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As we grow older, we start to see clearly what we once overlooked.The sacrifices made quietly.The nights they stayed up ...
20/07/2025

As we grow older, we start to see clearly what we once overlooked.
The sacrifices made quietly.
The nights they stayed up worrying.
The dreams they shelved for ours.
The times they said “I’m okay” when they really weren’t just to keep us strong.

We realize that love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s in the way they worked through exhaustion. The way they protected us from burdens we didn’t even know existed. They gave us everything even when we gave back so little.

We may never be able to repay them fully and that’s okay. They didn’t love us expecting something in return. But we can choose to stop taking their presence and efforts for granted.

Gratitude isn’t always about grand gestures. It’s in the check-ins, the small acts, the respect, the time. It’s in choosing to see them not just as parents but as people who lived, struggled and gave deeply.

Say thank you not just in words but in how you show up.
Appreciate them while they’re still here.
Be present. Listen to their stories. Make time, not just memories.

Because one day, all those moments you didn’t think were “big enough” will become the ones you’ll wish you could relive.

Honor them now.
Love them loudly.
And never wait for "someday" to say the things that matter.

-Shii Marasigan

In friendship, we naturally want to protect and support those we care about. In trying to “be there” for a friend, we be...
20/07/2025

In friendship, we naturally want to protect and support those we care about. In trying to “be there” for a friend, we become an enabler justifying toxic behavior, tolerating disrespect or encouraging choices that hurt them (or others).

You realize you’ve been the one always understanding.
Always forgiving.
Always holding their mess while they refuse to clean it up.
You’ve been afraid to call them out, afraid they’ll turn cold or walk away.
So you say nothing.
But deep down, you’re exhausted and they’re unchanged.

Friendship isn’t built on silence. It’s built on honesty, growth and mutual respect.
If your loyalty keeps someone stuck.
If your silence becomes permission that’s not love.
That’s enabling.

And real friends?
They hold each other accountable.
They call each other out not to shame but to help.
They speak the truth even if it shakes things.

If you feel like you're enabling a friend, take a step back and ask:
Am I helping them grow?
Or am I just making it easier for them to stay the same?

Set boundaries. Speak up.
Stop sacrificing your peace for someone who refuses to change.
You’re allowed to expect better.
And you’re allowed to walk away if they continue to misuse your loyalty.

You’re not a bad friend for drawing a line.
You’re just finally being a better friend — to yourself.

-Shii Marasigan

People make choices whether out of fear, pride, love, impulse or pressure. Whatever the reason every choice comes with c...
20/07/2025

People make choices whether out of fear, pride, love, impulse or pressure. Whatever the reason every choice comes with consequences. When things fall apart they want to shift the blame forgetting they held the pen that wrote the story.

You can't carry the guilt for what someone else freely chose.
You can't take the fall for the outcome they helped shape.

You can’t blame people for what they chose.
But they also can’t blame you when those choices bring pain, distance or loss.
We all live with what we decide and that’s where growth begins.

You can offer understanding.
You can show grace.
But you’re not required to absorb responsibility that was never yours to begin with.

Let people take ownership of their own actions.
Don’t carry the weight of choices you didn’t make.
You’re allowed to protect your peace.
And you're allowed to let people face the reality of what they chose
even if it's hard, even if it hurts.

Growth starts when blame ends.
And sometimes, the most loving thing you can do
is to stop saving people from the lessons they need to learn.

-Shii Marasigan

Before you speak,ask yourself if it’s kind.Before you act,ask yourself if it’s wise.Before you react,ask yourself if it’...
20/07/2025

Before you speak,
ask yourself if it’s kind.
Before you act,
ask yourself if it’s wise.
Before you react,
ask yourself if it’s worth it.

Because words can’t be unsaid.
Actions can’t be undone.
And regrets often come from moments we rushed,
when we should’ve paused.

Not every situation needs your reaction.
Not every comment needs your response.
But every choice you make leaves a mark
on someone else and on yourself.

Thinking first is not hesitation. It’s maturity.
It’s choosing awareness over impulse.
Peace over pride.
Growth over being right.

