, it's not the grownups who hold it all together—it’s the little hearts who understand more than we realize.

So yes, mornings are still wild. But they’re also full of love, teamwork, and tiny moments that make it all worth it. 💛

-herthoughtsathome

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