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20/09/2024

ayoko na mag overthink kung may kinakausap kang iba bahala ka na malaki kana

20/09/2024

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20/09/2024

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20/09/2024

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20/09/2024

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miss kita

19/09/2024

Will I ever get over this loss?

The answer is No.

(But this necessarily isn’t a bad thing.)

Why you ask?

Because grief is only there because of the love you had for that person.
This person was a main character in your story. An extreme part of your every day life.
You don’t get over something like this.

I know that doesn’t seem helpful.

But stay with me.

In the initial days after the loss…your whole world becomes unrecognizable. It’s like you are wearing dark glasses to mute out every color around you. Grief is the forefront of every single thought.

Thoughts that ruminate over and over. Even at 3 am when you aren’t sleeping. You see everyone else going through their days laughing and planning. And there you are going through the motions and wondering if you will ever laugh again.

And you just keep going through the motions until the day you actually do laugh. Like a real laugh.

It will take you aback. You may feel some icky emotions pop up like guilt.
How can I laugh at a time like this?

I ask you to think about your loved one right at that moment. Picture their face. Don’t you think it would please them to see that smile? Even if it even was for a few seconds?

And you keep trudging along. Day by day. Week to week. This is hard! And your emotions are so heavy. The next day you can’t stop crying. And the next you are punching your pillow…

And the next..

You reached out and made plans with a friend.

Maybe you call it off because you didnt know how you would feel on that particular day…but maybe you didn’t.
You still made the plans.

Small steps. The grief is still with you but your life eventually has to adjust around it.

Kind of like a tight bandage wrapping around that ache inside. You will have a lot of pep talks with your heart to expect not to get a call on a certain day or not seeing them at special events. More hard stuff to go through…I won’t lie.

In time you will build new experiences and meet others but it won’t change the love you carry for them. It’s always with you.

That ache you carry inside you is the testament of your love. Moving forward with them. Sometimes moving backwards with them. But moving nonetheless.

So no you don’t get over grief. But would you want it any other way? Getting over something is finite.

Nope. You are packing up the memories and taking them with you for the rest of your journey.

And that’s how it should be.

19/09/2024

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07/09/2024

maghihintay nanamn ba ng star ng pasko ko?😅

08/08/2024

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