04/08/2025
"He deserves all the pain and suffering he's experiencing now. It's ironic how his sister says he was hurt, but as a mother, she should know that losing a child is more than just losing a son—it’s losing a part of yourself. That pain is far deeper than being left by a man.
Guy was a coward. If they were truly partners, he should’ve faced everything with her, not run away. Let’s not romanticize his weakness or his "mental struggle." No matter what version of the story he tells, it won’t bring back what the woman lost.
Honestly, he doesn’t even deserve a word from her. The fact that she can now talk about this shows she’s healed—she doesn’t need his apology. That chapter is closed. Let her be happy. She deserves a love that’s whole, consistent, and unconditional.
Additionally:
One thing I’ve noticed in the comments is that when some women read the man’s side of the story, they immediately ask for forgiveness on his behalf—or worse, suggest he deserves another chance. But one important lesson I’ve taken from this story, whether it’s true or not, is that we, as women, need to learn how to respect ourselves more.
Too often, we give forgiveness too easily to men who clearly don’t deserve it—men who hurt us, manipulate us, or in this case, even go as far as asking someone to harm their own child. How can you trust a man who would ask you to do something so inhumane to his own flesh and blood?
Ladies, we need to remember that when we choose to give our bodies to someone, it’s not just about physical intimacy. We give them a piece of our soul, our trust, and often, a part of our future. It’s not just about losing virginity or purity—it’s about giving someone the power to either uplift us or destroy us.
If the situation were reversed and the woman was the one at fault, would we be so quick to defend her? Most likely not. The moment he asked her to harm that child, he closed the door to any chance of reconciliation. That decision was final.
Before you think about giving another chance to a man who clearly doesn't value you, please—give yourself multiple chances first. Chances to heal, to love yourself, to grow, and to protect your worth." - one of the commentors
Ito lang ang comment na mas may point ang nabasa ko. Kaya ko napiling i-share ito dahil naalala ko rin lang na ito ang mas malapit sa History ng AmanSon Loveteam noon. Since dati ay Immature at Toxic si Barbie Ramirez nooj lay ay paulit ulit lang naman siyang nauunang magsorry ngunit rin niyang nasasaktan ang Representative natin.
Hindi ko alam kung matatawag bang KARMA ang pagpili ni Barbie kay Jaustine Vernal na kabaligtaran ng Character ni Ric? Or siya naman talaga mismo ang may choice niyan? Hindi ba't naranasan rin naman ni Barbie ang miscarriage sa panganay sana nilang babae na pinangalanan niyang "Jerliza Ashley"? At kasalanan pa rin ni Jaustine dahil maselan pala ang unang pagbubuntis niya ngunit hindi nakatiis dahil sa kamanyakan ay nakunan tuloy siya.
Dito palang sana ay pinalayas at hiniwalayan na dapat ni Barbie noon si Jaustine. Nakikita na nga ang Red flag na hindi talaga siya kayang alagaan at ingatan ni Jaustine pero binigyan pa rin niya ng chance ang pagsasama nila. Hindi sana niya naranasan ang ma-rape nang bagong panganak kay noon tapos humantong pa sa demanda at isa sa dahilan rin sa pagkakakulong niya ng 1 year.
Kaya naman, may part sa latest update ng ang medyo ikinaiinis ng mga Readers na nasa Fansclub pa rin ng . Bago namatay ang Hide Cast ni Jaustine doon ay may linya pang binanggit na inalagaan at iningatan raw ni TJ si Janna Buyan (Hide Cast ni Barbie) doon. Wala naman tayong magagawa dahil si Barbie Ramirez ay si Rose Anghel din bilang Writer or Author.
Marahil isinulat lang niya iyon upang mas maraming magbasa or manuod (kung magiging Series nga iyan sa Netflix). Minsan may mga diskarte ang Writer na bukod sa Moral Lesson ay naglalagay rin sila ng Reverse Psychology sa mga eksena ng pagsusulat nila. Which is yung mga mas nakakakilala sa mga Hide Cast ay alam nilang kabaligtaran iyon sa totoong buhay. By the way, happy monthsary nga pala sa "Bridge of Messages" ngayon ng AmanSon Loveteam.
