08/01/2024
Agree 💯
When it comes to love, 𝘄𝗮𝗹𝗮 𝘀𝗮 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗬𝗢💵 𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝘂𝗻𝗮𝘆 𝗻𝗮 𝗛𝗔𝗟𝗔𝗚𝗔 💕
Regarding the 299peso worth of engagement ring, I understand na marami ang mao-offend kapag binigyan ka ng “parang hindi pinaghirapang engagement ring”.
Tama naman. Valid yung naramdaman ni Ate. Naiintindihan ko s’ya. But, we also have to understand si Kuya. By understanding both sides, we will have the best learnings.
And ds are my personal comments: (you may agree or not, it’s okay😉)
1. Once in a lifetime at mahalaga ang marriage proposal. Pinaghahandaan. Pinag-iisipan. But I don’t also want to believe na kapag binigyan ka ng mumurahing singsing ay hindi ka na kayang buhayin😉 Marami akong kilalang 𝗻𝗮𝗴𝘀𝗶𝗺𝘂𝗹𝗮 𝗻𝗮 𝘄𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗮𝗹𝗮, 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗸𝗮𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗻𝗮𝗴𝘀𝗶𝗽𝗮𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝘂𝗺𝗶𝘀𝗸𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲 𝘀𝗮 𝗯𝘂𝗵𝗮𝘆. Yumaman. Nakaangat sa laylayan. (and we are one of those).
2. I guess you will only get DISAPPOINTED, kung inilagay mo ang halaga mo sa 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗬𝗢 𝗸𝗲𝘀𝗮 𝘀𝗮 𝗣𝗔𝗚𝗠𝗔𝗠𝗔𝗛𝗔𝗟. I believe you will not question the price of the engagement ring kung ang nasa puso’t isip mo ay ang pagmamahal at commitment na ibinibigay sa iyo. Masyadong malalim ang pagmamahal para mangibabaw ang presyo (kung talagang MAHAL mo).
3. Engagement ring is a SYMBOL of COMMITMENT… and that ‘symbol’ doesn’t define his LOVE for you. Sana mas makita natin yung INTENTION ng tao kesa sa “symbol”. Maraming nabigyan ng mamahaling bagay pero hindi pinanindigan😉 In the end, 𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝘂𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗴𝗶𝗳𝘁𝘀.
4. That ring is STILL a 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸. Kahit ano pa ang presyo n’yan, PINAGHIRAPAN n’ya iyan. Halos katumbas na iyan ng one day minimum wage. Isang araw ng trabaho. Maliban pa yan sa maraming bagay na ibinigay n’ya sa iyo (na for sure hindi lang singsing)— na katumbas din ng maraming araw ng pagod at pawis.
5. I think we can also appreciate the thought that he finally decided to MARRY the girl. Maraming babae ang 𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗴, 𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗴 𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶 𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗴𝗮𝗻. Pero si Ate, handang iharap sa altar.
6. I think we can also APPRECIATE how the guy works hard for his family. Kaya naman pala hindi nabilhan ng mahal, kasi kailangan nyang unahin yung responsibilidad nya sa pamilya—lalo na yung bunsong kapatid n’ya na pinapaaral. And I find it appealing na ang boyfriend mo ay RESPONSABLE sa pamilya. Meaning, kung paano n’ya inalagaan ang kanyang family, ganun ka rin n’ya AALAGAAN. Kapag ikaw naman ang pamilya n’ya, that’s how you too will also be treated.That is something we should really be PROUD of. Yung lalakeng hindi takbuhin sa responsibilidad.
Marahil he’s giving his best sa family n’ya ngayon, so he can give his best to your marriage when the time comes😉
7. Communicate your feelings to your partner. As much as possible, 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝗺/𝗵𝗲𝗿. Wag idaan sa social media yung kaya namang pag-usapan😉
To all the girls, sana ‘wag nating i-define ang WORTH natin sa PRESYO ng binigay sa atin. Iba ang measurement ng pagmamahal. Hindi pera. Hindi presyo.
Wag lang sana natin makita yung pagbibigay ng singsing, but the CONTINUOUS EFFORT of sustaining the relationship for 8 years☺️ 𝗛𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶 𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗮𝗺𝗮 𝗻𝗮 𝘀𝗮 𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗮𝗗𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗴𝗮 𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗮𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗮𝗴𝘀𝗮𝘀𝗮𝗺𝗮 ✨
I hope we don’t find our VALUE on money💸😉 Kawawa ka naman kung puro presyo at pera ang kasiyahan mo. You will surely feel EMPTY kahit anong gawin mo. You will never be satisfied.
Sa totoo lang, as you grow older, you will realize na 𝘆𝘂𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗴𝗮 𝗯𝗮𝗴𝗮𝘆 𝗻𝗮 𝘁𝗼𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗻𝗮𝗸𝗮𝗸𝗮𝗽𝗮𝗴𝗽𝗮𝘀𝗮𝘆𝗮 𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗴𝗮 𝗯𝗮𝗴𝗮𝘆 𝗻𝗮 𝗪𝗔𝗟𝗔𝗡𝗚 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗬𝗢 𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗶 𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶 𝗻𝗴 𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗔
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