13/10/2025
Respect Isn’t Always About Action. It’s Also in How You Speak.
I just want to share a real story. Something that probably happens in many families. This one is from my own experience and personal reflection.
There are times when I’m around certain people and I suddenly feel my energy drop. I start counting the hours, waiting for the moment I can finally go home and breathe. That’s when I know I’m not comfortable anymore, not because I dislike anyone, but because I’m simply drained.
As I grow older, I’m learning that not everyone we love is easy to be around all the time. Sometimes, even with good intentions, there are people whose presence can exhaust you emotionally. And that’s okay. It doesn’t make them bad people. It just means your energy no longer aligns.
One thing that really stayed with me, though, is how powerful words can be. Sometimes people say things casually, but the choice of words can unintentionally make others feel small or unwelcome. It’s a simple reminder for me to always be mindful. Because words can either lift someone up or quietly break their spirit.
I’m not sharing this to judge anyone. It’s just something that made me pause and reflect that respect is not only shown through actions, but also through how we speak and treat others.
At the end of the day, peace comes from protecting your energy and choosing to respond with grace, even when it’s easier to be offended.
