Lazy Mom

13/07/2025

Filipino Psychology Concept: 𝘿𝙀𝙇𝙄𝘾𝘼𝘿𝙀𝙕𝘼

Delicadeza isn’t just about good manners.
It’s about knowing when to speak up, when to step back, and when to say no, even when no one is watching.

In Filipino culture, delicadeza is a quiet form of strength. It is an 𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙨 that tells us, “Hindi ito tama, hindi ito makatao.”
It means refusing privilege when it comes at the expense of others. It means choosing decency over convenience.

In Filipino psychology, delicadeza reminds us that 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙫𝙖𝙡𝙪𝙚𝙨.
It marks the invisible line between integrity and entitlement.

It is grace guided by conscience.

Today, in a world that celebrates boldness and hustle, 𝙙𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙯𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙨 𝙖 𝙨𝙞𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙞𝙜𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮.

Ccto

11/07/2025

🦀🦀🦀

11/07/2025

Minsan, hindi mo nakikita, pero may mga mag-asawang silently nagkakaroon ng utang, hindi dahil careless sila…
Kundi dahil sila yung tahimik na nagdadala ng bigat ng isa’t isa.

Hindi lahat ng utang galing sa mga luho.
Minsan, galing ito sa sakripisyo — para sa mga gastusin sa bahay, gamot, at mga pangangailangan,
… habang pareho silang nahihirapan na mag-survive.

“Mag-ipon kayo!” Madali lang sabihin, pero mas mahirap ‘pag yung sahod nila, hindi lang para sa sarili nila, kundi para sa lahat ng pangangailangan ng pamilya.
At hindi ‘yan madalas napag-uusapan.
Puro mga nagbigay ang pinupuri, pero sino ang nagtatanong kung kumusta na sila?

Pero yan ang nakakabilib sa kanila, kahit nahihirapan, nairaraos nila. Kaya nila at kinaya nila lahat para sa pamilya.
Kaya para sa mga mag-asawang ginagawa ang lahat para sa pamilya — be proud of yourself. Kasi hindi madaling magtaguyod ng pamilya, at ang bawat sakripisyo mo ay may halaga. You’re doing great, kahit walang nakakaalam ng hirap na dinadanas mo. ❤️
ccto:

28/06/2025

27/06/2025

It is common to discuss the obligations children have towards their parents. However, it is not often that we witness a parent so openly and sincerely expressing, "I should have done better." This serves as a potent reminder that healing often starts with honesty rather than pride.

For every child silently enduring pain, and for every parent striving to say "I'm sorry," this was a moment filled with hope. Reconciliation does not always manifest in a boisterous manner. Sometimes, it is as subtle and significant as a parent acknowledging, "I fell short... and I now recognize it."

26/06/2025

Every choice matters.

26/06/2025

Visibility starts with voice! If you want to say something, say it! 🗣️ Some bosses admire those who can stand their ground and speak up more than those who stay silent and just endure. 💯

26/06/2025

If one is waiting for the perfect moment, it is likely that they have already missed their opportunity. ⏰💭👎💔😢

26/06/2025

Life won’t always announce its lessons with clarity. Sometimes it teaches through the rain, through the pause, through the parts that feel like falling apart. You’re allowed to begin again, not just once, but as many times as it takes to find your footing. Don’t quiet your spirit to make others comfortable; your presence was never meant to be watered down. The things meant for you may not come with fireworks.. they may arrive slowly, disguised as waiting. So speak gently to yourself as you walk through it all.. because sometimes, becoming whole starts with being soft to your broken parts. ✨🤍

24/06/2025

I'm not trying to make my kids the smartest, fastest, most popular, or loudest.

I'm raising them to be the ones who befriend the lonely kid.
The ones who speak up when something's not right.
The ones who are kind even when nobody's looking.

It's okay to be quiet, shy, or not know everything.

But being mean?
Nah, that's not okay.

I don't care how good they are at stuff...
If they're not kind, it doesn't matter.

Let's stop judging our kids by their grades and start looking at how they treat people.
Because being a good person is more important than anything.
And being a good human is what I'll be most proud of.
CTO❤️❤️❤️

23/06/2025

Every child teaches you something different.

That first little one often follows the rules, listens well, and makes you feel like you’ve got this whole parenting thing on lock. But then comes the second — wild, bold, untamed — and suddenly, all your “I’d never…”s turn into “Okay, I get it now.”

That’s when the judgment fades and the compassion deepens.

Because it’s not about raising perfect kids — it’s about growing into a parent who leads with patience, flexibility, and grace for yourself and others.