Take a breath.
Check your heart.
Respond with intention, not just emotion.
Because silence, patience or a second of thought
might save you from saying or doing something
that will echo longer than the moment ever deserved.

-Shii Marasigan

You may not see it yet but every sleepless night, every moment of doubt, every silent breakdown… is shaping you.Not just...
19/07/2025

You may not see it yet but every sleepless night, every moment of doubt, every silent breakdown… is shaping you.

Not just into someone who survives but someone who understands.
Someone who’s more patient with others.
More compassionate with pain.
More intentional with peace.
Struggles aren’t just battles, they are builders.

And slowly, they are crafting a version of you that is stronger in faith, kinder in heart and freer in spirit. You’re becoming someone your past self-needed and your future self will be proud of.

So don’t let temporary pain blind you from the permanent strength it’s creating in you.
Growth hurts — but what it brings?
Freedom. Self-respect. Grace. Unshakable peace.

Trust the process, even when it’s messy.
Rest if you must, cry if you need but don’t stop.
Your story isn’t over and these hard chapters will one day become the reason someone else feels less alone.

Keep going. You’re becoming.

-Shii Marasigan

Don’t give up.Not because today is easybut because one day, it will be.One day, you’ll wake up and realize the weight ha...
19/07/2025

Don’t give up.
Not because today is easy
but because one day, it will be.

One day, you’ll wake up and realize the weight has lifted.
The tears dried.
The pain softened into wisdom.
The confusion made space for clarity.
And the version of you who once doubted everything?
They’ll smile.
Because they made it.

Because you made it.

You don’t have to feel strong every day.
You just have to keep showing up.
Keep breathing.
Keep believing even if all you believe in right now is the possibility
that better days exist.

They do.
And they’re waiting.

-Shii Marasigan

I’ve come to realize that kindness doesn’t need a grand gesture.A simple “Are you okay?”A genuine “Take care.”A silent p...
19/07/2025

I’ve come to realize that kindness doesn’t need a grand gesture.
A simple “Are you okay?”
A genuine “Take care.”
A silent presence beside someone who feels alone.

These small acts?
They don’t take much.
Not time. Not money.
Just heart.
And yet they mean more than most people realize.

Because sometimes, just knowing someone cares…
is what keeps someone going.

Caring is free but it’s priceless.
In a world full of rushing, judging and comparing.
To care is to be human.
To care is to connect.
And to care even in small ways,
can shift someone’s entire day…
maybe even save a life.

Don’t hold back kindness.
Smile at a stranger. Check on your quiet friend. Be gentle with yourself, too. You never know who’s silently struggling or how much your presence means. You don’t need the right words, the perfect moment or a big reason.

Just care.
Because it truly costs nothing…
and yet it gives everything.

-Shii Marasigan

I didn’t know what kind of comfort I was missing until my dog came into my life.No words — just presence.No judgment — j...
19/07/2025

I didn’t know what kind of comfort I was missing until my dog came into my life.
No words — just presence.
No judgment — just love.
When the world felt too loud, too heavy, too unfair…
my dog just sat there.
Looked at me like I mattered like I was enough even in my worst days.

And that’s when I realized,
they weren’t just a pet.
They were peace wrapped in fur.
A silent healer.
An angel in disguise.

Some angels don’t have wings — they have paws.
They don’t preach — they just stay.
They don’t expect anything — just your love and maybe a treat or two.
But what they give back is everything:
companionship, loyalty, healing and quiet joy.
They save you in ways no one else can.

If you have a dog, hold them a little tighter tonight.
Thank them even if they don’t understand the words,
they feel your love.
And if you’ve lost one, know this:
they were never “just a dog.”
They were your angel. Your protector. Your home in a heartbeat.

Never take for granted the soul that sat beside you when no one else knew how.

-Shii Marasigan

In trying so hard to be seen, loved or accepted by others.I didn’t realize I was slowly disappearing.I was chasing peopl...
19/07/2025

In trying so hard to be seen, loved or accepted by others.
I didn’t realize I was slowly disappearing.
I was chasing people their attention, their approval, their time while abandoning the very things that once made me feel alive.

And then it hit me:
I was running toward them and away from myself.
And no matter how close I got to someone else, it never filled the emptiness of leaving my own purpose behind.

