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Awwe
16/09/2023

Awwe

16/09/2023

Pls lang Lord Hahahahaha

11/08/2023

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True
03/02/2021

True

Anu? inggit kayo? Ahahah
29/09/2020

Anu? inggit kayo? Ahahah

05/09/2020

Huwag mong itorture ang sarili mo. Hindi magandang habit ang manlimos ng lambing at pagmamahal.

29/08/2020

Fellas.

The perfect woman doesn’t exist.

They all have their level of crazy.

Just like we do.

But 10 years after divorce and dating a few women, I’ve figured a few things out about this relationship deal.

Here’s one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned.

CHOOSING.

We must CHOOSE.

I played small for a long time.
I had trust issues so I didn’t trust.
I had fear so I kept my distance.
I had resentment that I projected.

In the back of my mind I had the idea that one day the perfect woman would just kick down the door and save me. That This bad ass chick would trump all the others and it would just be rainbows and kittens 24/7.

All the while over the years I used the story of HER insecurities, or HER crazy, or HER issues as my excuse to why I couldn’t make a relationship work.

When in reality I simply hadn’t CHOSEN.

Most of all I hadn’t chosen ME.

To work on me and do some dark, scary, humbling work on ME. To see what I didn’t want to see and change what I was too damn stubborn to change.

Fellas you and I could bounce from woman to woman easily. That’s simple, it takes zero effort. We can say she’s got this problem or that problem, and we are probably right. We can move on over and over and at the end of it all that a pretty hollow existence.

Keeping her at a distance.

But the truth is there is only one way we are going to BUILD (not find) love.

And that’s if we CHOOSE.

CHOOSE HER.

Choose her and choose to do whatever work necessary to BUILD with her.

CHOOSE to own your s**t

CHOOSE to close other doors.

CHOOSE to get off the fence.

CHOOSE to dive into the deep and dark s**t.

CHOOSE you man.

More than anything, CHOOSE YOU.

CHOOSE to honor yourself by not playing small.

Look, if you want to be Hugh Hefner and have 47 girlfriends so be it. No judgement at all.

However.

If you truly want to build an empire with a queen, YOU MUST CHOOSE TO BE A KING.

When I quit LOOKING for a Queen and I CHOSE to go all in on me, the little girls disappeared and she showed up.

Yea she tests me. A good woman will.

Yea I still have fears. I suspect I always will.

But from one dude to another I can attest to you that the biggest thing I’ve changed to bring this Queen into my life is ME.

I CHOSE ME.

I CHOSE to quit lying and blaming.

And once I made that choice and did that work, the game changed.

Fellas, CHOOSE YOU.

Surround yourself with other men building REAL relationships. With men who will hold themselves and you to a higher standard.

Much love y’all.

😁😁
27/08/2020

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Let's encourage all women to value their worth..IT IS OKAY TO SET STANDARDS.HIGH STANDARDS IF YOU MUST.YOU DESERVE IT!!!...
11/08/2020

Let's encourage all women to value their worth..

IT IS OKAY TO SET STANDARDS.
HIGH STANDARDS IF YOU MUST.
YOU DESERVE IT!!!

Hindi kaartehan yon..
Pwede tayong maging lowkey with standards.
Nice with standards.

Huwag tayong willing magpakajologs tas kapag nagasawa na saka ngangakngak na hindi ma-spoil ng asawa..
Iiyak kasi di makapagparebond..
Eh hindi nga afford ng asawa mo..
Magrereklamo kasi hindi makapag getaway kagaya ng nakikita mong pamilya sa social media..
Eh wala nga kayong budget..

Minsan kaya napipilitan ang mga babae na magsumikap sa halip na pwede silang magfocus sa pagiging homemaker dahil may mga lalaking kulang sa diskarte at hindi driven enough para magsumikap sa buhay.

As young women, ang focus lang natin noon ay kilig and romance..
Pero kapag dumating na sa puntong kailangan na itakbo ng anak mo sa doctor pero di nyo magawa kasi wala kayong emergency savings,
Kapag inabutan ka ng pandemic at di mo na alam kung san kukuha ng ipambabayad sa renta,
Kapag naputulan na kayo ng kuryente dahil ilang buwan na kayo di nakabayad,
--Tatabangan ka sa asawa mo kapag nakita mo na kulang siya sa pagkilos..

Huwag na natin hayaan umabot sa ganon..

madami talaga tayong pinagkaiba iba..
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG IN BEING SPECIFIC ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU DESPISE...

Madami akong nakita na sinabihan ng materialistic now they are living a happy ang luxurious life..and they deserve it..every woman does..every child does..

Some people are just contented and happy with less..

While others are enduring a miserable life because they chose to settle with less..

Although meron din mga tao na late bloomer..
As long as may will to be better may hope talaga..
Nakita naman natin si Jinkee and Pacman..
From bottom to top talaga ang success nila sa buhay..
Mula simula hanggang sa kung asan sila ngayon ay naniwala si wife kay husband..

And setting high standards also applies to non material things..
You can also set standards para sa characters and behavior ng mga taong pipiliin mo makasama sa buhay..

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