- MC
KINASAL SI BF SA ARAW NA DAPAT AY ANNIVERSARY NAMIN (PART 2: BF’S POV)
Hi Aiah, my sister saw your story on a page, so she asked me to read it. I hope you can read my side, too. I know we should talk about this privately, but I can't find you again sa kahit anong social media, even your family. So here we are, exchanging stories in public.
I've been looking for you for many years. It's been less than 12 years since I last saw and talked to you in person. I have a lot of things that I wanted to say. But first of all, I want to apologize again to you. I really do. Kahit paulit-ulit gagawin ko, at kahit habang buhay pa ang paghingi ko ng sorry sa ‘yo, gagawin ko.
I know marami kang hindi magandang pinagdaanan pagkatapos kitang iwan. I know walang kuw3nta akong tao dahil sa ginawa ko sa ‘yo. Habang buhay kong pinagsisisihan na iniwan kita, kayo ni baby sa panahon na kailangan mo ako. I know I asked you na wag itul0y, sobrang mali ako sa part na yun, maling-mali ako. Pero kampante ako, and I know na hindi mo talaga gagawin yun because I know you, and that's what we wanted. To have a family of our own.
Alam ko sobra ang g*lit mo sa ‘kin, at nagtataka ka bakit ko nasabi yun. I'm very sorry, Aiah. I'm sorry. I didn't have the chance to explain everything to you. I don't know how because Nica is always with me. Ayaw niya akong humiwalay. Sorry kung sobrang naduwag ako nung panahon na yun. Nat*k0t ako para kay mama at para sa ‘yo. Pilit nakipagbalikan si Nica sa ‘kin nung araw na yun, even if I don't want to. But that's the only choice I have that time. Para kay mama, alam mo naman na yung business na lang ang naiwan ni papa sa amin, di ba?
Hindi ko nasabi sa ‘yo na mom ni Nica ang nag-save sa business na yun para di mawala kay mama. Para sa ‘yo, ayaw kong mas*ktan ka ni Nica. Kaya I chose her. I agreed to marry her pambayad sa mga utang at utang na loob ni mama sa kanila. Tulad ng agreement nila. I have no choice. I don't have enough money to pay mama's debts, nag-aaral si Anjel & Ron. We were young at that time. All I have is my savings na enough for the two of us lang. Enough to start a family. But not enough to pay them.
Nung sinabi mo sa ‘kin that you're pregnant, I really wanted to be with you that time. Pero nalaman ni Nica kaya gusto kang puntahan. I know that Nica can /h/*/r/t/ you and will do anything just to get what she wants. Pinigilan ko siya kaya sinunod ko na lang yung mga sinabi niya. I know nas*kt*n ka sa mga sinabi ko. Nat*k0t lang ako nung time na yun para sa ‘yo. Sobrang naduwag ako. Hindi na ako makapag-isip nang tama. I'm really sorry, Aiah.
Hindi mo na siguro binasa yung letter ko sa ‘yo na pinaabot ko kay Anjel after ng birthday mo. But I understand kung hindi mo binasa. Alam ko g*lit ka sa akin. I stated in the letter that time na ikakasal ako kay Nica, and I am really sorry for that kung yun ang nagawa ko. Alam kong hindi tama.
Kinasal kami because of their agreement. Not because I still love her. Yes, ginawa ko sa kasal namin yung gusto mo sana kapag kinasal tayo dahil ikaw lang palagi ang naiisip ko, Aiah. Sorry kung sa iba ko nagawa at hindi sa ‘yo. I'm sorry, Aiah. Sorry kung nas*ktan kita. Sobrang g*g* ko lang, Aiah. Mahal na mahal kita, pero sobrang nas*ktan kita, Aiah.
It's too late when I found out everything what happened to Nica, bakit siya nagpunta sa HK after I broke up with her. No one told me or my family. We were married before I knew the secrets she was hiding. 1 year after our wedding, I just found out that she had a child. You know that che@ting is the reason of our breakup. She got pregnant pala kaya siya nagpunta sa HK. Nasa HK yung bata kasama nung father.
