21/08/2026
"DILI ENOUGH ANG SORRY."
Once you said your sorry, mag-forgive nami. Pero that doesn't mean OKAY nami.
Can you men notice na after saying sorry, dili japun okay ang mood sa inyong partner? She's still silent or so down, or ga-grumpy ang face.
Sauna, dili pajud kabalo si Tatay sa ani nga batasan nako. Ambot, ako raba ang ingani? Haha.
Sauna, mag-away jud mi kung dili ko ma-okay. He would always ask me,
"Nagsorry naman ko, nganu dili pa japun ka okay?" but in a respectful manner japun ni.
Ako rajud pirmi tubag kay,
"Yes, napasaylo na tika, pero akong gibati kay lain paman. Naguol pako. Dili man na diritso gud ba."
Syempre, men does not know that. Dili sila kasabot ana. So, I always talk this to him. Nilabi na nang okay kaayo mi. I wanted him to understand me more thru deep conversation.
I told him before, "Just don't stop. Continue lang pagsuyo sa ako. Or try na magmake jokes after. Pero usahay malagot man ko ana. Hahaha! Basta, find ways, BDO!"
So, these are some of his ways he learned thru time...
1. The Clown Way - magmake face na siya after how many attempts of saying sorry haha. Super effective but not kung dug-on ko. 6/10.
2. The Baby Talk Way- "sorry na pleaaaaaaath" with all the paawa face. Super effective japun! But not kung dug-on ko. 7/10
3. The Tickle Way - I don't like this!!! Pero effective kay machange jud akong mood. π€£ Pero dili ni effective kung LDR me ππ Sooo 10/10 if uban, and -100/10 kung LDR.
4. The Oppa Way - this, chocolate. Pero gina-use rani if mag-ask ko ug space. Kana bitawng dili sami magtalk after he said his sorry. Meaning, naabot ug next day akong kaguolπ€£ Unya kay duty naman, so makalimtan na nako.
Pagkita na dayon, here comes the chocolateeeey. Awwwee! Sauna, he tend to forget he upsets me. Pero now, magsorry japun siya & would give me something. Cutieee β‘
So, yes, guys, wag po kayo magtaas ng boses or magalit kung di pa okay or nagsusungit pa mga partners niyo.
If my man learned it the hard way for me & for the betterment sa amoang relasyon, how much more kamo?
Ana pa siya sauna, "Ako lagi kay dali rako maulian kung magsorry ka nako. Ikaw dili"
Ana ko, "Because you're not a woman. Don't compare me to you."
Praktikal! Yun lang muna ang cheka now.
Tenchu so much. Annyeong! Mwa π