People will come and go.
Some will stay. Some will love you.
Some will leave without warning.

But your purpose?
That’s yours. It doesn’t ghost you. It waits, silently. Hoping you’ll come back to who you were before the world convinced you to chase anyone but yourself.

Stop running after people who keep running from you.
Let them go.
Redirect that energy into what you were born to do.
Fall in love with your life again.
Reconnect with the dreams you paused.
Rebuild the passion you buried.
Because while you're chasing people,
you're letting the most important part of you slip away.

Choose yourself.
Your purpose will never abandon you
but it does need you to stop abandoning it.

-Shii Marasigan

Every change that once scared you…started with a moment of courage.Maybe you didn’t feel ready.Maybe you were afraid of ...
19/07/2025

Every change that once scared you…
started with a moment of courage.
Maybe you didn’t feel ready.
Maybe you were afraid of losing, failing or being judged.
But you still took the step.

And that step?
It changed something, maybe everything.
Because nothing truly changes in life unless you’re brave enough to take that first chance.

You may not always see it right away but the changes that shape you the most are often the ones that terrified you at first.
They stretch you, shake you and eventually make you stronger.
So don’t underestimate that one moment of courage.
It may be the beginning of something you never imagined for yourself.

If you’re standing in front of something that feels big, scary or uncertain… take the chance anyway.
Fear doesn’t mean stop, it means something important is ahead.
You never grow by standing still.
And remember:
You’ve faced change before and you’re still here.
Stronger, wiser and braver than before.

-Shii Marasigan

The choices we make rarely unfold the way we pictured them in our minds. We assume things will go as planned that this p...
19/07/2025

The choices we make rarely unfold the way we pictured them in our minds. We assume things will go as planned that this path will lead to peace, that this person will stay, that this risk will pay off.
But life has its own way of teaching:
No matter how carefully you choose, you can't control how things turn out.

Sometimes the right choice still hurts.
Sometimes the best intentions end in regret.
And sometimes what you thought was a mistake ends up being your greatest growth.

You can plan, you can prepare but you can’t predict everything.
That’s the beauty and the heartbreak of life.
Every choice is a step into the unknown.
But even if the outcome isn't what you expected, that doesn’t mean it was the wrong decision.
It just means you're living, learning and becoming.

Don’t be too hard on yourself when your choices lead to pain or confusion. You did what you could with what you knew at the time.
Let go of the need for everything to make sense immediately.
Some answers only come in hindsight.
And sometimes, the most uncertain paths lead you exactly where you're meant to be — just not in the way you thought.

-Shii Marasigan

I’ve realized that some people reduce parenthood especially motherhood to an “investment”, as if raising a child is a bu...
18/07/2025

I’ve realized that some people reduce parenthood especially motherhood to an “investment”, as if raising a child is a business deal expecting a return.
But motherhood was never about that.
It’s about sacrifice not entitlement.
It’s about sleepless nights, unspoken pain, choosing your child’s needs over your own, again and again.
Not for reward… but for love.

Yet in today’s world, some children carry resentment when reminded of their parents’ sacrifices.
They hear “utang na loob” and feel guilt or pressure not gratitude.
But maybe the problem isn’t with remembering where you came from…
It’s in how the message is delivered and how it’s misunderstood.

Parenthood is not an investment.
It’s a responsibility, a calling, a labor of love.
Children don’t owe their parents in pesos but they do owe respect, understanding and compassion.

And parents don’t have the right to control their child’s life in the name of sacrifice but they deserve to be honored, not forgotten, for all they’ve done.

It’s not about debt.
It’s about perspective.
Gratitude doesn’t mean obligation, it means remembering with love.

To the children:
Don’t let the word "utang na loob" be a burden, let it be a compass.
Not to enslave you but to guide you in honoring those who helped you become who you are.
Remember: not everything your parents did was perfect but many of those sacrifices were out of love — not strategy.

To the parents:
Raise with love, not with the expectation of being repaid.
Let your children grow with freedom, not guilt.
And when they do look back with gratitude, you’ll know it came from their heart, not from pressure.

-Shii Marasigan

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