Nakikipaghiwalay na ako sa kaniya that time, but she thr****n*d me that she would find you to h**t you. And reminded me that our marriage is for the sake of mama's business. Kaya di ko maituloy pakikipaghiwalay ko. Pero ako na mismo nagpa-bl0tt3r sa kaniya para wag ka niyang malapitan.
Hinanap kita, Aiah, nagpunta ako sa hotel kung saan ka nag-work, pero wala ka dun. Nagtanong ako sa mga ka-work mo, sabi nila nag-resign ka na, yung iba sabi nasa office ka lang naka-assign, naka-leave ka, at meron pa ang sabi nagpunta ka na sa US sa daddy mo. Hindi ko alam sino papaniwalaan sa kanila. Siguro nga ayaw mo na talaga ako makita dahil sa mga kasalanan ko sa ‘yo. Naiintindihan ko lahat ng reason mo.
Year 2019 when the last time na naka-chat kita. I am ready to take on the responsibilities that I should have taken on long ago. But it's too late nung sinabi mo sa akin na kasal ka na. Pero nakipaghiwalay pa rin ako kay Nica dahil wala naman akong responsibilities sa kaniya. Hindi kami nagsama sa isang room. I did what we promised na we are each other's first & last. Pinakasalan ko lang siya dahil sa kasunduan ng parents namin. 5 years of sacrificing myself for my mama's debts is enough. Binayaran ko na lahat ng utang ni mama.
Same year bumalik ako sa hotel kung saan ka nag-work. Birthday ko actually, nag-check-in ako dun baka sakali na makita pa rin kita. Pero ang nakita ko si Kaye, yung lagi mong kasama nung college & sa hotel. Aiah, that was the time na nalaman ko na hindi nab*hay ang baby natin. Nalaman ko rin na nasa Europe ka na since 2016 pa. Kaye told me everything. Since then, wala na rin silang balita sa ‘yo. And since then, I never celebrated my birthday again. It hvrts me nung nalaman ko na birthday ko pa yung w*rst date for you. I know walang kapatawaran ang g*nawa ko sa ‘yo. Pero habang buhay ako na hihingi ng tawad sa ‘yo.
Hanggang ngayon hinahanap pa rin kita, Aiah. Gusto kita makita at mag-sorry sa ‘yo personally. I pursued my dream, our dream. I worked on a ship para sa ‘yo. Baka sakali na makita kita isang araw. Kahit isang beses lang, Aiah. Again, I am sorry Aiah sa lahat ng mga sakit na pinaramdam at ginawa ko sa ‘yo. I'm really sorry, Aiah.
PS. Nica (my ex-wife) passed away 4 years ago, August 2021. C*rd*ac arrest. She was diagnosed with colon c*nc*r nung 2019 din, a month after ko makipaghiwalay sa kaniya.
**Follow up message of Aron’s Sister: “Matagal na rin namin alam na di nab*hay baby nila. Kaya never na nag-celebrate si kuya ng birthday niya. Di ko pa nakikita na naging masaya ulit si kuya. Puro lang siya work, hindi na rin humanap ng iba. Pag umuuwi siya rito sa Pinas, sa bahay niya kami, wala siyang ibang ginagawa kundi ipagluto lang kami ni mama tsaka anak ko. Tapos mag-aayos lang sa bahay niya. Yung bahay na binili niya noon para sa kanila sana ni Ate Ayah. Kung saan malapit sa province nila Ate Ayah.
Nagbabasa ako ng mga comments. Sobrang h**sh talaga ng mga comments ng netizens. Alam ko naging mas*m* si kuya nung sinabi niya kay ate ayah na i/p*/l*g/l*g na lang niya b*by nila. K*rm* is already serving kuya. Always grieving. Never na naging happy. Minsan nga gusto na lang daw niya t***l*n na sa b*rk*. Lagi siya nagsis*si sa mga nag*wa niya kay Ate Ayah. 12 years na pero si kuya hindi na naka-move on. G*lit pa rin siya sa sarili niya hanggang ngayon. Wala siyang ibang sinis*si kundi sarili lang niya.”
(NOTE: Nasa comment section ang PART 1.)
Aron
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