28/03/2024
Not only the angry wife but it also angry husband or your parents, siblings or close friend.
If someone point out your wrong doing, wag masamain. Dapat you have to ask yourself first, bakit niya kaya nasabi yun?
This time you reflect if may mali ka ba nagawa. If meron, you have to apologize and correct it. if wala, you have to defend yourself and explain in calm manner.
Di sagot ang sigawan at taasan ng boses. Walang pupuntahan ang usapan pag ganyan.
If someone correct you, they loved you. Ayaw ka nilang mapasama. Sometimes they just over protective lalo na ang parents. Pero if alam mo na tama ka, explain to them your side ng mahinahon.
It's true that once someone will become tired of you kasi di ka na nakikinig. Magigising ka nalang wala na sila pakialam sayo. Ni-hi ni-ho, wala na.
Its the end? No, you have to show off yung willingness na you want to be better person.
Saying "Sorry" its not bad thing.
Its a sign that you are a responsible person knowing your mistake and learn from it.
Remember when we are little, parents used to scold us kasi di tayo nakikinig. They scold us because they loved us.
Its the same thing when we are adult, the difference is napapangunan tayo ng pride.
Please reflect first before say anything and do anything.
Because your action and words have big impact to a person.
Why I'm sharing this? It comes from experience. As married couple, there is a times na magkakamisundestanding kayo. Magkakasagutan, magtataasan ng boses. When the things heat up, pareho ng mainit ulo niyo. This time we decided na palamig muna ng ulo. After that we will talk about it again pag pareho na kami okay at maayos. We're not perfect couple, but I thank god that everyday we choose to understand each other and learn from each other.
Maundry Thursday.
Reflection Day.