02/10/2025
Stop helping people who don’t even help themselves.
Even if it’s family, siblings, or friends if you see they’re not making any effort to change or improve, your constant help won’t make a difference. Sometimes you need to hold back, even if it hurts, so they can learn to stand on their own feet.
Don’t feel guilty it doesn’t mean you’re selfish. It means you’re letting them grow stronger, more independent, and ready to face life without always relying on someone else.
One day, you’ll see them standing tall, building a better life with their own effort.
Because the truth is if we keep rescuing them every time, they’ll never learn how to survive when no one’s around.
✨ The best kind of help is teaching someone to help themselves.
📷CTTO
