The Virtual Hyphe

28/12/2023

A higher position can never be rewarding if you care less for your people. You might feel compassion, but doing nothing is just the same as not caring.

Think critically; flexing the daily production cannot make you a hero. I hope your system gets better before more riders lose their mobility.

13/12/2023

Just realized that it's literally 12 days before Christmas. It's exciting, but I cannot help but feel a little anxious as I realize our family gets smaller with time. Christmas for us is a time of gathering, healing, forgiveness, and laughter. Regardless of the struggles, we make it a point to be in the home where my siblings and I grew up.

Looking back, those times were so much fun! We used to have the kids lined up to get their "pamasko" on Christmas day. Unlike in other countries, Christmas Eve is not the main event; it's Christmas day itself, spent with loved ones, partying, singing our hearts out on a karaoke, and dancing until we're dead tired.

New Year's Eve is another story, but the most unforgettable moments were when my grandmother was still alive. We'd wait until the fireworks died down and the streets cleared up so we could walk to our grandma's house, eat, and party there.

It's really nostalgic, and my heart feels heavy now. Knowing that many relatives went overseas to work, and the most painful part is that some have passed away.

My dad was taken from us by the pandemic after our miscarriage, and months later, my mother-in-law passed. Losing a parent changes your life, but losing a sibling hits differently. My sister passed just before our dad did, and until now, we cannot move on; it still stings, especially during this time. I cannot imagine how much more my mom endures every time the holidays come around. My dad used to be the head of the events, and my sister used to be our banker. So on Christmas day, we cannot help but hide the pain for the sake of the kids. I think our mindset now is that Christmas is truly for the kids who deserve to enjoy every inch of the festivities, gatherings, and family time. They must earn memories more than we did because a happy childhood makes them a better person in the future.

Wishing everyone a joyful and meaningful holiday season. Let's cherish our memories and create new ones with our loved ones. ❤️🎄

21/11/2023

Happy Thanksgiving Day y'all!
What are the things that you are thankful for?

Me? I'm grateful for the air I breathe and the life I choose to keep living, even when facing tough times and thoughts of giving up during bouts of depression. Despite it all, God gives me the courage to push through and find the beauty in life! 🙏🌟

I might not have a lot of money or influence, but I'm truly thankful for the strong and resilient spirit that He has given me. It helps me appreciate the beauty of the world. With these special gifts, I'm motivated to keep going and face whatever challenges come my way with grace.

20/11/2023

The recently concluded Miss Universe 2023 has left me amazed and shookt! 🤯 It's disheartening to see that despite Ms. Philippines' hard work and outstanding performance throughout the pageant, she wasn't included in the top finalists. Rumors of manipulation and hokus-pokus in the background are circulating, especially after the wrong top 5 list was initially posted, including Ms. Philippines instead of Ms. Thailand. The subsequent correction left the whole Philippines in anger and heartbreak. 😢

Pageants can be prone to controversies and rumors, so it's crucial to approach these situations with a critical and discerning mindset. I hope that our concerns about the fairness of the judging process or the accuracy of the results will be addressed transparently.

However, amidst the chaos, let's also acknowledge the rightful winner, Ms. Nicaragua! 🇳🇮👑 She truly deserves the crown, standing out with her amazing final Q and A portion. When asked whose shoes she would like to spend a year in, she confidently chose Mary Wollstonecraft, making history with her response.

For those wondering, Mary Wollstonecraft was a trailblazing figure who opened doors for countless women. Ms. Nicaragua expressed a desire to see the income gap between men and women vanish, allowing women to work in any area they choose without limitations.

Let's continue to celebrate the achievements of all the contestants and hope for more transparency in future pageants! 🌟💖

17/11/2023

You know what makes our marriage awesome?! 💖 It's all about sharing everything—the tough stuff, the cozy moments, the sacrifices—but doing it with loads of love. 💕

Growing our family is a wild ride, and guess what? We need to grow too—financially and personally. Adulting together is where the real magic happens! 🌈💰

Now, let's chat self-care! 🌺 Taking some 'me time' is like a secret weapon. Moms, you get me! Whether it's a little shopping therapy, a spa day, or a spontaneous girls' night out—these moments are like superhero power-ups. 🛍️💆‍♀️👯‍♀️

Because, let's face it, when we take care of ourselves, we can handle whatever life throws at us. And remember, a happy and fulfilled you contributes to a happy and fulfilling partnership! Here's to love, growing together, thriving individually, and occasional pampering! 🚀💖 💑"

16/11/2023

15/11/2023

Have you ever felt that twinge of being unwanted or maybe the fear of not being liked by anyone? It's a common sentiment that many of us have experienced at some point in our lives.

