The Virtual Hyphe

28/12/2023

A higher position can never be rewarding if you care less for your people. You might feel compassion, but doing nothing is just the same as not caring.

Think critically; flexing the daily production cannot make you a hero. I hope your system gets better before more riders lose their mobility.

13/12/2023

Just realized that it's literally 12 days before Christmas. It's exciting, but I cannot help but feel a little anxious as I realize our family gets smaller with time. Christmas for us is a time of gathering, healing, forgiveness, and laughter. Regardless of the struggles, we make it a point to be in the home where my siblings and I grew up.

Looking back, those times were so much fun! We used to have the kids lined up to get their "pamasko" on Christmas day. Unlike in other countries, Christmas Eve is not the main event; it's Christmas day itself, spent with loved ones, partying, singing our hearts out on a karaoke, and dancing until we're dead tired.

New Year's Eve is another story, but the most unforgettable moments were when my grandmother was still alive. We'd wait until the fireworks died down and the streets cleared up so we could walk to our grandma's house, eat, and party there.

It's really nostalgic, and my heart feels heavy now. Knowing that many relatives went overseas to work, and the most painful part is that some have passed away.

My dad was taken from us by the pandemic after our miscarriage, and months later, my mother-in-law passed. Losing a parent changes your life, but losing a sibling hits differently. My sister passed just before our dad did, and until now, we cannot move on; it still stings, especially during this time. I cannot imagine how much more my mom endures every time the holidays come around. My dad used to be the head of the events, and my sister used to be our banker. So on Christmas day, we cannot help but hide the pain for the sake of the kids. I think our mindset now is that Christmas is truly for the kids who deserve to enjoy every inch of the festivities, gatherings, and family time. They must earn memories more than we did because a happy childhood makes them a better person in the future.

Wishing everyone a joyful and meaningful holiday season. Let's cherish our memories and create new ones with our loved ones. ❤️🎄

05/12/2023

Guess who's eagerly counting down the days until the holidays? 🎤 Yup, me! Nothing says festive season like grabbing a microphone and unleashing my inner karaoke rockstar. 🌟 You know the drill - that classic question, "Hey, are you having fun?" while belting out your favorite tunes? It's like the ultimate karaoke inside joke that never fails to crack me up.

So, why are we all so hooked on this magical karaoke contraption? Besides being downright hilarious, it's basically a stage for the countless Filipinos with voices that could make angels jealous! 🎶 Karaoke isn't just a hobby; it's our chance to flex those vocal cords and have an absolute blast doing it.

Now, picture this: a time-traveling karaoke machine journey from 1970s Japan to the 1980s Philippines. Daisuke Inoue's genius invention made karaoke a global sensation, capturing our hearts with its interactive and social groove.

As it turns out, our love for music and singing embraced karaoke like long-lost BFFs. It went from being a cool commercial thing to a must-have in every Filipino household, turning our celebrations into a full-on karaoke fiesta!

I'm already dreaming of Christmas and New Year's Eve, surrounded by family, grabbing that mic, and belting out holiday classics. 🎄🎉 Here's to a bountiful end of the year for all of us! 🙏🏼🎶

21/11/2023

Happy Thanksgiving Day y'all!
What are the things that you are thankful for?

Me? I'm grateful for the air I breathe and the life I choose to keep living, even when facing tough times and thoughts of giving up during bouts of depression. Despite it all, God gives me the courage to push through and find the beauty in life! 🙏🌟

I might not have a lot of money or influence, but I'm truly thankful for the strong and resilient spirit that He has given me. It helps me appreciate the beauty of the world. With these special gifts, I'm motivated to keep going and face whatever challenges come my way with grace.

20/11/2023

The recently concluded Miss Universe 2023 has left me amazed and shookt! 🤯 It's disheartening to see that despite Ms. Philippines' hard work and outstanding performance throughout the pageant, she wasn't included in the top finalists. Rumors of manipulation and hokus-pokus in the background are circulating, especially after the wrong top 5 list was initially posted, including Ms. Philippines instead of Ms. Thailand. The subsequent correction left the whole Philippines in anger and heartbreak. 😢

Pageants can be prone to controversies and rumors, so it's crucial to approach these situations with a critical and discerning mindset. I hope that our concerns about the fairness of the judging process or the accuracy of the results will be addressed transparently.

However, amidst the chaos, let's also acknowledge the rightful winner, Ms. Nicaragua! 🇳🇮👑 She truly deserves the crown, standing out with her amazing final Q and A portion. When asked whose shoes she would like to spend a year in, she confidently chose Mary Wollstonecraft, making history with her response.

For those wondering, Mary Wollstonecraft was a trailblazing figure who opened doors for countless women. Ms. Nicaragua expressed a desire to see the income gap between men and women vanish, allowing women to work in any area they choose without limitations.

Let's continue to celebrate the achievements of all the contestants and hope for more transparency in future pageants! 🌟💖

17/11/2023

You know what makes our marriage awesome?! 💖 It's all about sharing everything—the tough stuff, the cozy moments, the sacrifices—but doing it with loads of love. 💕

Growing our family is a wild ride, and guess what? We need to grow too—financially and personally. Adulting together is where the real magic happens! 🌈💰

Now, let's chat self-care! 🌺 Taking some 'me time' is like a secret weapon. Moms, you get me! Whether it's a little shopping therapy, a spa day, or a spontaneous girls' night out—these moments are like superhero power-ups. 🛍️💆‍♀️👯‍♀️

Because, let's face it, when we take care of ourselves, we can handle whatever life throws at us. And remember, a happy and fulfilled you contributes to a happy and fulfilling partnership! Here's to love, growing together, thriving individually, and occasional pampering! 🚀💖 💑"

16/11/2023