04/11/2025
When Ellen Adarna spoke about her breakup with Derek Ramsay, her words reflected not bitterness, but clarity and self-respect.
She said:
“’Yung guy nagbakasyon siya, nahuli ko. Kaya pag-uwi niya sa bahay namin, wala na akong gamit. Umalis na ako, hindi na ako nakipag-away o nagtanong. Maganda ako.”
It’s a short statement, but it says a lot.
What Ellen expressed wasn’t arrogance — it was boundaries. It’s the mindset of a woman who knows her worth and refuses to beg for explanations or attention that’s no longer freely given.
Her words, “Maganda ako,” may sound playful or confident on the surface, but it’s deeper than that. It’s a declaration of self-value. She’s saying, “I know who I am, and I don’t need to fight to prove my place in someone’s life.”
In a world where many tolerate betrayal or settle for less out of fear of being alone, Ellen’s response shows emotional maturity — walking away quietly instead of staying for closure that won’t heal anything.
It’s not about pride, it’s about peace.
And in her own unapologetic way, Ellen reminded women that real strength sometimes means leaving — not with anger, but with dignity.
