12/12/2023
Kung ganyan ang motto ng asawa mo, na ang asawa ay napapalitan... Unahan mo na syang palitan 🤣🤣🤣
“ANG ASAWA NAPAPALITAN…”
RESPETO ITO AT PAG-GALANG???
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RM: Seryoso???
Parents that say this line
deserve more respect?
Hindi ba kabastusan ito sa asawa(spouse)
ng bagong binuong pamilya ng anak nyo?
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In spiritual terms,
hindi ba ito NEGATIVE PROPHESY?
(ASAWA, NAPAPALITAN…)
Kaya tuloy, lalong dumarami ang single-moms
complaining sa mga Mama’s Boy husbands nila,
at sinabing “BINALIK KO NA SYA SA NANAY NYA…)
dahil umpisa palang,
MALI NA ANG MINDSET.
BALIKTAD,
Dapat ang SINASABI NG MAGULANG,
“WAG NYO KAMING INTINDIHIN,
IMPORTANTE MAGING STRONG KAYONG MAG-ASAWA.”
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Umpisa palang yung young couple,
mina-mindset na ng magulang na
LESSER PRIORITY yung asawa?
Again,
the “HUSBAND-WIFE”
is the PERMANENT at PRIMARY relationship,
while,
the “PARENT- CHILD” is the TEMPORARY relationship.
(meaning balang araw,
i-let go mo yung bata
para siya makabuo ng PRIMARY at PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP nya sa napangasawa)
LAGING STRESSFUL KAPAG
BINABALIKTAD ITO—-
“Parent to Child” ang ginagawang PRIORITY,
imbes na yung bagong “Husband & Wife”.
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Hindi ba ito OVER-CONTROLLING
ng mga PARENTS
TO ALWAYS WANT TO BE FIRST
AND TOP PRIORITY,
when God’s command clearly says
SPOUSE/ASAWA na ang TOP PRIORITY?
Kaya nga may verses sa wedding ceremony na:
“For a Man WILL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER, and they(NEW HUSBAND & WIFE)
will BECOME ONE flesh.”
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NO SPOUSE IN HIS OR HER RIGHT MIND
WOULD FEEL MORE RESPECTED
if sabihan mo sya ng
“ASAWA KA LANG, NAPAPALITAN KA OY…”
This line is only SELF-SERVING
TO PARENTS
WHO CANNOT LET GO OF THEIR CHILDREN,
at dapat sila forever ang Number #1.
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And you want
your new son-in-law/daughter-in-law
TO RESPECT U MORE
WHEN U SAY THIS LINE TO THEM?
Kahit kayo as parents,
HINDI NYO KAKAYANIN
NA SABIHIN SA INYO YAN
ng magulang ng asawa nyo.
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HINDI po yan KAGALANG-GALANG
at KARESPE-RESPETONG SABIHIN
sa asawa ng anak nyo ever.
Kaya ang RESPONSABLENG PARENT
na lalong ginagalang at nirerespeto,
yung nagtuturo sa anak:
“ASAWA MO NA ANG TOP PRIORITY MO,
HINDI NA KAME,
NANDITO LANG KAME PARA I-SUPPORT KAYO.”
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