And here's the thing – it's completely okay to feel that way. But what's even more okay is when you learn to embrace your true self without worrying about who wants to be in your company or not.

There's a certain beauty in enjoying your own company, isn't there? ✨ Going to movies alone, shopping solo, and being absolutely content with it. Finding peace in solitude, cherishing those serene moments where your mind can breathe, and simply relishing the view without needing someone else's validation.

The truth is, your uniqueness is your superpower. It's what sets you apart, makes you extraordinary, and allows you to savor life in your own distinctive way. So, don't be afraid to be yourself, love your own company, and let your inner light shine. The world is a better place with all its beautiful and unique colors, and you are one of them. 💖

12/11/2023

I've been doing some deep soul-searching lately, and I often find myself envious of those people who seem to have it all together, constantly working on themselves and never losing hope in their journey of self-improvement. But here's the thing - we're all on our unique paths, and it's okay not to compare our journey with others. 🚀

I've been contemplating what's been holding me back, and I'm realizing that self-development is an ongoing process. I've decided to embrace my imperfections, acknowledge my weaknesses, and set clear goals for improvement. 🎯

I'm learning to seek support from those who care about me, and I'm open to professional guidance when needed. 🤝

I'm creating a plan with manageable steps to work towards my goals. I understand that progress may not always be smooth, but I'm determined to keep moving forward. 🚶‍♂️

Every setback is just another opportunity for growth. I'm not letting failures define me; instead, I see them as lessons and stepping stones to success. 🌈

I'm practicing self-compassion and reminding myself that it's okay to have flaws and make mistakes. After all, we're only human. 💕

I'm staying motivated by surrounding myself with positivity, reading inspiring books, and drawing inspiration from people who have overcome challenges. 📚

I want to encourage everyone to embark on their own self-development journey, embrace their unique path, and remember that it's never too late to work on becoming the best version of yourself. Let's support each other in this beautiful journey of growth and self-discovery. 🌱

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10/11/2023

🎉✨ Party Peeps, a little reminder! 🎉✨

Now that the holidays are approaching, it's an especially important time to remember this message! 🌟🎄

While throwing lavish parties can be incredibly fun and exciting, it's important to remember that there's no need to break the bank for a single celebration. 🙅‍♀️💰

Me, personally, I've never attempted to give my kid a very huge party if I knew it would soon become a financial problem, even if I could have loaned the money. I believe that as long as I can see my child happy with keeping it simple, it's heartwarming. What's important is her values and her life. ❤️👧

Sure, you can take out a loan to make that party a reality, but is it really worth it if you're stuck dealing with financial stress later? 🤔📉 Let's be wise with our finances and celebrate within our means. The best gatherings are those filled with love and laughter, not debt and worry. 🥳

So, now that the holidays are approaching, let's party responsibly, and enjoy the moments that truly matter without the financial burden. Your future self and your kids will thank you for it! 🙌💸

09/11/2023

🤔 Lately, I've been on this challenging journey to lose weight. Discipline is crucial, but it's not always easy to choose health over happiness. 🍕🍰🍟

Weekends, with family movie nights, come with irresistible temptations like pizza, nachos, cakes, and more. My journey with the Keto diet and intermittent fasting has been tough, to say the least. 🏋️‍♂️💪

But here's the inspiring part: I'm staying motivated and focusing on a brighter, healthier future. 🌟 I hope to not only make a change within myself but also in the world. 🌍💕

Remember, it's all about finding a balance between enjoying food and maintaining a healthy weight. Discipline matters, but so does flexibility and a sustainable approach to your diet. Strive for a balance that makes you both happy and healthy in the long run. 🤗

You're doing great, self! Keep pushing, enjoy the journey, and never stop believing in yourself. 💪💚

05/11/2023

It's that time of the month again - Payday! 💸

And it got me thinking about the financial struggles many of us face at times. It's no secret that managing our finances can be tough, especially with all the temptations out there. But you know what they say – there's a brighter side behind every financial pain. 💪

It's all too easy to get caught up in the allure of things we love, the places we dream of visiting, and those epic parties we just can't resist. And guess what? You absolutely deserve those luxuries! 🌟 But financial challenges also give us some valuable lessons.

Financial struggles teach us responsibility and the importance of thinking about the future. 💭 They remind us that it's crucial to budget wisely, save, and invest in our long-term goals. 🌟

But here's the secret sauce: moderation is key. Finding a balance and indulging in moderation can be the key to making our financial journey smoother. 🌟

So, let's celebrate payday, treat ourselves a little, but also remember the bigger picture. With some smart financial choices, we can make life a whole lot easier and chase after those dreams with confidence. 🌈

Here's to financial growth, better days ahead, and making our hard-earned money work for us! 💰💼💫